Incall question for providers and clients.

[Flyingby]

To all who go out of bathroom fully naked or with just a towel remember this... The only way a dude can look half decent is dressed up. Naked you start with a strike, why do that?

Cheers,

p.s. unless your name is flyingby and you are fit as hell and look like ryan gosling...

Hahahahahaha. Hahahahah. I come in with a suit and tie. I prefer coming out of shower naked. Or I risk having a very nice suit ripped right off of me

 

[Halloween Mike]

There is a lot of divergeant opinions there wich is nice.

Personally i would never be able to get out of the shower naked. Actually i don't remove my underwear in her presence until im fully erected(wich happen after a bit of foreplay like kissing etc). I really don't want the provider to see my "resting" penis... lol.

Use soap? ;-)

Honestly, you can't get thoroughly clean in 3'? Get wet, stop the water, pass soap and scrub everywhere, rinse, seems easy to me.

No shit sherlock... lol. What i mean is that cleaning myself personally take me 10 mins under the weater(with soap lol). Cause i make sure to clean every area carefully, i must spend 2-3 mins on the buttcrack alone ... Add to that undressing, preparing my stuff, then getting dried with the towell, placing back my hair(i used to have long hair, now i shaved them tough) , then getting dressed again.

Thats what i meant...

 

[Flyingby]

I can’t imagine any girl being happy if you guys just use a hand towel and wash your cock without a full shower. I can see a girl being okay with it if you’re a repeat client and she knows you. But first time seeing her, even by telling her you’ve showered before is disrespectful. The only reason a girl would accept this is because of the $$

 

[oobe]

To all who go out of bathroom fully naked or with just a towel remember this... The only way a dude can look half decent is dressed up.

It all depends, in my case I use the towel to cover my face, the rest is just fine!

 

[Halloween Mike]

I always shower before leaving my home, on the way to the encounter, and again when I get there.

Always shower...why wouldn't you?

JTF2

How do you shower "on the way to the encounter" , gotta explain that one to me. You wash as you drive? lol

As for your last question, a question of time and all. I get that you can take a quick shower but i personally hate engaging in sex while still being wet. I hate to put back my cloathes while being wet too. When you only have an hour... loosing 10-15 mins does actually show.

Thats why outcall give me the possibility to do my pre-meeting "rituals" without a constrain of time or else. I can take a long shower, get out completely naked, stay in my underwear etc until the very last min as i dry up etc etc.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Lol you know what i mean... even when drying with a towel there still that "wet" feeling for 10mins or so. And considering i keep my shirt on for sex... well yeah not putting back my cloathes is not an option...

then I think you should only do Outcalls

Thats what i do usually yeah. I had a few incall sessions tough because kinda had to (long story) and i always have that feeling that everything goes by too fast. Weird enough i never complain that the SP goes in the bathroom to fresh up when i do outcalls and most of the time i finish way before times up. But i dunno everytime i did incall i felt all was rushed, maybe i just felt weird cause i wasn't in "my environement"

Im fully aware it may be totally psychological...

I know I’m not your type

I never said that lol.

 

[vtp246]

Interesting subject! First of all I think girls should at the very least plan a 30min break between two appointments in order to fresh up themself. That being said, if a guy takes 10 min shower when they get in, full hour + another 10min shower on the way out, the girl is out of time.

However, the first shower is usuallly mandatory (normal) I feel like this time shouldn’t be on the clients since he’s not paying 250+/hour to shower. The second shower should however be on his time IMO. In my case, I always prefer two showers so I try to manage my time accordingly. I usually go for 1 sog on an hour booking so im not really rushed.

I know SPs sees all kind of gents and value their time but I value mine too. I’d be insulted if an SP would pressure me out if I’m there 1:03 or 1:05. Never it would cross my mind to try to get free minutes of playtime, as I’m usually done in the first 40 mins...Thankfully it never happened but it would be a real downer for me as I try to be really respectful of SP time and schedule. Oh and if the gent is late I think he should cut his time not add to hers, she may have a tight schedule.

 

[Gazoo64]

I always shower when I arrive at the incall. It takes 3-5 mins, what’s the big deal? Why risk not taking a shower and upsetting the SP? Anyhow, we’re usually chit chatting during the last 5-10 minutes, so it’s not like the shower time makes a big difference. Just my opinion.

 

[electrolux]

Beware of used débarbouillette before you clean your genitals with it. It could worsen your hygiene. It is better to shower...

 

[jalimon]

Someone wrote that he brings his own towel, even for incall. I have started to do that more and more in the last few months. If you only knew how much the SP like this small detail!

Cheers,

 

[vtp246]

I get what you’re saying, but for me, a break is made to relax, it’s whatever time is left after my lover has left, after I’ve cleaned up my incall, after I’ve taken my shower and after I’ve fixed my hair and makeup, AFTER I’ve done all that. Cleaning up is not relaxing to me. It takes me about 30-40min to do all that, so my break, if I take one, is 30min after the 30-40min clean up time. I don’t like booking back the back exactly because of the rushed feeling.

A 30min clean up is definitely doable, but is it enough to thoroughly clean up before next guy? Opinions may differ from one person to another. Not everybody levels hygiene the same way.

oh I totally agree with you for the break time hence my « very least » comment. But I know there are other SP that line up gents.

 

[Doumz]

I usually take a shower before going to the girl place,and once there i usually ask to use the toilet just for a quick refresh of hands and genitals.
If i'm asked for a shower i take a quick one and usually ask if she would mind taking one with me,sadly most of the time they say they already did and don't want to.
I usually go home after and shower but may rinse quickly before if things got too Hot ;p

 

[jalimon]

By the way in some countries I have been in my life I was told a shower is 90 seconds. Water in some countries is gold. You do not waste any of it.

Cheers,

 

[Halloween Mike]

I know. I just said that because you post a lot about loving the Pornstar look with big breast, which is far away from my physical description!!!

Yeah but its not the only look i like lol. Its like being asked your favorite food... as much as you may like it you ain't gonna want to eat it for the rest of your life. Had no better analogy in mind than food but you get my point im sure. Thing is i have been looking for my "ultimate fantasy" for years. Wich is the Pamela Anderson/Jenna Jameson (90s version lol) type of look that would also be super open minded to my "porn fantasies". There is often something not fitting. But one day... hopefully lol. But you know as well if you read my post im not fond of tatoos and yet one of my ATF had a bunch of them, she had black hair and natural breast(back then when she worked in the business) so its not because i say i crave a particular look that ill only go for it

Why not make the pre-play and after-play shower parts of the action?
That's what I did and like, I take the metro so even if I showered at home in summer just the ride will make me want to freshen up before playing so what's better then starting the play in the shower?

That question i already answered why its a no for me. I do agree with you tough that Subway is very hot during summer, and even just the walk under a hot sun can also be sweaty. Obviously during a very hot day even if a shower was took "home" before, another one would likely being required unless using taxi.

Someone wrote that he brings his own towel, even for incall. I have started to do that more and more in the last few months. If you only knew how much the SP like this small detail!

Cheers,

Beware of used débarbouillette before you clean your genitals with it. It could worsen your hygiene. It is better to shower...

Obviously i would use my own debarbouilette to wash my genitals. I already bring my own even to my hotel room nowadays. I prefer that. As for Towells if i was to plan really to go to an incall i would probably do this. Few incalls i got to where last mins changes so i couldn't.