How to you quick CIM habbit completely?

[RoyBatty69]

I am been a Hobbyist for a little while now. When I started, I was able to come normally with the condom in a woman's virginal. Some where along the line I lost that ability and could only come with CIM. I don't know happen. Could it be bad influence from the porn industry because most of the movies now often end in CIM/CIF? I haven't watch porn for a long time but the result is still the same. I even try different brands of condom but still no luck. Help

 

[EagerBeaver]

I can generally cum faster with CIM than with covered intercourse, but I can come through either technique. CIM is a little more intense and intimate and I usually prefer to end that way depending on who I am with. I would suggest using a better condom like Kimono which is a thinner but very strong construction. Some ladies have a very good body language in intercourse and it can be fun to cum that way too, so I say experiment with better condoms but no matter what CIM will likely always make you come faster. And sometimes holding out is a good thing and you just save the CIM for last. Develop a game plan and execute it depending on your partner and what she likes and wants.

 

[Maria Divina]

It might be not related, but... possibly maybe try to masturbate with gentle pressure with your hand.
Sometimes, when men are going hard on themselves, they need to have direct stimulation.
And yes, it is reversible. Don't worry.
So, if this is the case, just touch yourself lightly.

 

[jalimon]

Why would you want to quit this habbit? CIM is probably our most intense sex fantasy, probably even better then bareback (my last bareback is 1 year older than my youngest son, so a long time ago ).

Like EB says sometimes I cannot hold on, but if I "survive" the first 20 minutes, for me it means the only way I can finish is with a bj and CIM is my preference anyhow.

In regards to "Could it be bad influence from the porn industry because most of the movies now often end in CIM/CIF"

Not for me. For me it's the fantasy of the girl offering you this immense pleasure. It's gets to my head and I "explode"

Cheers,

 

[RoyBatty69]

Thank you Everyone, Sorry for the Mis spelling the word QUIT.

 

[Numerati]

Nothing to do with porn which I can think of. CIM is much more intense is that the girl is grabbing and stroking hard and intense which you don't experience in intercourse. While at the same time the head of your cock is being intensely stimulated as well. When she senses that you are about to explode she revs up that intensity in all fronts with the stroking, grabbing, sucking and licking. No matter how tight she is down there it can't replicate the feeling of the simultaneous attack on your cock like a genuine enthusiastic CIM. If you are uncircumcised that feeling is multiplied.

The perfect girl that comes to mind is the now retired Chloe Milan. The way she knows her way in advancing and pulling back at the right time and knowing when to speed things up again.

To quit CIM? I can say that don't persue it if it is a girl you plan to see more than a few times.

 

[RoyBatty69]

Thank you, EagerBeaver. I will try to develop a game plan.
Thank you, Maria Divina. Great advice, and I will take that into consideration.
Thank you, Jalimon. Yes you are right that CIM great but too much of a good thing can be bad I was want to be to come the normal way too. Not all SP offer CIM.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I never came from vaginal penetration... never was able. Obviously i didn't try it often, always wanted to keep the payload for the moneyshot at the end but even when i tried i never was able to achieve it. But to be honest it kinda feel like a waste to me. Even if i see somebody that don't allow cim/cof, i rather go for a Cob... at least have a visual ...

 

[RoyBatty69]

To quit CIM? I can say that don't persue it if it is a girl you plan to see more than a few times.

Thank you, Mumerati.

 

[Numerati]

Majority of the condoms suck because they are too thick in my opinion. Best one I use is the Okamoto 004. It was the thinnest condom out in the market. Now they have the 003 but I am afraid that might break. Feels like you are wearing nothing at all.

After you are hooked to that amazing CIM with that specific girl your brain will constantly crave it with that girl. Unless you know it is the last time you will ever see each other again save it for the last hoorah. Funny how th OP brought this issue up. There are times I would not repeat with a girl because of that amazing CIM she pulled.

 

[jalimon]

Thank you, Jalimon. Yes you are right that CIM great but too much of a good thing can be bad I was want to be to come the normal way too. Not all SP offer CIM.

For me what I liked then is to step out of my comfort zone. Cannot come while in doggy, ask her to lift her hands up like they'd be tied (or better just tie her up for real!) and it may work! Still cannot? Ask her to vocalize a little bit.
I have had girls say all kind of things to me. I really works. A girl turning her head back and that simply say "please fuck me" or "vas y fort" will get to your head. Even better if she repeats it many times. It does usually work for me.

Variety works too. A nice ebony or a sweet asian girl will make me come fast, very fast. While I could be at it for 2h hours with a fantastic quebecoise

And this was the exact same when I was with real girl friend. Probably even more. Good communication and adding role play, fantasy or anything to spice up will help

Cheers,

 

[RoyBatty69]

For me what I liked then is to step out of my comfort zone. Cannot come while in doggy, ask her to lift her hands up like they'd be tied (or better just tie her up for real!) and it may work! Still cannot? Ask her to vocalize a little bit.
I have had girls say all kind of things to me. I really works. A girl turning her head back and that simply say "please fuck me" or "vas y fort" will get to your head. Even better if she repeats it many times. It does usually work for me.

