If you were a female...
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Wendy C. said:
Wow... I think every guy has thought about this. I honestly believe that if a girls chooses to do this it is because of any one or all of the following (there are tons more, but i'm too tired to think of any):
1. They need the money, they are in a jam financially.
2. They love sex, so why not get paid for having it.
3. They want the money, I deserve that 50" plasma too.
Personally I would love it to be #2, There is nothing better than being in bed with a sex starved girl(s). I also think that along with reason number 2 some choose to do it because they can, a sense of empowerment, where they literally have us kind of by the balls.
This trade is a very weird one at that, it depends on the girl. If I were given the chance to work independant and make a couple grand a week cash, hell I would be naked faster than you could blink an eye. For me, because I love sex and I would not say no to the large amounts of cash I get paid for doing it. it beats working 9 to 5 for peanuts.
WI
Damn, what an interesting question. Naturally the flip answer would be sure, no problem and I would do as many guys as possible because I love sex and money. I think the emotional costs of being an escort outweigh the financial advantages. Women I have met and talked to who make sense seem to have a lousy personal life. They seem to have a problem trusting and loving and when that hurdle is overcome they leave the business. The one girl who made sense was a student I met in Boston who told me that she was doing this to pay her $24,000 of tuition, period. She was doing it to fulfill a financial need with no intention of making it a career. I can imagine this is a difficult decision for you, good luck with it.
By the way, we are not able to send you a PM ?
By the way, we are not able to send you a PM ?
In my case, I really don't know. I suppose to intelligently answer this question we must put ourselves into a different age bracket going back in time, and thrust ourselves into different, perhaps less fortunate financial circumstances.
It's easy for a man to find out, considering there's big fan of GFE here a man simply have to ask the question: Would I offer BFE experience to some woman that I don't know? Walk on street check for ugly, fat, etc... woman and you'll get your answer... unless very bad financial issue I would not do it but I think I would had work out my think (like im doing now) to make sure I would not have to do it.
My 2 cents...
Wilko
My 2 cents...
Wilko
Wendy,
I think the poll should be amended to add an "I don't know" option. I suppose if you had to pin me down to a yes or a no, I would lean towards a qualified no. What I mean by this is no if I could not be selective about my clients and pre-screen them by meeting them. Otherwise, yes.
Is that response enough of a waffle to make the House of Pancakes blush?
I think the poll should be amended to add an "I don't know" option. I suppose if you had to pin me down to a yes or a no, I would lean towards a qualified no. What I mean by this is no if I could not be selective about my clients and pre-screen them by meeting them. Otherwise, yes.
Is that response enough of a waffle to make the House of Pancakes blush?
Hello
Thanks for those of you who`ve been helpful. I just realize that you are a brainy bunch and not the weird-type as it is often the stereotype of what you call a ``hobbyist``. I also realized that this is a highly hypothetical question, not easily answered by people who have their feet on the ground.
EB, I am sorry darling I can`t add a 3rd option. Not because I don`t want to but the way I see it this business of a companion is like being pregnant. There is no such concept as a little pregnant. Either you are or you are not.
xxx hugs and kisses
Wendy
PS. Now that I think about it the question my question is stupid. I mean what guy in his right mind would go around hotels having sex with women he wouldn`t have sex with even if it was for free.
Thanks for those of you who`ve been helpful. I just realize that you are a brainy bunch and not the weird-type as it is often the stereotype of what you call a ``hobbyist``. I also realized that this is a highly hypothetical question, not easily answered by people who have their feet on the ground.
EB, I am sorry darling I can`t add a 3rd option. Not because I don`t want to but the way I see it this business of a companion is like being pregnant. There is no such concept as a little pregnant. Either you are or you are not.
xxx hugs and kisses
Wendy
PS. Now that I think about it the question my question is stupid. I mean what guy in his right mind would go around hotels having sex with women he wouldn`t have sex with even if it was for free.
Thank you darling. You`re right.JacknJill said:Well Wendy, a lot of women (and men) think the same about female escorts...:
JNJ
Sorry if I have made an attempt to create controversy, totally unwillingly! I was reading past posts.
https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=11424
Opinions have chanced over the past year. It is the first time during my 29 years in this life I witness men being forced to submission by just talking to each other. It is rather sexy, I think.
Wendy
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EagerBeaver said:
I agree 100% with this.... kinda makes you think what the ladies who are SPs and can't presecreen go through or have to put up with.... frankly, however wonderful of a guy I may be, if I were a woman I wouldn't be overly thrilled at the prospect of having me for a client if I were in it for the sex....
