Incall question for providers and clients.

[Halloween Mike]

Any clients that go to incalls washing "a la debarbouilette" instead of jumping in the shower? Obviously taking into consideration you took a full shower before at home etc

So guys , some of you do this?

And for escorts, would you feel unconfortable if a guy do that??

 

[djlucky7]

I would never do this as it could definitely change the outcome of session with the lady, specially the ones YMMV, even though you might be spotless clean. I have however denied the shower as I came back from the gym shower. My hair was still wet.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Whats the difference then between refusing to shower as you already did it before(at the gym) and this idea of having a quick "debarbouilette" cleaning after a full shower 10 mins before at your place(or a friend's place) etc

 

[blkone]

It depends on if I drove all the way or had to BMW there. If I had to take a bus, use a metro or walk ... I prefer to shower. If I took a shower before I left and drove about 10 minutes to the location then there is no point in another shower.

 

[jalimon]

Five, ten minutes of your time to please her is nothing, why start things off on the wrong foot.

5? 10?? 2 min 45 seconds is all it takes! (which was also the duration of a full sexual relation for me when I was 19 )

 

[pat98]

5? 10?? 2 min 45 seconds is all it takes! (which was also the duration of a full sexual relation for me when I was 19 )

lol
yes but sometimes you have to play with the temperature as it is fkn cold or too hot
but when the guy is really horny usually it indeed takes less than 3 minutes :bounce:

 

[Halloween Mike]

If i was asking that question its because as some of you know im not fond of incalls but the reality of the $ is starting to catch up with me lol. The summer rate for hotels is really high and i have a few new "toys" in mind in a close futur (a PS4 and a new laptop as mine is really starting to show its age, especially running on freaking Vista).

But everytime i got to an incall i had the impression of the meeting flying by way too fast. I took too much time in the shower but also after the shower, as when i come out of it, i dunno... i don't feel ready right away, its hard to explain. Kinda need 10 mins to "get the mojo back" wich is something i can afford outcall.

So i was thinking a clean up with a debarbouillette (whats the english word for that by the way) would work better.

Its not like your less clean or anything, it work just as fine, but you don't feel as "wet" after.

Anyway this is all just questions and speculations...

Cost nothing to ask.

 

[Flyingby]

lol
yes but sometimes you have to play with the temperature as it is fkn cold or too hot
but when the guy is really horny usually it indeed takes less than 3 minutes :bounce:

Hahaha. I’ve taken a cold shower because figuring out the hot and cold would take too long.

 

[wiseatom]

Some sp ask if you want to take a shower. I always thought to myself what if I don't want does that make me a jerk or nasty. Anyway, as Sam21 said, "Water is not harmful." I guess its just a common sense to take a shower.

 

[What's My Name]

Before a in call I always take a shower before leaving my house. So I go clean.

When I get there I mention it to the SP, and if she says that she would rather I take one, I have no problem taking one, because at the end of it all we all have to feel comfortable.

And if it's one of those times that I come from a day of work I mention that I want a shower, and that goes a long way with the SP

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

(which was also the duration of a full sexual relation for me when I was 19 )

I used to love spring daylight saving time I could last one hr 3 min if I timed it right.
And yes, I always shower as it is less than 3 min.

 

[Rusty Staub]

On the topic of incall showering, how do you guys come out of the bathroom? Buck naked? Towel On? Underwear? Get fully dressed again?

Curious if people have different modus operandi than me

 

[jalimon]

On the topic of incall showering, how do you guys come out of the bathroom? Buck naked? Towel On? Underwear? Get fully dressed again?

Curious if people have different modus operandi than me

Awesome question! I personally find nudity boring. Once nude not much is left for the imagination. So before going to shower always tell the girl to stay dressed and I always come out of the shower with jeans and t-shirt or shirt. Then the fun begin

 

[Halloween Mike]

I see a lot of peoples mention they go in shower at home before going to the incall and only take one more quick shower to "make her feel more comfortable".

Now im not a doctor or an expert, but if i was the providers there, i wouldn't feel "safer" property wise because the guy took a 2-3 min shower. Actually we all know going 3 mins under the water does not clean anybody properly if he is dirty. May take out the sweating after an exercise at the gym so you can put back a clean t-shirt, but you obviously didn't had the time to wash properly.

