How much time is enough?

[Flyingby]

Curious to know what your “enough” time is.
not the sweet spot
No. “I love my atf so there is no time that is too much”

what is your max time that is worth it for you
Some guys are happy with 30 mins sessions
I usually book 90

but my “enough” or max time is 2 hours. After that I feel like I am overspending for not enough satisfaction

 

[gologill]

Curious to know what your “enough” time is.
not the sweet spot
No. “I love my atf so there is no time that is too much”

what is your max time that is worth it for you
Some guys are happy with 30 mins sessions
I usually book 90

but my “enough” or max time is 2 hours. After that I feel like I am overspending for not enough satisfaction

For me since I like long bbbj, daty, 69 i prefer a 90 min sessions too. In 1h for my self isn't enough if I want to go 2 sog. I like to take care of the girl too and not be in a rush so 90min or 2h is perfect.

 

[Lucky 64]

For me since I like long bbbj, daty, 69 i prefer a 90 min sessions too. In 1h for my self isn't enough if I want to go 2 sog. I like to take care of the girl too and not be in a rush so 90min or 2h is perfect.

I prefer 90 mins but with the top I do 2 hrs to take my time but could be too long if there is no connection.Sometimes I do 90 mins and break for 30 mins and then do another hour with a completely different girl it s really fun

 

[gologill]

I would add than with a girl i have never see i always go for 1 hour the first time to make sure we have a good connection.

After that I go for 90min or 2h. I prefer more session of 90 mi thant go to 3h session

 

[Fradi]

I prefer 90 minute which is my usual.

 

[bobbyc]

i spend about 15 to20k a year on 1 hour sessions with either sp's or massage places i can't imagine how much it would cost me if i start taking 90min or 2 hour sessions i guess it would be 30 to 40 k a year too much for my budget, but there is this one girl i would book for 90 min at an mp places every once in a while but unfortunately she has disappeared since last august i could probably spend all day with her and not get bored

 

[Carmine Falcone]

My personal preference is 2 hours.

I prefer having a great extended time with someone I click with rather than trying to see as many women as possible. I've met so many amazing women in Montreal where I still wanted to be all over them after two action-packed hours. I remember so many times where she's standing there and I tell her to get in the shower now or I'm putting her back on the bed. So yeah when the chemistry is good, even two hours seems too short.

 

[Cubbie]

Sometimes I do 90 mins and break for 30 mins and then do another hour with a completely different girl it s really fun

It sure is.

I used to get a 4-hour siesta room and then book two 1-hour appointments with two different girls, with an hour break in between.

Good times!

I must add that, as I get older, I go more for quality than quantity.

 

[IamNY]

How much time is enough?

Incall - after my pants are on, that's enough time.

Outcall - after her pants are on, that's enough time.

On a serious note, I would only do an hour with someone I haven't met and at most 2 hours for someone I really liked. A lot of the guys here like the extended amount of time and the so called "connection" but me I'm a realist. IMHO she is there because she needs the money, not because she enjoys spending all this time with you. One or two shots one hour, a hat trick for me will need an extra hour with a maximum of two hours.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Pretty much like @Flyingby 90 min is my favorite and standard duration time. But I do book 1 hour with first time encounters. There is only 2 or 3 girls with which I enjoy spending 2 hrs or more.

 

[Biggie Smalls]

90-120 is enough for me.

In my home city, there are providers offering 15-minute quick visits. I never got the attraction of this, as it's impossible to build up any tension in 15 minutes.

 

[Numerati]

4 hours is my ultimate fav as it is a dinner engagement. 2 hours if it is a tryst.

 

[cloudsurf]

Pretty much like @Flyingby 90 min is my favorite and standard duration time. But I do book 1 hour with first time encounters. There is only 2 or 3 girls with which I enjoy spending 2 hrs or more.

Exact same for me.
If I really click with a girl and its a 5th or 6th date, I will go for an extended dinner date up to 7 hours or an overnight.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Exact same for me.
If I really click with a girl and its a 5th or 6th date, I will go for an extended dinner date up to 7 hours or an overnight.

The difference with me is I dont "date" SWs, I have no need for it and, without making any judgement here, it doesnt really make sense to me. I still have more than enough real civy women in my contacts that would happily accompany me for a night out and be interested in me for real.

 

[cloudsurf]

Don`t get so technical. I use the term date interchangeably with appointment, rdv , and meet-up. A date could mean 90 minutes of non-stop sex.
Have you ever heard the term .....I have a date with my dentist ?or therapist ?

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Don`t get so technical. I use the term date interchangeably with appointment, rdv , and meet-up. A date could mean 90 minutes of non-stop sex.
Have you ever heard the term .....I have a date with my dentist ?or therapist ?

Yeah I get it, since english is not my language, I always assume a date was some kind of social romantic night out. I should have specify "dinner dates", or "sleepover date".

 

[sene5hos]

Interesting thread. I'm very surprised by the «average» time I see here (ie: 90-120min).
My ATF (from an outcall) told me that 95% of bookings are for one hour. Exact same feedback from my booker.. «MOST bookings are for one hour».
Bottom line: merb members do it longer than the others ;-)

I'm not like the average.

When I move for the first time = 30 or 60 min.

When the girl moves for the first time = 60 min.

If I enjoyed my encounter, I see the girl almost always for 60 min.

And I agree, the vast majority of meetings are for 60 min, except for the merbites who answered.

 

[Halloween Mike]

In an hour i can usually come and be totally satisfied. I mostly am done around the 45m mark most of the time (even if we chat 10 min at first). After that i enjoy a bit of chit chat while my date is still naked and then she can go shower (in outcall). Im a 1 shot guy (unless by some rare circonstances i lost it in the first 10 min of a blowjob wich did happen a couple times)

I never book 30 min even when possible (altough i must admit i considered it for some indies who have a 30 min almost half price mark since the rate per hour is double if not more as agencies) because i just prefer the full 1h experience.... The chat IS important. I kinda consider the 30 min of sex, 15 min of talk and "zone tampon that serve for shower and whatever" as part of the whole experience. Im not looking for 1h (or 55m or whatever) of sex. 90 min COULD be a 2 sog thing but i just don't feel that much to try to go for it... 2H seem too expensive for nothing.

 

[CydoniaNights]

1 hour is all i need, couple min intro, couple minutes for shower. 5-10 mins foreplay, 5-10 mins sex. Rest of the time talking and cuddling. Maybe if i’m feeling brave i’ll try for a round 2 but generally i dont.

 

[sene5hos]

Honestly, for me, it was a really overrated meeting.
The lady is kind, she is smart. But her body is really not what it's look like on her photos. She is not firm at all. It's a really dry session. I was really disappointed with her soft and not fit at all body
I left the place after 2h with a feeling of "It's was an ok meeting if I had pay 250$... But for 700$ I was expecting someone with a better care of herself. I felt that I had the expression of going for a test drive on a Mercedes and it was a Toyota at the end"
I don't want to be bad for the lady, but this forum is there to provide our experience and to avoid the same to my others merbs friends.

"This is exactly why I never took more than 60 minutes on my first meeting"
I don't like throwing my money out the window.
Thank you Merb.