Wendy C. said:
In my personal situation, I am capable of having a type of work that pays me well, and I am not interested to sleep with random women who I am not attracted to. So since I never thought to be a gigolo, I can't imagine wanting to be an escort if I was female. If I were female and my situation were different and I had fewer job skills and had the possibility to find a wide range of men attractive, then it's not so bad to be paid for a job involving pleasure. The negatives are the emotional risks, health risks, and risks of living in a society which looks down on it. There is the risk of having a lot of physical pleasure while trapped in a life of loneliness. If it's worth such risks and you tend to find most men you take time to know attractive, then go ahead. Otherwise my answer is no.
the_rock70 said:
Hello. I am not ONE, yet. AND I WOULD PREFFER TO BE ADDRESSED AS "LADY" and not "ONE". I am not interested in using this medium as a way to promote anything. I noticed there is a chat line here just line msn or yahoo. I will be visiting it tonight to meet some of you and talk about this and other topics.
the rock,
Wendy doesn't have PM set up yet, and I suspect she wants to keep it that way so she is not inundated with private chat requests. She has not decided what she wants to do - the very point of this thread. Perhaps you should join her in the public chat like everyone else, rather than expect personal favors. If she had PM I am sure it would be filled with requests like yours........and she would have dozens of requests for her contact info.
Wendy doesn't have PM set up yet, and I suspect she wants to keep it that way so she is not inundated with private chat requests. She has not decided what she wants to do - the very point of this thread. Perhaps you should join her in the public chat like everyone else, rather than expect personal favors. If she had PM I am sure it would be filled with requests like yours........and she would have dozens of requests for her contact info.
Wendy,
There is a very long story behind that thread that you located and you should not take those comments I made at face value. At the time, when I said that every woman should work as an escort, the comment was an intended over the top comment meant for the viewing of one person who was driven out of the business as a result of some comments made on the other Board. It totally went over everyone's heads that that is what I was doing. Suffice it to say there was a long background story there and we don't need to revisit the past.
To avoid further misunderstandings I am going to delete that post as it was intended to be read at face value by one person only and that person is long gone from the business.
There is a very long story behind that thread that you located and you should not take those comments I made at face value. At the time, when I said that every woman should work as an escort, the comment was an intended over the top comment meant for the viewing of one person who was driven out of the business as a result of some comments made on the other Board. It totally went over everyone's heads that that is what I was doing. Suffice it to say there was a long background story there and we don't need to revisit the past.
To avoid further misunderstandings I am going to delete that post as it was intended to be read at face value by one person only and that person is long gone from the business.
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I just deleted that post and the thread may have gone with it, and if it did, Wendy's link is not going to work any more.
Wendy C. said:
Well, there are male escorts and that is exactly what they do. As I recall, both Celine's Fantasies and Class XXX had male escorts for a while on each of their websites ("Max" and "Perry", if I recall correctly). I am not sure whether those guys made any money or not. For the heterosexual male escorts who see only women (as opposed to those who will also see gay men), I don't know how much money those guys make, even if they are studs.
I can't even imagine having my brain (or the female equivalent thereof) in the body of a smokin' hot 21-year old chick... I mean seriously -- if you are a gorgeous young woman with a good head on your shoulders, the entire world is your oyster. I'd be up $10,000/year on free drinks alone.
I don't think I would be an SP (in the traditional sense) however... at least not for long. I'd probably work the Anna Nicole Smith technique. Find a seriously old sugar daddy and make him "happy" until he dies. Then battle his children in court for "my share" of the 100 million... I see nothing wrong with this at all...
BD
I don't think I would be an SP (in the traditional sense) however... at least not for long. I'd probably work the Anna Nicole Smith technique. Find a seriously old sugar daddy and make him "happy" until he dies. Then battle his children in court for "my share" of the 100 million... I see nothing wrong with this at all...
BD
Hot Sexy Buddha?
If I was a woman, the first thing I would do is have my tubes tied. I can hardly take a big dunk without passing out, so I'm seriously doubt that I would be able to handle giving birth to a baby.
In private life, I would be heavily into the girl-on-girl scene, because any way you cut it, women are simply hotter than men. I actually don't know how women keep their hands off each other.
Would I escort if I was a woman? Nah, I don't think so. If I really needed the work, I would rather be a stripper or a masseuse. Maybe this is because, as a man, I am more open to a long-term partner being or having been a stripper or masseuse than an escort.
If I was a woman, the first thing I would do is have my tubes tied. I can hardly take a big dunk without passing out, so I'm seriously doubt that I would be able to handle giving birth to a baby.
In private life, I would be heavily into the girl-on-girl scene, because any way you cut it, women are simply hotter than men. I actually don't know how women keep their hands off each other.
Would I escort if I was a woman? Nah, I don't think so. If I really needed the work, I would rather be a stripper or a masseuse. Maybe this is because, as a man, I am more open to a long-term partner being or having been a stripper or masseuse than an escort.
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If I was a woman, I would never like to work as an SP even if I had no money. The only time I would work is if I desperately need money to pay medical bills for someone other than me who is close to me (like say parents) of course without their knowledge. It has to be a life and death situation. Thats it. In that case, I would first work as a stripper and get my feet wet. Get to know some clients, screen them and then offer only those clients whom you trust your escort services.
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