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You’ve probably been rejected by a service provider for your introductory message if not, congratulations!
Let me help you get out of the introductory message zone.
Text message
Please drop the “avail?” “$$$?” “send your address” messages. Absolutely no one likes them, they make you sound like you have no manner, like you are a horny teen*ger and like you wouldn’t respect us.
Do not start by asking the address without even saying hi or anything. Just creepy.
Unless the rates are not on the ad, do not start by asking them. Many of us have different rates for different packages and we are not going to start listing them and confuse you.
You want to keep it short and sweet?
Try “Hi, are you available right now?” “Hi, are you available today?” “Hi, when is your next availability?”
You want to keep it short, sweet and be polite?
“Hi I’m X, are you available right now?” “Hi I’m X, when’s your next availability?”
That way the SP can choose to address you by your name instead of the infamous “hi babe”.
You want to keep it short, sweet, polite and be proactive?
“Hi I’m X, I’d like to book today for 60 mins, are you available?” “Hi I’m X, I’d like to book today for 60 mins incall. What info do you need?”
Email
Don’t type the whole thing in the title. A good title to catch someone’s attention is the date you’d like to book. That way the provider or assistant knows she has to open it before a certain date.
“November 23rd” and “incall November 23rd”
would be excellent titles.
“Avail bb incall what’s your price I’m horny”
Not so much…
“Hi so&so,
I’m X. I’d like to meet you for a 60 mins date incall. Let me know when would be a good time and what info you need.
Thanks”
See it wasn’t long and wasn’t complicated either.
Phone call
I personally do not know anyone answering phone calls but if you happen to reach someone who does accept them, please don't be creepy. Keep it professional and state what you're looking for. If you call someone and they're not answering it can mean two things; they do not book through phone calls or they are busy. Do not call back 20 times in a row just to make sure.
Agency text messages
Make the booker’s job easier and state what you’re looking for in the first message. They receive a lot of text messages so don’t send the info one message at a time. Just rip off the band-aid and send it all at once
“Hi I’m X, I’d like to book so&so for 60mins at 3pm”
Just make it so that your message or email stands out but for good reasons.
Other useful threads
How to book an independent escort
OnlyFans FAQ
You’ve probably been rejected by a service provider for your introductory message if not, congratulations!
Let me help you get out of the introductory message zone.
Text message
Please drop the “avail?” “$$$?” “send your address” messages. Absolutely no one likes them, they make you sound like you have no manner, like you are a horny teen*ger and like you wouldn’t respect us.
Do not start by asking the address without even saying hi or anything. Just creepy.
Unless the rates are not on the ad, do not start by asking them. Many of us have different rates for different packages and we are not going to start listing them and confuse you.
You want to keep it short and sweet?
Try “Hi, are you available right now?” “Hi, are you available today?” “Hi, when is your next availability?”
You want to keep it short, sweet and be polite?
“Hi I’m X, are you available right now?” “Hi I’m X, when’s your next availability?”
That way the SP can choose to address you by your name instead of the infamous “hi babe”.
You want to keep it short, sweet, polite and be proactive?
“Hi I’m X, I’d like to book today for 60 mins, are you available?” “Hi I’m X, I’d like to book today for 60 mins incall. What info do you need?”
Don’t type the whole thing in the title. A good title to catch someone’s attention is the date you’d like to book. That way the provider or assistant knows she has to open it before a certain date.
“November 23rd” and “incall November 23rd”
would be excellent titles.
“Avail bb incall what’s your price I’m horny”
Not so much…
“Hi so&so,
I’m X. I’d like to meet you for a 60 mins date incall. Let me know when would be a good time and what info you need.
Thanks”
See it wasn’t long and wasn’t complicated either.
Phone call
I personally do not know anyone answering phone calls but if you happen to reach someone who does accept them, please don't be creepy. Keep it professional and state what you're looking for. If you call someone and they're not answering it can mean two things; they do not book through phone calls or they are busy. Do not call back 20 times in a row just to make sure.
Agency text messages
Make the booker’s job easier and state what you’re looking for in the first message. They receive a lot of text messages so don’t send the info one message at a time. Just rip off the band-aid and send it all at once
“Hi I’m X, I’d like to book so&so for 60mins at 3pm”
Just make it so that your message or email stands out but for good reasons.
Other useful threads
How to book an independent escort
OnlyFans FAQ
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