Variety works too. A nice ebony or a sweet asian girl will make me come fast, very fast. While I could be at it for 2h hours with a fantastic quebecoise

And this was the exact same when I was with real girl friend. Probably even more. Good communication and adding role play, fantasy or anything to spice up will help

Cheers,

Thanks Jalimon,

Wow, you have many good ideas. The handcuffs idea is out because last time I tried that was a SP, I forgot where I putted the keys and it took me almost 15 minutes to find it , The SP almost cry and went bonker on me, still a scar on that session so that's out. I have an allergy to Asian chicks, I hated when Asian chick say "Me love you long time" it freak me out some like mommy speak so that's definitely out!!! The loud vocal things I have some bad experiences in the past with because last time the SP yell "Who is your Mommy, ShawnJeShawnje?Fuck me, ShawnJeShawnje", Mom came down basement with the cop and I got bitch laps hard and I was grounded for a month Now if there is any Ebony that similar to Alicia Key or Beyonce' or Lessie Jones of SNL then I think it will work! Thanks again, Jalimon.

 

[detour098deleted]

I agree with Jalimon it's totally mental.I will last forever on my 2ND sog.First sog I will cum in vaginal or cim equally depends of intensity of session.ONCE I did a 3some MMF with this beautiful SP.I was on my second sog so I knew it would be a long affair we were fucking this beautiful girl in every position very intense session.She was very excited.I whispered in her ear you want to do dp.She agreed as long it was me doing the anal.Man my mind was in overdrive excited could not believe it.She got on top of the other guy and I positioned myself to do anal .Guess what I usually can control my sog .I barely got the head in and got to excited and exploded.Paid for anal that lasted 2 seconds.

I did a little wrestling match with a beautiful sp the other night.It got me very excited .When I penatrated the girl I barely could contain myself did a couple of strokes and lost my load in seconds pulled out of her and removed condom and blew my load all over her chest and face.

SO WRESTLING MATCH OR DP and it should fix your problem.

 

[detour098deleted]

In one of the 4some I did with Jalimon .One of the girls was on top of me riding me hard .She came close to my ear.She said put a couple of fingers in my ass which I did .Man those few words at the right time got me so excited I blasted my load and that was my 3rd. Sog that evening.So yes words work.Well for me it does I guess I'm a lucky guy.

 

[starry]

I guess everybody is different. CIM is not really a habit I need to break. BBBJ with CIM is a good (and one might say guaranteed successful) ending. I like it both where the lady is showcasing her skills but sometimes even more when I am fucking her mouth. It may even be the best finish when what I am after is simple sexual gratification. But no way is it my best experience, that is for when I have an intimate/affectionate relationship with the lady in which case I absolutely much prefer cumming inside in the course of say cowgirl where we are close face to face. I see that as much more rewarding overall. I guess I'm just an incurable romantic. Must agree that words can be a major turn on. When my fav whispers "fuck me" in my ear in the course of the action I get pretty turbocharged.
As for how to break the habit if you need to - you need to get a new brain. In other words, like so much else in this biz its mainly mental IMO.

 

[jalimon]

When my fav whispers "fuck me" in my ear in the course of the action I get pretty turbocharged.

Totally agree. It's not only the excitement of the girl, it's the fact that if she says that in the heat of the moment and you feel it real, it means she has completely let go. This is enough for a release

In one of the 4some I did with Jalimon .One of the girls was on top of me riding me hard .She came close to my ear.She said put a couple of fingers in my ass which I did .Man those few words at the right time got me so excited I blasted my load and that was my 3rd. Sog that evening.So yes words work.Well for me it does I guess I'm a lucky guy.

Haha You impressed the hell out of me that night!! Was that the one you nearly COF me?

Age does matter. When you are young it's all about action and physique. When you reach 40+, the brain is your sexual engine.

Cheers,

 

[RoyBatty69]

Thanks Detour098 & Jalimon. Are guys are Pros. I am learning a lot from you two professors. Please let me know when you guys's new book is coming out so I can get a copy

 

[Gen. Grubozaboyschikov]

No sex for a month and you will cum at the sight of a Sears lingerie flyer.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Odd question, when you can only cum with CIM what happens when you get a BBBJ and the second you are about to cum she removes her mouth, does the orgasm stop, probably not.

 

[jalimon]

Odd question, when you can only cum with CIM what happens when you get a BBBJ and the second you are about to cum she removes her mouth, does the orgasm stop, probably not.

It happened to me recently with one of the best Euphoria girl ever! She pulled out I guess a few second too soon. I had like a dry orgasm (whatever that is) but no release. I guess my brain was too much focused on the CIM.

Cheers,