how much time do you spend not getting serviced?

[Toxic1979]

Open question for everyone....

How much time do you spend during an average session (let's say 1 hour) not being serviced?

I like a glass of wine, and some open chemistry time to get to know the girl a little bit. I always like it when they start the session, but within the one hour I would say 20-30 minutes of the time is spent hanging out.

I give it about 20-30 min, and if I'm really connecting with the sp, then I'll ask her to call in for another hour. So we can spend more time relaxing and making the process more comfortable. If the chemistry isn't there, or she had a rough night, I initiate the session without much expectation. My average sessions are 2 hours.

What about the rest of you.... ???

 

[TheDon]

20-25 minutes spent not being serviced sounds about right for me in a 1 hour session.

I too like to take the time to get to know my SP before things get started, it puts the girl at ease as it gives her time to warm up to you.

Whether she actually warms up to you is another question but I like to think it does make a difference.

In the odd situation where the girl initiates action right away we will alternate between playing around and getting to know each other which is just as good.

 

[Gentle]

Funny I never though about this since I have met so many different girls and basically it gets down to 5 types.
Once in a while I end-up with a nut case or a drama queen and nothing significant goes on.
Sometimes they don't feel ok so it takes a while and it's clear there will not be much 'chemistry'.
More often it looks like they need to take some time.
Sometimes she's the one who wants to start early.
And once in a while everything starts like crazy as soon as I open the door.

And since I like to invent all kindz of situations and scenarios... I often take them by surprise.

 

[maverickjoe]

New to the board and coming to Montreal for the first time in a couple of weeks.
So if you spend that much 'intro time', is there still enough time for msog? Or is it normal here that you only get 1 shot in an hour's appt?

 

[Siocnarf]

It depends if you include the foreplay as part of the service. I go more for GFE kind of service. Usually it starts pretty quick with some kissing and fondling. I prefer to do the chit-chat after the service while spooning in bed. I'd say the average sex time is about half the time of the session.

 

[PMikey]

It depends if you include the foreplay as part of the service. I go more for GFE kind of service. Usually it starts pretty quick with some kissing and fondling. I prefer to do the chit-chat after the service while spooning in bed. I'd say the average sex time is about half the time of the session.

I would definately consider foreplay as part of the service.

About half the time sounds about right.

In a typical 1 hour session the first 15-20 minutes is usually time for me to shower and "getting to know you" chit-chat.
The last 10-15 minutes is usually preparing to leave (shower, getting dressed, etc.)
That leaves roughly about half an hour (give-or-take) for the "service" part.

Although some may say that listening to me prattle on for 20 minutes is definitely providing a very demanding service.

Back when I was younger (and making more money than I am now) I used to book for a minimum of 2 hrs at a time and would spend a good 45 minutes chatting with the lady in question before anything would happen so as to (hopefully) build up some "chemistry".

The only time that pattern was blown to hell was one time when the escort literally pounced on me as soon as I let her in the door and was playing tonsil hockey on top of me pinned to the couch for 15 minutes before she came up for air and asked "What was your name again?"

Ah...good times...good times...

 

[Siocnarf]

Me, when I said half the time it's for actual sex, from when genitals get involved to orgasm, not including foreplay. I think foreplay is the best way to build a chemistry. Since it's hard to say how long sex will last on any given date I like not to wait too long before starting and I prefer to talk more afterward, when the hormones have settled down a bit.

 

[TheDon]

So is DATY considered foreplay or actual sex?

 

[TheDon]

New to the board and coming to Montreal for the first time in a couple of weeks.
So if you spend that much 'intro time', is there still enough time for msog? Or is it normal here that you only get 1 shot in an hour's appt?

If you go for MSOG it's better to start the action right away and get to know her in between SOG.

 

[Royal]

Depends if it's a first time meeting, or if it's a repeat. With repeats there can be no time wasted 0.

 

[maverickjoe]

I'm starting to enjoy this board even more. You guys rock!
I live in Western Canada where pussies are like a gold. Premium rates across the board. That's why I always go for msog and get straight to the action to get better vfm.
My time in Montreal will be limited, 3 days tops...and I'm planning to see a lot of your best girls here...already have a list so just hoping they are available.
Any suggestions would be welcome, just pm me as I don't want to hijack this thread off topic.

 

[Gentle]

Ever consider getting her an outfit she has to wear ?

Just say Hi ! How are you ?. She sees the money, take it.
Ask her to wear the oufit and as soon as she gets out of the bathroom just endulged sayin you can't get over how beautiful she is.

It takes about 5min at the max before the outfit comes off.

To paraphrase one wise man "what can she say that is worth $400.00 ?" :smile:

Unless she's a good trader/stockbroker !
Not like those ones ! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n9_nGwVV_gw

Seriously... we all complain about girls watching the time.... why are you guys doing it ?

 

[muffinbuffer]

I pay a bit of attention to time because it matters for my pace sometimes. I'd say a bit under half of the time is spent in reviewing boundaries, chat, recharging, showers, and the like.

 

[Gentle]

Nop ! not me ! I had a coach once who said "Never ever look at the time". It's my job.

It's a matter of getting into your 'zone'.
Try sitting down for a full 45min. (without moving) and you'll know/feel how long enough you have once you start moving right away.

But hey ! it depends for you.

Me, my goal is always to make sure she's overwhelmed.. gently but surely.
I have to get this feeling where I can see in her eyes she will ask herself (as soon as she go back thru that door) "What the F*ck just happened ?"
She has to be either out of breath, puzzled or in total confusion like : :yield:

 

[Siocnarf]

So is DATY considered foreplay or actual sex?

To me it's part of sex, like a BJ. Although technically we could call foreplay anything that comes before penetration.

Gentle, I don't have to watch the time. After a date, I can estimate if I had sex for 10%, 50% or 80% of the time. Also, I'm my own coach

 

[Marko Ramius]

I would say it depends on the girl, the range is 40-90%. Then there are the ones that do one service as quick as they can and then expect you to leave. There should be a thread on these people for offering low mileage.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I prefer when the first ,how do you call it? MSOG? is fast so we have time for an encore...
I aim at 1 hour of play ,that's why I never care for the incall setting where the chit chat before and the shower has to fit in the hour we have... I am as bad as keeping time as I am as following directions, which is topic for (too) numerous funny stories...this week I empty half of my phone batterie just by getting lost using my GPS loll

 

[Toxic1979]

To me.... LFK, DFK, DATY, BJ's are part of the sexual encounter. Lets face it... we're not talking at that point anymore. And HJ's also part of the sexual encounter. Never got a HJ while chatting about someones life long career goals! LOL... weird!

I find it odd that some SP's walk in and jump you right away..... and then decide to get to know a bit better! BOLD! But somewhat sexy! Never had it happen to me... yet!

This is awesome... keep it up! Interesting to see how others try to play out their sessions.

I always find 1 hour is not enough, for getting comfy, foreplay, the encounter, shower, and hang out! I always need 1.5 hrs guaranteed (even with weird chemistry). I always put in the extra effort to make the SP feel comfy and relaxed.