I think you very much misinterpreted his comment..Wow! So all the ladies in this cooperative are lacking truthfulness and insight? I hope you aren't going, considering how you feel...
Do you put all escorts into this category? Or just independents?
I'm pretty sure he just meant that in this situation, dares are more fun and that truths can be tricky since most providers value their discretion.
Perhaps I'm wrong, but I definitely didn't see anything offensive in his comment, and he is attending and I'm very happy about that since he'll be a great addition to the party