If you saw $50 on the nightstand....would you take it?

[Robert 21]

If you saw $50 on the nightstand....would you take it?

Gave my Opinion here - https://www.merb.cc/vbulletin/showt...bed-by-an-SP&p=1228359&viewfull=1#post1228359

I would say “no”....Thanks!

 

[zippo007]

oups, sorry, i wanted to vote NO, lol

 

[Thor Jr]

This question needs more information to be answered, its very vague. Whos nightstand is it? Are you directing the question to the ladies or everyone?

 

[Robert 21]

This question needs more information to be answered, its very vague. Whos nightstand is it? Are you directing the question to the ladies or everyone?

This came from Post 98 - https://www.merb.cc/vbulletin/showt...bed-by-an-SP&p=1228359&viewfull=1#post1228359
See reply Post 103

Sounds like the $50 was left out by the Client, taken by the SP.

Question/Poll is for All.


***DO YOUR JOB***

 

[Doggyluver]

If there's $50. on the nightstand and you didn't put it there, it isn't yours, leave it alone . Were you raised to steal from someone else ? Because this is an SP you feel you have rights that you wouldn't exercise elsewhere ? Stealing is stealing, period !

 

[hungry101]

I want to know just who would think this is OK (taking a 50$ off the nightstand that wasn't theirs.) Maybe she thought it was a tip? I've had girls ask me for tips...once prior to the session!!! And like an idiot, I gave her the tip!!!! (I was new and she was hot). But who would take a 50$ that wasn't met for them and think it is OK?

*Warning....Digression in progress: I remember in Rio that there was some talk of the freelancers being thieves. They said be careful because there were a lot of thieves among them (I've never had a problem). I asked some of the ex-pats that lived there and saw young freelancers all the time if they have ever had a problem. Theses were the girls that used to hang out at the Balcony on Copacabana on Atlantica Ave. I was standing around talking with three ex-pats and I asked the following: do I have to be careful? The guys said that the stories are exaggerated. He said that they "borrow things" without asking. Little stuff like DVDs, loose change etc. They take it because they think that we are rich because to them we are rich.
So they said lock things up and don't have anything out. I would never leave a 50$ on the nightstand unless I intended to use it with the girl for an extra or tip or something. Lock it up.

 

[Julia Sky]

Oh Hungry you do have a point! Maybe the girl thought it was a tip. Who leaves a $50 bill on a nightstand randomly? Especially on a nightstand - could really have been mistaken for a tip. The dude should have brought it up with the girl... Maybe she would have apologized for thinking it was a tip and brought it back.

I lost $50 when I got out of an outcall once. I wasn’t shy to text the guy to know if I’d dropped it on the door or something. Turns out I had dropped it in the snow in front of the building entrance lol glad it was still there.

 

[hungry101]

Oh Hungry you do have a point! .

I really liked hearing this once in awhile especially between you and I. Thank you Julia. BTW _ I really liked reading your posts in the Importance of Kissing thread! Great stuff, especially the first one.

I lost $50 when I got out of an outcall once. I wasn’t shy to text the guy to know if I’d dropped it on the door or something. Turns out I had dropped it in the snow in front of the building entrance lol glad it was still there.

I have this habit in life to lose something due to my own carelessness and then blame someone else or at least ask "Who took my [XYZ]" as if I am blaming someone else. I look around the room and I see people that I have shamed and are trying not to look guilty because I have blamed them by the tone of my voice. It turns out that I was the one who had misplaced it or left it on the plane or in the rental car or in my hotel room or didn't pack it in the first place etc. I would say that about 98% of the time the fault is the guy that I see when I look into the mirror. I am a man so I lose things. I'm trying to work on it and I admit my absent minded carelessness has gotten better.

Therefore, I am slow to blame others when a 20$ or a 50$ is missing.

 

[Fradi]

I agree with Hungry I would first question whether I really left that $50 on the night stand to begin with.

While it is prudent not to leave money lying around especially if you are seeing someone the first time.
I know the ladies I repeat with and I wouldn’t have a problem leaving money out in the open, I usually have $100-$200 in my wallet when I go see them in case I may want to extend for a half hour or I get into traffic and want to make up for the lost time.

These ladies are escorts not thieves, they trust me by seeing me and it would be stupid for them to ruin their reputation for $50 or even $100 it just doesn’t make sense.
I guess another reason to see well reviewed escorts with a good reputation

 

[envelopes]

I once met an SP off craigslist in a very sketchy looking building, in a very sketchy looking apartment. I was fully expecting an unattractive SP, but she was actually decent. She seemed a bit tired and gave me subpar service. Probably a 5/10. She seemed very distracted the whole time.

She went into shower and told me to leave the money on the counter. As I'm leaving the money, I see inside her bag was rubber band stacks of cash. All 20s and 50s. I'd estimate there was around $30K-$40K there.

I was very very tempted.

