I am thinking of getting a SP to help me last longer ? Practice makes perfect right?!
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Yes! But be sure to ask beforehand if that's something the provider is comfortable with, also you will need to feel at ease with the person you choose to help you calm down and try different exercises 
I would also suggest reading on the subject and/or consulting a sexologist for tips.
I would also suggest reading on the subject and/or consulting a sexologist for tips.Your are right, I do need to feel at ease and calm. Something that is not always easy! Staying calm. I will definitely do some readingYes! But be sure to ask beforehand if that's something the provider is comfortable with, also you will need to feel at ease with the person you choose to help you calm down and try different exercises
Like u change condom and go right away? That is amazing !
I had the same issue, and to a certain extent I still do, but I've improved. Before I tell you what I've learned, it's worth noting that according to studies done on this question (there are not many), the average duration of intercourse is 5 min! Most men last between 3 and 7 minutes! Premature ejaculation (1-2 min or less) is very common (again, look it up). it's fair to say that most men would like to last between 7 and 15 minutes. (Source: How long does sex last? (medicalnewstoday.com)Your are right, I do need to feel at ease and calm. Something that is not always easy! Staying calm. I will definitely do some reading
Here's what I learned
1) As mentioned in previous posts, being relaxed is very important. When you are nervous, your body activates the fight or flight response, which triggers ejaculation
2) you'll most likely last longer for your second shot, but your orgasm will be less intense
3) find an experienced provider (not "new in the business") to test chemistry/connection with her in the first appointment. If yes, you can mention your issue, but no need to insist (see point 2). At the end of the session, you can ask her if she would like to help you in future sessions, which should ideally be 90-120 min to allow relaxation and time to test various strategies (you'll be taking it slow)
Good luck. It can be done.
Now we know why its "King" RonSanders....lol. Had to fix the spelling, was driving me crazy.
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Another thing that can help you or anyone is 100 mg caffeine (available for cheap at any pharmacy), taken 2 hours before intercourse. Yes, you read that right. Link below. Time to ejaculation improved from about 2 min to about 5 min in the treatment group.
The effect of on-demand caffeine consumption on treating patients with premature ejaculation: a double-blind randomized clinical trial - PubMed (nih.gov)
As you can see, it's a topic I have researched quite a bit
The effect of on-demand caffeine consumption on treating patients with premature ejaculation: a double-blind randomized clinical trial - PubMed (nih.gov)
As you can see, it's a topic I have researched quite a bit
I can last a long time, right up until someone tries to suffocate the little guy..
I am sure if you address some of the indies here, they can give you an idea of how they can help. Have you tried a blind fold? Maybe your getting too worked up. Out of sight kind of thing. Or slow down a little. Maybe knock one out of the park before hand.
My problem could be psychological, I tend to go soft as soon as the condom is introduced. Rectified by yanking the sucker off and finishing other ways.
You should not focus only on your orgasm and penetration. Learn to enjoy oral, touch, kisses and all other amazing sexual acts
To last longer in bed, there are several strategies you can try. First, engage in extended foreplay to gradually build arousal. Practice the stop-start method by pausing or decreasing stimulation when you feel close to climax, then resume sexual activity. Another technique is the squeeze method, where you apply gentle pressure to the base of the penis or the frenulum to reduce arousal. Additionally, exploring different positions that allow for slower movements can help. Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles through Kegel exercises can improve control. Lastly, using thicker condoms or desensitizing creams may help delay ejaculation.
Very true. ED (erectile dysfunction), is a broad subject. Speaking for intercourse, it is defined as less than 1min or longer than 30min.
To OP, Since the average is 5min, YOU ARE TOTALLY FINE! However, if you are not happy with that, many mentioned many advices above and I agree with most of them.
Im not against the usage of external pharmaceutical helps, but I think it’s better to try things organically and then, if you want, try all the external helps you want. Drugs resistance over time usage is common. Then you need time to find a new one and the wait time on trial and error of new methods can be frustrating.
Another question, how willing are you ready to put your ego aside? We can do it the “diplomatic” way, or tell the truth and the truth is not always easy to swallow.
Just to be precise, erectile dysfunction (unable to get or maintain an erection) is different than premature ejaculation. I agree with the rest of your post.
If you're open to the pharmaceutical route, you can try taking Priligy + Viagra. It's a combination very commonly used by porn stars.
Girls will be begging you to finish after you've been pounding them hardcore into all their holes for 30-60 minutes.
The primary limiting factor of how long you'll want to last will be your cardiovascular endurance.
That said, I would only recommend doing this in your private sex life, after discussing it with your partner, not with SPs.
Having sex is the job of an SP and they will probably appreciate you much more if you're done after 5 minutes than pounding them sore for an hour when they still have 5 clients lined up after you.
No, Viagra won't really help you last longer. Priligy will help you last longer. Viagra will help keep you hard for 30-60 minutes straight while you're fucking a girl non-stop. That's why those 2 substances are often used together, especially by male porn stars.
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