How to DFK

[DouMan]

Think of DFK as a slow dance. .... and start waltzing.

breathe, flick, flick
breeeeeathe, flick, flick
breeeeeathe, flick, flick

thar ya go chweety poo

 

[T'storm]

I've always been a romantic lover and it started at a young age. My first girlfriend and i were 12 at the time and she already had nice B cup breasts that i fondled a lot and we kissed just as much(we never went all the way, not at that age). It's safe to assume that we watched a lot of romantic movies and tried to duplicate what we saw. That was when I experimented with her on how to French kiss, there were plenty of wrong way like sticking my tongue in each others mouth all the way without swirling, just the tip, sideways etc...
After kissing all summer long we came up with the (what we believed) the proper way, simple light massage on her tongue and reverse back to each other. Some gentle sucking of each others fluid(if you are into that).
I did find a provider that DFK the same way and told me that she never had anyone else kiss like that and that she was happy to have found me(I think I was happier then her).

 

[bodick7]

simple light massage on her tongue and reverse back to each other.

I call it "tongue battle". It can be very intense and passionate.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

sometimes when i get asked for dfk I get nervous because some clients just kinda harden their tongues and stick them in my mouth without any preparation. it's very hard to follow the lead in a passionate and loving way when this is done, and it makes me feel really uncomfortable. you should be working up to it slowly and gently, not attack the person with your mouth and tongue. sometimes i get surprised that 50 year old men never learned how to kiss properly... dfk has to happen naturally in my opinion. also, make sure to have a fresh breath. i have pulled away before gently because i felt really uncomfortable and i can see how that could make a gentleman feel rejected, but it has more to do with the gesture than my attraction and interest in him.. just be gentle and work your way up to it. passion has to build up

 

[LeDodo]

Well said and on point.
This should end this post.

That's not following MERB thread tradition

I have been coming to Montreal for quite a few years as well as other places in the US and it has just dawned on me that the type of so called dfk that I have sometimes received over the years has only happened in Montreal and some of the Montreal ladies really do not know how to dfk and maybe some of the guys like it that way or just havent ever been dfk'd correctly or what I consider correctly and should come naturally. .
Over the years I never pushed dfk or lfk on the ladies and sometimes I didnt even push closed mouth kissing on them but as I have gotten older I like at least a little closed mouth kissing. Over the years some of the ladies (only in Montreal) have stuck their tongue in my mouth and sort of swirled it around and I find that gross/disgusting and I dont like it and I have always thought that they do it because they really dont want to dfk but my latest experience has made me start thinking back. one year ago I saw an escort and she started sticking her tongue in my mouth and I kept trying to do it the way I consider correct but she didnt get it so she realized I didnt like it so she just close mouth kissed me. Now recently one year later I saw her again and this time when she started it , I asked her why do you kiss that way and she seemed surprised and asked me how I wanted her to kiss me so I said stick your tongue out and let me lead so she did and I eventually got her to dfk correctly but occasionally she would slip into her old habit but I would correct her and for the most part of our two hour session she dfk'd me correctly and nicely and it was obvious to me that she didnt mind dfkng me , she really didnt know how until I taught her. Now I will give you two examples of escorts that know how but may not do it correctly in montreal. several years ago I saw a hdh independent and she quickly became my atf and always saw her once or twice whenever I came to montreal. the key is she was not originally from Montreal and her primary language is spanish the first time I saw her she did the sticking her tongue loosely in my mouth and swirling it around so I wrote a review on ter (Where my handle is different than I use here) saying I would beg her to marry me if she would kiss correctly so the next time I saw her she started to kiss me correctly and I was surprised and said "when did you learn how to kiss"? and she said I read your review and I said how did you know it was me and she said by the review she could tell so that was funny and she always dfk'd me correctly as much as I wanted over the years so another example was another spanish lady not originally from montreal on our second dated dfk'd me correctly and of course I kissed her back and I said "oh you know how to kiss " and she said so do you. and at the time I thought she was just being nice complimenting me but now I think she was used to seeing guys in montreal that dont know how to kiss or they like it the other way. more recently another escort from monteal who I have seen a lot over the years but never did any tongue kissing started to give me some lfk but she did it nicely and correctly and she also is not originally from canada.. In the other cities I have visited escorts will either give you lfk or dfk and do it correctly or they will only do closed mouth kissing but I have never had any one except here in Montreal just stick their tongue in my mouth and swirl it around. So lets hear it guys how do you like your DFK and do you agree or disagree with me on this??

I'm going to repeat answers back then and say that I was shocked on the confidence about right or wrong and especially the teaching others part ...

Nonetheless somehow this topic interested me as recently a lady used her tongue and I was a bit surprised somehow. I just went with the flow and tried to sync but I was a bit clumsy and rusty to be honest...

Afterwards I thought about that, I didn't work my tongue a lot in the kissing in the past years as I have been with people who didn't use it so I just adapted to it (maybe because I was in Asia before?).

However it reminded me that back in France (the mother country of French kiss and long long time ago for me ...) the infamous tongue twirl was commonly used and that was the way I would as well. But sometimes depending of the situation it can be clumsy, like a little teeth clicking, twirl direction not in synch, but it's alright as in the action and the level of passion into the act it kind of made it hotter.

Having said that and since my latest tongue encounter, I am trying to rediscover the tongue play (only if she feels my breath/mouth ok though ...) and will see the response

Saw lot of funny acronyms in this thread: LFK DFK MFK

We could introduce JFK and PFK for a wink to US and Québec but that would mean Juicy French Kiss or Passionate French Kiss (my favorite hehe )

Or for those thinking the partner kissing is bad: an AFK for Alright French Kiss ... And that wink is for the gamers out there lol