 

[LeDodo]

I once met an SP off craigslist in a very sketchy looking building, in a very sketchy looking apartment. I was fully expecting an unattractive SP, but she was actually decent. She seemed a bit tired and gave me subpar service. Probably a 5/10. She seemed very distracted the whole time.

She went into shower and told me to leave the money on the counter. As I'm leaving the money, I see inside her bag was rubber band stacks of cash. All 20s and 50s. I'd estimate there was around $30K-$40K there.

I was very very tempted.

At best I would be surprised to see the stack but tempted to steal someone's money, no.

 

[Rebaynia]

I have walked in and seen money on the counters, and I will still ask if it was put there for me or not before touching, I don't want to ever assume.
A few places have had cash sitting around their place in different locations. It is their home, and they should be able to leave whatever they want around their house and not expect it to go missing.
I've even had the odd occasion, he has a stack of cash and has been on some substance, handed a stack of cash because he was a little too messed up to count correctly, took my fee for 1 hr, and handed back the rest.
A tip is a gift from them, not my place to assume, and I prefer to be absolutely sure it is his intent before accepting. If I have to touch their personals like phone or wallet, to put my purse down, I show them where it was moved to.

Sometimes I wonder if certain people even do it on purpose, to see what kind of person we are. There is no money in 1 time visits I find. The goal is someone wanting you back over and over.

 

[S.S neo]

The way i eat pussy and ass, i would surely think the 50$ Is my tip.

 

[Confident]

I normally put the money on the counters at the end of the session when I'm going for a shower or in the bathroom, with a tip if I had a good session. They usually understand the tip was for them and don't ask questions about it.

 

[kabukicho]

I have walked in and seen money on the counters, and I will still ask if it was put there for me or not before touching, I don't want to ever assume.
A few places have had cash sitting around their place in different locations. It is their home, and they should be able to leave whatever they want around their house and not expect it to go missing.
I've even had the odd occasion, he has a stack of cash and has been on some substance, handed a stack of cash because he was a little too messed up to count correctly, took my fee for 1 hr, and handed back the rest.
A tip is a gift from them, not my place to assume, and I prefer to be absolutely sure it is his intent before accepting. If I have to touch their personals like phone or wallet, to put my purse down, I show them where it was moved to.

Precisely. You are high on etiquette and manners.

 

[Rebaynia]

Precisely. You are high on etiquette and manners.

It is why I dislike the generalization on the negative points of SW, and not to trust a single one, or how we are all in it for money, and looking to screw clients over... ect.

Yes we are providing a service for money. But we are people just like you, trying to make our best in the world with the hand we are dealt.
The lovely indy providers I have had the pleasure/honour of meeting, have made me feel better about being an SP, because I see these same qualities in them and supporting our names and personalized businesses, not hiding under someone else's management. Our reputations are our own.

To see comments in other places about don't trust a single one, treat them like products instead of the people they are, insisting because someone is a SW they aren't worth common decency, it's a personal attack on the entire industry and everyone in it.
Unfortunately SEX is an industry that can make easy preditors, and victims on either side of the business. We do our best to minimize the risks as much as possible, but we also become products of what we have been threw in our lives.
Hurt people, tend to hurt people.

 

[Fradi]

It is why I dislike the generalization on the negative points of SW, and not to trust a single one, or how we are all in it for money, and looking to screw clients over... ect.

Yes we are providing a service for money. But we are people just like you, trying to make our best in the world with the hand we are dealt.
The lovely indy providers I have had the pleasure/honour of meeting, have made me feel better about being an SP, because I see these same qualities in them and supporting our names and personalized businesses, not hiding under someone else's management. Our reputations are our own.

To see comments in other places about don't trust a single one, treat them like products instead of the people they are, insisting because someone is a SW they aren't worth common decency, it's a personal attack on the entire industry and everyone in it.
Unfortunately SEX is an industry that can make easy preditors, and victims on either side of the business. We do our best to minimize the risks as much as possible, but we also become products of what we have been threw in our lives.
Hurt people, tend to hurt people.

The ladies I see I have known for many years. They are escorts not thieves.
I leave my wallet beside the bed along with my phone even when I go to take a shower.
I always have a couple of extra $100 with me just incase I may wish to extend the date they want to go out for something to eat or even if they might need some extra money for something.
These ladies are my friends I have no reason not to trust them.
Why on earth would they ruin a long standing friendship and a regular client for a couple of $100, besides they are the kindest young women you would want to meet and I am lucky to have them in my life.

 

[twenty4seven]

I think the original post was about an sp that stole $50 off a nightstand or something during an outcall and wanted more outrage or something. Either way, no I wouldn't think of taking anything from a provider during a session (I'd prob actually point it out to them if there was loose bills or something so they know to put it away). In truth tho, I still am mindful of what I bring in with me each session, but less about theft and more about bringing less to remember less to take home on exit.