How to quit the Hobby/Addiction?

[Lunaseraphim]

I think that there are more of us than you think who are actually friends with the companions we have been seeing for many years and that we not only appreciate their “work” and efforts but genuinely care bout them. You can call it the kind of love that you have for a good friend. I consider myself lucky to have had the ladies I see in my life as they have made it much better and easier to bear with the loss of my wife . No it is not the same and it is not comparable, you cannot compare it with someone you shared your life with, your dreams with, someone you had children with and built a family with that is not something you can purchase for any amount.
There are many young ladies that are a pleasure to spend time with as they are not only gorgeous but kind, interesting and some have an amazing sense of humour as well.
Yes it may be a “job” and many people love their job but it is a very unique and different type of job that again is not really comparable with any other, you don’t have sex with your hairdresser or bank teller.
Respect and kindness need to go both ways and if you are lucky you can find both.
I am certainly grateful and appreciate the ladies I have been seeing for many years.

You're basically agreeing with me.
We're on the same page.

Coping with loss and looking for companionship is a very good reason to book. All I'm saying is it's not true we are cold hearted people out there to hypnotize men into giving us all their money. And yes the fact that it's work doesn't erase the intimacy and respect and kindness. I believe I'm kind to my clients, and it is a type of relationship.

 

[Fradi]

You're basically agreeing with me.
We're on the same page.

We are always on the same page and in agreement when we say that there are kind and respectful people on both sides. This has always been my point.
Just because it is a paid for arrangement doesn’t mean it can’t be pleasant and pleasurable and it is possible to form a a nice relationship even friendship with each other over time.
Human beings can be nice to each other no matter what their profession is, we all have friends, family that we love and care for it is simply treating people the way you would like to be treated by them. Not difficult to do at all lol.