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How can one get in a porn movie or scene?
Feel like it would be difficult for me because I am a guy, but for women it should be easier non?
 

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it would be a good start because if you dont you need to perform in these asian micro dick videos
Or fuck a fan.

Although now the "fan" is somehow by an incredible chance and randomness a big ass dick lol
 

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I remember some documentary where a guy asked how to get into the porn industry as a male...

"Can you get hard on command and perform in a room with a bunch of random people watching impatiently not giving a fuck while eating doughnuts?"
"Are you willing to do gay for pay?"

Nowadays, I'd say create some OF content and put it out there as your CV.
 
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"Pour les hommes, la performance est plus importante que l’apparence." I'm always curious to understand what is the meaning behind "performance" it seems it can vary
Ability to maintain an erection for a long time. Ability to last a long time during action before ejaculation (Almost certainly with pharmacological assistance)
 
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"Pour les hommes, la performance est plus importante que l’apparence." I'm always curious to understand what is the meaning behind "performance" it seems it can vary

A girl can fake it... a guy can't. If he can't get / stay hard or cum when needed, they can't finnish the shoot.
 
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Ability to maintain an erection for a long time. Ability to last a long time during action before ejaculation (Almost certainly with pharmacological assistance)
A girl can fake it... a guy can't. If he can't get / stay hard or cum when needed, they can't finnish the shoot.
But it's insinuating that the endowment is less important? Kinda hard to believe lol
 

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Here's an interview with a male porn actor. He started with gay porn, was a gay escort and then transitioned to straight porn. He gives very realistic and fairly unflattering insights into the industry. Bottom line - if you want to be a male porn star, be prepared to be either constantly hopped on pharmaceuticals or be prepared to inject chemicals into your dick so you can stay hard LOL.

 

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But it's insinuating that the endowment is less important? Kinda hard to believe lol

I think its saying you don't have to be good looking as long as you can perform (get hard and cum when needed). That explains a lot...
 
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Une grosse bite d'au moins 6 pouces et demi (la norme que la majorité des femmes préfèrent) serait un sacré atout. Comme un autre merbiste a dit avoir un OF aiderait tellement et avoir des vidéos où tu fourres des escorts. Pour un homme c'est très difficile mais jamais impossible d'accéder dans ce milieu.
 

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Dick size doesn’t matter (though, yes, larger sizes may get more attention), but there are many pornstars & adult content creators out there that are average below the belt and are very successful / popular in the industry.
What helps someone stand out in the adult content scene is finding a specific niche. In a sea of creators, having a distinct niche makes you stand out and helps you connect with that type of audience.


1. Create adult content and post it on platforms like OnlyFans, Fansly, or LoyalFans and X (only snippets on X).

2. Promote / market yourself online by sharing snippets of your photos and videos. The more you show, the more you’ll build an audience. (Instagram, Twitter, fetlife etc)

3. Collaborate with other content creators ONCE YOU’VE ESTABLISHED CREDIBILITY. Don’t just open a site with nothing to show. Many women receive tons of collaboration requests from guys who have no content, no followers, no sales, and no traction. It comes across as cheap or like they’re trying to sleep with us for free, or worse - social climbing. Building a platform takes years of hard work, and not just anyone is going to get a green light to collaborate. Everyone starts somewhere, but using people for exposure is not the way to go. I’ve made that mistake once, and it backfired - and for my karma, I had a new client book me, and when he showed up at my incall, all he could talk about was his himself, his Twitter, his OnlyFans and how he “makes content” LMAO. I’m like, “Okay, cool.” But at the end of the session, he says, “I need you to add me on Twitter and let’s collab.”
I told him to get the fuck out. It was clear he wasn’t there for me; he was just trying to use my brand to boost his own. When I went to check his shit online - he had nothing to fkn show for it. Typical.

Women also have the right to choose who they want to collaborate with, so don’t take it personally if you’re rejected. Most women in this industry don’t have the luxury of picking their clients looks wise, so it’s totally within their right not to film with someone who doesn’t fit their aesthetic / vibe. You have no idea how many clients think they’re the fkn shit and offer to film with us… like bro. You don’t got it. Please stop. But I digress. Hahaha. Everyone thinks they’re pornstars. It’s nuts.

