How to DFK

[What's My Name]

How to French Kiss: 6 French Kissing Techniques - 2023 - MasterClass

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[DouMan]

Since our women seem to be so illiterate concerning DFK I was wondering if they had to pay to benefit from your knowledge?

No disrespect bro but you put forth some very strong comments not only concerning SWs.

Our ladies here are top notch and well appreciated and at par with any ladies anywhere.

If that makes us as clients sub par and not able to recognize "how it should be done", well so be it.

Once again, no disrespect bro, we just both have diverging opinions.

 

[Gazoo64]

I can’t follow what the OP is saying!?!
There are many ways to DFK, in general there’s no right or wrong. I tend to go with the flow and try to get in sync with the lady that I’m with.

I enjoy DFK’ing with some of my favourite SPs and they never mentioned that I don’t know how to DFK! One rule I follow is to not be overly aggressive and I don’t stick my tongue into her tonsils!
Again, there are different ways to DFK, and as long as both are enjoying it, it’s all good!

 

[What's My Name]

I can’t follow what the OP is saying!?!
There are many ways to DFK, in general there’s no right or wrong. I tend to go with the flow and try to get in sync with the lady that I’m with.

I enjoy DFK’ing with some of my favourite SPs and they never mentioned that I don’t know how to DFK! One rule I follow is to not be overly aggressive and I don’t stick my tongue into her tonsils!
Again, there are different ways to DFK, and as long as both are enjoying it, it’s all good!

Well said and on point.
This should end this post.

 

[Hemme]

I thought a good dfk meant biting the tongue?
i have been doing it wrong…

 

[Rebaynia]

I have never thought so hard on how I kiss before lol.. I've also never had a complaint, somehow I think it is something that is adaptable to each individual. I know I have kissed some bad kissers before, but often my complaint would be how wide they opened their mouth, or how slobbery their kiss was, like i don't want to be drinking his saliva when kissing...
But reading this I still am not sure.. lol.. I'd say I'm more playful kisser than shove the tongue in and swirl... I guess I have kissed people who did that, but I wouldn't call them bad kissers, just different techniques change it up along the way, and have fun with it... kiss like it's cunnilingus ...

 

[DouMan]

kiss like it's cunnilingus ...

Even though your comment brings a smile imho it is probably the best image possible to compare with.

Comparing the ladies lips with her labia majora, spot on, and her tongue to the labia minora, exciting.

Good call @Rebaynia but then again there are always some lousy cunnilingus wannabe givers

 

[Rebaynia]

Even though your comment brings a smile imho it is probably the best image possible to compare with.

Comparing the ladies lips with her labia majora, spot on, and her tongue to the labia minora, exciting.

Good call @Rebaynia but then again there are always some lousy cunnilingus wannabe givers

I appreciate the compliment.. but dear.. the tongue should be compared to the clit not the labia minora ... not if your cunni skills are on point...

And if she does it right the same can be said about treating his head the same way

The skill of kissing is very much transferable.

 

[Anong]

I have been coming to Montreal for quite a few years as well as other places in the US and it has just dawned on me that the type of so called dfk that I have sometimes received over the years has only happened in Montreal and some of the Montreal ladies really do not know how to dfk and maybe some of the guys like it that way or just havent ever been dfk'd correctly or what I consider correctly and should come naturally. .
Over the years I never pushed dfk or lfk on the ladies and sometimes I didnt even push closed mouth kissing on them but as I have gotten older I like at least a little closed mouth kissing. Over the years some of the ladies (only in Montreal) have stuck their tongue in my mouth and sort of swirled it around and I find that gross/disgusting and I dont like it and I have always thought that they do it because they really dont want to dfk but my latest experience has made me start thinking back. one year ago I saw an escort and she started sticking her tongue in my mouth and I kept trying to do it the way I consider correct but she didnt get it so she realized I didnt like it so she just close mouth kissed me. Now recently one year later I saw her again and this time when she started it , I asked her why do you kiss that way and she seemed surprised and asked me how I wanted her to kiss me so I said stick your tongue out and let me lead so she did and I eventually got her to dfk correctly but occasionally she would slip into her old habit but I would correct her and for the most part of our two hour session she dfk'd me correctly and nicely and it was obvious to me that she didnt mind dfkng me , she really didnt know how until I taught her. Now I will give you two examples of escorts that know how but may not do it correctly in montreal. several years ago I saw a hdh independent and she quickly became my atf and always saw her once or twice whenever I came to montreal. the key is she was not originally from Montreal and her primary language is spanish the first time I saw her she did the sticking her tongue loosely in my mouth and swirling it around so I wrote a review on ter (Where my handle is different than I use here) saying I would beg her to marry me if she would kiss correctly so the next time I saw her she started to kiss me correctly and I was surprised and said "when did you learn how to kiss"? and she said I read your review and I said how did you know it was me and she said by the review she could tell so that was funny and she always dfk'd me correctly as much as I wanted over the years so another example was another spanish lady not originally from montreal on our second dated dfk'd me correctly and of course I kissed her back and I said "oh you know how to kiss " and she said so do you. and at the time I thought she was just being nice complimenting me but now I think she was used to seeing guys in montreal that dont know how to kiss or they like it the other way. more recently another escort from monteal who I have seen a lot over the years but never did any tongue kissing started to give me some lfk but she did it nicely and correctly and she also is not originally from canada.. In the other cities I have visited escorts will either give you lfk or dfk and do it correctly or they will only do closed mouth kissing but I have never had any one except here in Montreal just stick their tongue in my mouth and swirl it around. So lets hear it guys how do you like your DFK and do you agree or disagree with me on this??

