I gotta ask the ladies in here....

[bj2318]

I have to ask...

I'm a bit shy about calling in a 20-21 year old lady to spend time with me in my many business trip to Montréal. I always look for older ladies around 30ish... sometimes the 30 ish are more like 40's and sometimes disappointing.

look, I'm 50, average looking, not fat but like most 50 an extra 10 pounds, balding some, I' a nice guy, respectful, rich, divorced and don't need the hassle of a girlfriend... and to be honnest I'm not turned on by most 45 year olds.... still attracted to younger girls and it is not socially acceptale for a man in my position to get a regular girlfriend in her 20's or 30's.

I want to know if the ladies see many guys my age or older.. what you really think about them? is it gross for you to have sex with a man more than twice your age?

Am I passed my game here? and at my age, should I not seek escorts especially in early 20's?... god knows I love your hot curves...

last thing I want is to know that the girl with me is having a bad time and grossed out by the guy pounding her..

just wondering what goes through your mind when you enter the room and see a middle age guy like me...

thanks for being honnest

Cheers

bj

 

[AmberRose]

If we're talking about 20-30 year old escorts and not civilians, then you need to understand that as long as they at least moderately enjoy working in this profession, they are not going to care what you look like or how old you are, as long as you are clean, friendly, and respectful. We aren't here trying to find boyfriends just like you guys aren't looking for girlfriends in this, and while it is nice every once in a while to get someone you're genuinely attracted to, that's not why we're here. And physical attraction isn't everything, some of the best sex I've had has been with people not considered "attractive" by society's standards.

Not meant offensively, but the way you describe yourself, you sound like the average men we meet through this business; in fact, it's much more rare to meet someone under 30.
Speaking personally here as a mid-20's companion, I usually prefer encounters with older men, because they understand the relationship of how this all works, they're usually quite respectful, and generally just easy to get along with, versus sometimes younger(and very often) good-looking men can feel entitled, rude, or just disrespectful(though not all, I'm generalizing here so don't take it to heart!).

Now not every SP is in this job for the same reasons or has the same standards for client's they meet, so it's hard to say if one would be happy seeing you compared to another, but from my experience, as long as you treat us well and be nice and friendly, and don't cause any issues, then we'll all have a great time no matter how old you are or what you look like

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Listen to the ladies...
I am mid 40 myself and meet men 20 ,even 25 years older them me and we have a fabulous time, I have a 70 years old favorite who has more stamina then me! Remember the sexiest body part of a man is the brain so do not worry,enjoy the pretty young ladies and if a girl is ''gross out'' by having sex with any types of man she is in the wrong field...

 

[cloudsurf]

I looked way better at 30 than I do to-day....yet the best sex of my life was in my late fifties and early sixties with women in their mid twenties.

 

[Steely Dan]

I looked way better at 30 than I do to-day....yet the best sex of my life was in my late fifties and early sixties with women in their mid twenties.

Here!Here! Cloudsurf!!

 

[protagoras]

I'm in my late 50's and I don't enjoy going out with 18-25 escorts. Well, for me a good session involves talking with a smart lady - with life experience, culture, ideally with more than a Bachelor degree, multilingual, with kids, with a sense of responsibility and with other priorities than "clubbing" or spending their time with douchebags...etc.

I don't mean that younger girls don't have some of these qualifications but my kick is to have a session with a clever woman with a sex drive. In general, I had boring sessions with girls under 25 years old...I cannot stand small talk or PPP (parola padrão puta) - i.e. the way some prostitutes talk: « Oh! I love your cock!. You are so handsome! blablablabla.... - to each is own. But feel comfortable to go with younger girls, it's simply a question of choice.

 

[johnybird]

Hi Portagoras,

Instead of being hung up on the age of who you are seeing, you should look more into the woman herself, based on the reviews you read on this site.
I have seen women from their mid 20s to into their 40's and they all have been intelligent, well spoken ladies. And sex drive has never been an issue

Like the beautiful ladies on this thread mentioned, as long as you're a nice ,respectful gentleman you shouldn't have any issues at all.