A strong public portfolio on social media is key. X allows adult content, while Instagram can be used for teasers (though it’s strict about nudity and TOS)… But snippets on X is great. You can even find promo pages - many pornstars & content creators use promo pages to help with visibility.

The more you work on branding yourself and posting consistently, the more visibility you’ll gain. With time, you’ll build a reputation and may even attract offers from major adult entertainment companies, potentially landing a contract. You can even apply to these companies yourself. Sometimes they’re overwhelmed with the amount of talent there is online.

Important Note: There are already a lot of “no-face” performers out there. The market doesn’t need more faceless or masked content IMO. People like seeing reactions, faces, etc, so be ready to show your face and connect with your audience.

Another important note: A lot of people think the adult content industry is a quick and easy gig. Just post one video, and boom, success. Fell right into your lap!

Reality check: It doesn’t work like that.

Building a platform takes hours, days, weeks, and months of hard work. Nothing happens overnight. You’re not going to get rich off one video or one post. It takes relentless grinding; creating, marketing, engaging, and constantly improving. If you’re not ready to put in the work, you’re in the wrong game. It is a job unlike most people think.

It honestly makes me laugh when guys say, “Girls have it easy, they just post pics and videos.” It’s so much more than that. If you have collabs you need to plan for: routine FULL PANEL testing, travel expenses, meals, lodging, lighting, camera equipment, makeup (perhaps not for men), lingerie/ costumes, toys, video editing software, the list goes on and on and on and on. This is the same if you’re alone minus the travel expenses. People want quality. Not stuff filmed from a potato.

THEN.
You’ve got customers on paid fan sites asking for the most ridiculous shit - wanting personal chats for free, like you’re some kind of Santa Claus. This is a full-time job, no matter how much it might sound like a joke. The amount of work, time, and energy it takes to create content, engage with fans, and deal with all the nonsense is insane. All they do is wait for you to come up with more stuff. They don’t think what goes on behind the scenes hahaha.

Anyways. Thanks for coming to my ted talks :D
Hope this helps!
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^^^^^ Great summary. But the thing is I do not think any male performer will get much views unless there are women in it. In order for him to build his brand and get followers he needs women. It is kind of a viscious cycle. But what do I know about this?
 

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^^^^^ Great summary. But the thing is I do not think any male performer will get much views unless there are women in it. In order for him to build his brand and get followers he needs women. It is kind of a viscious cycle. But what do I know about this?
You might think so but this isn’t necessarily true. I know many male content creators that only do solo masturbation… but also be prepared to have gay men as your fan base and interact with them. That’s the way she goes!
Many women love this content but gay men love solo content. Lots of POV, self-edging, moaning, toys, etc etc etc. and if you have a niche even better because you’ll stand out!

Edit: some of these content creators then grew and started collaborating and integrating scenes with other women etc etc. but many stay solo and it works for them. There’s lots of fetishes out there!
 

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You might think so but this isn’t necessarily true. I know many male content creators that only do solo masturbation… but also be prepared to have gay men as your fan base and interact with them. That’s the way she goes!
Many women love this content but gay men love solo content. Lots of POV, self-edging, moaning, toys, etc etc etc. and if you have a niche even better because you’ll stand out!
True say for that. A man that wants to go solo will get gay men. If he wants to build his brand he will have to entertain gay men.
 
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True say for that. A man that wants to go solo will get gay men. If he wants to build his brand he will have to entertain gay men.
Lots of gay for pay actors out there too. I don’t recommend it if it’s outside your comfort zone - especially if OP is just starting out. Hahaha. But the reality is that his fan base will be 95% male.

I personally know a friend who’s a gay male pornstar (isn’t gay in his personal relationships). He only tops on scene. Exit only no entry hahaha. Butt* you see? The gays love him whether he’s solo or not which facilitates his content afterwards online.

(Also im not telling OP to just become a gay pornstar and to start giving it or taking it up the ass) I’m just saying. This is what the fan base will look like. Even the gays love Johnny sins and watch his porn.
 
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Here's an interview with a male porn actor. He started with gay porn, was a gay escort and then transitioned to straight porn. He gives very realistic and fairly unflattering insights into the industry. Bottom line - if you want to be a male porn star, be prepared to be either constantly hopped on pharmaceuticals or be prepared to inject chemicals into your dick so you can stay hard LOL.

Resonating with the interview about starting with gay market
 
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