I do like the DFK, the way any lady like to do. But I need to learn the RIGHT way, how to kiss!
If you kindly make a video of yourself how to kiss proper. We all Ladies and men can benefit from your DFK Art.

 

[sigui01]

I do like the DFK, the way any lady like to do. But I need to learn the RIGHT way, how to kiss!
If you kindly make a video of yourself how to kiss proper. We all Ladies and men can benefit from your DFK Art.

 

[Anong]

That is cool too. I take all kinds!

 

[Anwar]

The style of kissing that you described as gross is exactly what I am looking for in my sessions with escorts, and I wish more of them DFK-ed this way. Kissing is extremely subjective, there is no "right" way of doing it. It's condescending to think millions of women in Montreal kiss the same way because you had a few experience that didn't meet your expectations.

People all over the world kiss and fuck the same way, culture does not dictate something as carnal and biologically hard-coded as sexual behavior.

 

[DouMan]

Life tends to prove that when all those that surround are seen as the problem, that the problem is rarely our surroundings.

 

[Rebaynia]

People all over the world kiss and fuck the same way, culture does not dictate something as carnal and biologically hard-coded as sexual behavior.

Oh I must call you out on that one. Vanilla people all kiss and fuck the same way. What is a general base for most. Doesn't work for everyone.
Sexual behavior can be so much more than it is for most people. There are many sensations to play with and while the majority has the same hard-coding, not everyone does. Fetishes and kink behaviors wouldn't be so taboo if we all had the same wiring.
Culture does not dictate it, but the individuals do.

 

[edjohnson]

Dfk should happen naturally and i cant make a video unlrss i had a camera that would fit inside my mouth
The vidro above is a petfect example of how NOT to kiss
I did teach 1 montreal lady and she picked it up quickly
I feel sorry for the guys that have nrver been kissed propely
Make a date with a lady that is passing throuh and not from quebec
Any ladies want a free lesson. Let mr know

 

[lapadict]

Love this disscusion but I'm still confused with Ed. So eventually the woman is sticking her tongue in your mouth but you just don't want her to do it right away?

 

[lapadict]

Anyway. I am looking for really really sloppy open mouth, lots of saliva DFK. The kind that we see in
those Brazillian lesbian kissing porn clips. One performer who stands out for me is Penelope Pink.

Check out those clips and I dare you to not be turned on and want to be a part of it. That's if you like the sloppy saliva aspect. I know it's not for everyone.

Any Montreal provider suggestions please?

 

[DouMan]

Wonder why drooling bulldog comes to mind?

 

[cpp433]

Kind of a lost art, seems like the girls that do it is constant tongue rammed all the way down your throat the whole time

 

[AirBo]

I can't believe I'm contributing my wisdom to such a thread lol

What a weird era we live in when people don't even know the basics of kissing, touching and eroticism.

Think of DFK as a slow dance. Open your month a bit, stick your tongue out so very slightly (like just the tip, your partner will do the same), gently touch your partner's tongue, close your eyes (by opposition to staring deep down her soul) and start waltzing. Most of the time, lips will touch (almost lock) as well. DFK can be deeper and more intense but let it come naturally. Learn how your partner dances first then adapt.

DFK is sensual, not rough... too much tongue and too much saliva will definitely turn your partner off.

DFK is sweet and tender. It's the foreplay of foreplay. It's part of a full GFE menu, not PSE. It won't make anyone have an orgasm but it will turn up the heat if you know how to dance.

For what you're looking for, I'd pick an SP who provides rough sex, DT, FF, gagging, spit in mouth and such stuff... someone who likes sex intense and messy

Good luck with your search