 

[TigerWould]

I'm mid 40's average looking (Lily, I'm TheRock we met a while back) and actually have more success with 20-30 women now than ever! Sure, most like to be wined and dined but most have daddy issues and love older men! If they're not into you, don't worry bud, lots of women will be into you if you have the right attitude...money never hurts either!

 

[AmberRose]

but most have daddy issues and love older men!

Uhh......
"They have daddy issues because their dad's treated them very badly throughout their life, but that's okay because it gives you an advantage being an older man!"
Is essentially what I took away from that.

No, we don't mostly have daddy issues, and that's usually not why we prefer older men.
As I have mentioned before, a large number of men in their 20-30 can be very entitled, rude, and disrespectful(again, I'm generalizing here!), so I would argue that's probably the reason we enjoy spending time with older gentlemen and having good conversation with good company(not to say you can't get that with younger men either).

 

[lastvisit]

Although I haven't seen a SP for over a year and a half (I don't live in Montreal and haven't been able to get back) I never had any age issues before. I'm late 50's, clean, slim and respectful and that's what the ladies are looking for. They don't want attitude and intimidation. Now if I could only get there more often. Thanks for the time.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

The Rock I remember was above average? Of course I am very near sighted lol
Thing is ,a lady who does this with her heart will find something beautiful in everyone she meets and for the one of us who are not single,do you really think every lady lover is an Adonis?
A beautiful marble statue is too cold in bed...
Myself I do not care for younger guys but I am partial to younger girls...and way more picky lady wise truth be told...I always joke that ''guys I love them all,ladies I am more picky..''
Just have fun ...

 

[wolfie7]

I'm in my late 50's and I don't enjoy going out with 18-25 escorts. Well, for me a good session involves talking with a smart lady - with life experience, culture, ideally with more than a Bachelor degree, multilingual, with kids, with a sense of responsibility and with other priorities than "clubbing" or spending their time with douchebags...etc.

That's perfect, protagoras. If only there were more of you!... I would have no competition to book time with the young lovelies!! Please take all the MILFs and elderly you can off the market! :lol: I personally love the refreshing breeze of youth and innocence and its happy-go-lucky, little-care-in-the-world that I no longer have in abundance. Beautiful, perfect, tight bodies don't hurt either. And I imagine the majority of MERB and hobbyists are in my boat... Unfortunately...

I don't mean that younger girls don't have some of these qualifications but my kick is to have a session with a clever woman with a sex drive. In general, I had boring sessions with girls under 25 years old...I cannot stand small talk...

Young ladies aren't clever? I thought young chicas were some of the cleverest ones! I like small talk. With most SPs, I have zero interest in sharing any deep thoughts or my (real) life experiences. Those are for real relationships. Seriously, why would you pay these rates for a mind meld?... Therapists, worthless leaches of society as they may be, work as well, and are not as expensive. But, as you said, it's a question of choice.

prostitutes talk...

Poor word choice. Yes, street walkers are scary. Escorts are more refined. Let's hope.


Lastly,

ἄνθρωπος μέτρον
Man is the measure of all things

What about woman?


All in jest. Didn't mean to target you, just so many things in that post caught my eye! :lol:...

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Kind of hard to ask the ladies here if they have an issue with older men knowing that a very high percentage are old, it would be a career suicide for them to reply that they do not prefer older men and want 35 or younger only. Put yourself in her shoes and pretend you are a gigolo very good looking and around 20, what would be your impression of having sex with a 45 - 70 yr old lady... Personally I am very happy that these lovely ladies do the job they do, and do it well. When I first started hobbying I always asked the booker which SP tolerates old men the best, I do not ask that question anymore with MERB agencies but when I contact an indy I always mention my age and only had 1 say sorry but too old, no fault of hers and all is good.

 

[johnybird]

but when I contact an indy I always mention my age and only had 1 say sorry but too old, no fault of hers and all is good.