So if they are willing to go that route ... then why not "a la main" with a towel wash? That is obviously if the guy washed properly before somewhere.

Don't get me wrong, i am NUTS for going clean in a meeting. I would feel totally embarassed to not be totally clean during a meeting. Thats why i take so much time in the shower before an outcall meeting, and yes that is even if i did wash in the morning before making the trip to MTL.

In this case especially my concern is playtime left , nothing else.

If shower was to be count OUTSIDE our time in an incall it would be different.

Im just trying to gauge stuff to have a good time worth my $ without having to over spent.

I know some peoples even friends in the hobby told me i need things to be "too perfects" at time. But thats how i am. I think if im gonna spend 300$ on something(travel + meeting), hell i better enjoy it to the fullest. Im sorry i can't really TOFTT too while im at it as im not an old rich guy.

So yeah... im looking at all options available. Especially during summer time where hotels cost crazy prices. Also there is a certain agency that have certain girls who only do incalls despite the agency being incall/outcall... So im thinking while i want to save a few hundreds this summer, why not take the opportunity to see one of them maybe at the same time. Make it 2 birds one stone you know...



Im just looking at all my options.

 

[charmer_]

I personally find nudity boring. Once nude not much is left for the imagination. So before going to shower always tell the girl to stay dressed and I always come out of the shower with jeans and t-shirt or shirt. Then the fun begin

Then you're taking time both to shower and getting dressed up again (only to take your clothes off afterwards). I used to do this as well back in the day (it makes things kinky).

Nowadays, I just jump into it right after the shower. Btw in regards to the shower, I do shower prior to heading to the incall and then a quick rinse @ the incall. Better for the SP to have peace of mind, than risk having bad service due to cleanliness doubts.

 

[jalimon]

Good point, as someone who datos every girl without hesitation, I'm definitely not as sensitive to underwear sweat transmission as others may be lol. You should never accept me as a client, because we will definetly get sweaty hahah .

Haha this makes me laugh... My thinking is both the provider and myself as a client we should not care about a little sweat. We are not working in a bank here... The only time I had bad session was exactly when the girl was worried and hesitant because she did not want her hair, makeup or herself messed up... Shit wrong provider for me... My bad..

Cheers,

 

[Julia Sky]

If the gentleman came straight from home where he took a shower and put on clean underwear, then it’s ok for him to put his briefs back on after shower. But I think it’s kinda gross for a guy to put his briefs back on if he was out all day or even just a few hours, sweated a bit or alot, used bathroom a couple times and probably has a few pee spots on his crotch (assuming most guys don’t carry babywipes to clean up after each restroom use like women do)...

I agree so much with this !

 

[UncleBob]

I do only incalls.

I always take a deep shower right before I go to the meeting (And mouthwhash as well).

I never shower in the incall unless she says it's mandatory. (Only happened once)

When I started hobbying, I was not even refreshing at the incall.

Now I'm refreshing almost systematically.

Usually, the girl asks if I want or need to shower and I reply "I just took a deep shower before leaving home and I just need refreshing if you don't mind".
She's always OK with that.

Refreshing means wash your privrates toroughly with soap by hands and with washcloth (if available).

I do not put back any cloths after... Going out of the bathroom bare naked

 

[oobe]

Actually we all know going 3 mins under the water does not clean anybody properly

Use soap? ;-)

Honestly, you can't get thoroughly clean in 3'? Get wet, stop the water, pass soap and scrub everywhere, rinse, seems easy to me.
And actually, check this: https://www.bustle.com/articles/152...t-takes-less-time-than-you-think-to-get-clean

My MO would be to leave home clean, take a quick shower on site, often half spend figuring out the temperature controls, usually with the door open and maybe chatting (part of the BFE) then leave the bathroom with a towel around my waist: like nude but not quite.
Unless I had a theme night planned, in which case I'll put back my Dracula, Village People or Pokemon outfit.

 

[jalimon]

To all who go out of bathroom fully naked or with just a towel remember this... The only way a dude can look half decent is dressed up. Naked you start with a strike, why do that?

Cheers,

p.s. unless your name is flyingby and you are fit as hell and look like ryan gosling...