Your post made me really think about all the times I've booked. I realized I have never even thought of mentioning my age, and the ladies I have booked with never really asked me either.

 

[Merlot]

Hello all,

Kind of hard to ask the ladies here if they have an issue with older men knowing that a very high percentage are old, it would be a career suicide for them to reply that they do not prefer older men and want 35 or younger only.

True. It would be a bad business move to say they only want younger men. Still, having read many opinions from the ladies on this subject and having experienced the hobby since 2001 the ladies have said and I'm sure it really doesn't matter if you older. What matters is being clean, decent, able to pay, and not being the kind of client who's always trying to cut a deal for discounts or otherwise chip away at the escort's donation once you meet. I know a few guys who are highly active in their later later 60s and maybe at 70 or more. So I don't think it's a matter of saying anything for safe business moves. I really don't think most escorts care much about age as a previous escort poster has already said in this thread.

Put yourself in her shoes and pretend you are a gigolo very good looking and around 20, what would be your impression of having sex with a 45 - 70 yr old lady...

Of course when you try and look at this from their side we are clients who mostly prefer younger women when we are paying. Naturally we have a hard time imagining doing this service with any random woman who calls. We are not psychologically set-up to service any older woman because our preferences are not tuned that way. For another thing I'd guess it takes a lot more real attraction to get a penis up to function in this kind of service than it does for the female escort to be able to perform in this business.

When I first started hobbying I always asked the booker which SP tolerates old men the best, I do not ask that question anymore with MERB agencies but when I contact an indy I always mention my age and only had 1 say sorry but too old, no fault of hers and all is good.

I'm not good looking. I'm slim but not athletically muscled. I started the hobby over 40 so now just add almost 14 years. In all of that time I have never asked what age the lady might limit her services to, no agency or independent has ever asked, and I've never experienced anyone refusing service or leaving by her choice, though I did send 2 away with a small traveling donation for them. It's very nice of you to have asked what the ladies preferences might be regarding age, but I doubt that not doing so would ever or very rarely have changed anything.

...most have daddy issues...

Are you sure you aren't confusing this with role playing, maybe all the times you asked them to call you daddy. :lol: Just kidding. :nod: I think the idea that escorts have daddy issues is another one of those poor misconceptions like the one that says all escorts hate their jobs.

look, I'm 50, average looking, not fat but like most 50 an extra 10 pounds, balding some, I' a nice guy, respectful, rich, divorced and don't need the hassle of a girlfriend... and to be honnest I'm not turned on by most 45 year olds.... still attracted to younger girls and it is not socially acceptale for a man in my position to get a regular girlfriend in her 20's or 30's.

Having met some clients at many small GTs and seen many others at some agency parties your description is nothing to worry about. If there are young male model/athletes meeting the escorts I've never seen any. Don't worry about it.

Good luck,

Merlot

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

It's very nice of you to have asked what the ladies preferences might be regarding age, but I doubt that not doing so would ever or very rarely have changed anything.

I agree that it would not have changed anything but I have been steered towards another Sp who I am guessing was more comfortable and could lead to a better encounter.

 

[Merlot]

Hello all,

... I am guessing was more comfortable and could lead to a better encounter.

It is a very smart thing to ask, though you probably run into the problem of the seller not wanting to lose an appointment. He will probably try to accommodate us but only to the point where he can be more likely to avoid losing business. Still you are making a wise move by asking because of course there can be a big difference between she who stays and she who is more likely to get into it.

bravo,

Merlot

 

[chowzilla]

I am also under 30 and I feel most SPs expect older men. When I attended the last VIP GT. It was obvious I was the youngest one there. I don't think any really prefers young guys.

 

[TheDon]

I am over 30 but I look under 30 and never had an SP be surprised that I was not older looking.

Am I being naive here?

 

[Handi]

I'm in my 20s and I think I always tell my age when I book haha. I think everyone should, so at least the girl knows what to expect and will maybe be more relax before opening the door to a total stranger. My opinion.