insulting people out of the blue just for fun and feel good about yourself

[maymay]

I know its nothing new but it gets me every time, there is a women at my job who as been putting in the work, for a good 2 years now (she was considered morbidly obese) walking, she put a lot of energy in her eating plan, stop junk, stop ordering, cooks her own meal hell she deserves a medal in my book and manage to lose 40 pounds so far. It shows.

I am pushing her encouraging her and slowly building a team at work, after all doing this makes it easier. But the other night she came to me all discourage and said that i guy at work told her she was all fat. (off my chest and not nice this guy is bald, obese and probably a women's worse nightmare), I told her to tell him to fk off and confronted the guy in the cafeteria.

I ask him why he told her that and it was very out of place, he said well its true, I told him did you ever look at yourself in a mirror you are not someone to talk.

This is not a new thing but I been seeing this a lot lately and wonder why people act like this, is it that hard to encourage people as of losing weight and getting fit and aging is not hard enough.

 

[Johnny test]

That's funny i have a totally different experience, i'm French and i've been living in Canada for the past 15 years and it's pretty clear that Canadians are much more tolerant than French in terms of diversity and differences. I've never seen the kind of things you describe here, not saying it doesn't exist, but never experienced it

 

[IamNY]

If this happened in my office the person would have been sent to HR and fired.

 

[Johnny test]

If this happened in my office the person would have been sent to HR and fired.

same here

 

[Zero_Six]

At my workplace it would result in a verbal warning. Second time would be a written warning that goes in your file. Third time... IDK. I think they'd probably give the offending employee the option of taking some sort of counselling or getting fired.

My employer is pretty paranoid about firing people without due cause. Apparently it's the same for if I were to show up obviously drunk. Some warnings and then either rehab or fired.

 

[Sweetguyyul]

I know its nothing new but it gets me every time, there is a women at my job who as been putting in the work, for a good 2 years now (she was considered morbidly obese) walking, she put a lot of energy in her eating plan, stop junk, stop ordering, cooks her own meal hell she deserves a medal in my book and manage to lose 40 pounds so far. It shows.

I am pushing her encouraging her and slowly building a team at work, after all doing this makes it easier. But the other night she came to me all discourage and said that i guy at work told her she was all fat. (off my chest and not nice this guy is bald, obese and probably a women's worse nightmare), I told her to tell him to fk off and confronted the guy in the cafeteria.

I ask him why he told her that and it was very out of place, he said well its true, I told him did you ever look at yourself in a mirror you are not someone to talk.

This is not a new thing but I been seeing this a lot lately and wonder why people act like this, is it that hard to encourage people as of losing weight and getting fit and aging is not hard eno

Discrimination sucks.

Ironic. A while back you wrote this because we had a disagreement with mayor plant

"Don't waste time with him i reported is post and blocked him, he is a troll and as no respect for anyone he does not belong here at all"

You also wrote this about the LGBTQ community

*This LGBTQ thing is out of control, and its not about to go away, a simple trip at a grocery store last week the cashier was a man near 30 with is nailed polish but also extended, he notice that i was looking at them so the rest of the service was bad attitude. This society is far from being.."

Makes me wonder why you would actually share this and ask for judgement when you can't even control your own intolérance.

Or do you think your behavior is appropriate?

 

[Sweetguyyul]

Discrimination sucks.

Ironic. A while back you wrote this because we had a disagreement with mayor plant

"Don't waste time with him i reported is post and blocked him, he is a troll and as no respect for anyone he does not belong here at all"

You also wrote this about the LGBTQ community

*This LGBTQ thing is out of control, and its not about to go away, a simple trip at a grocery store last week the cashier was a man near 30 with is nailed polish but also extended, he notice that i was looking at them so the rest of the service was bad attitude. This society is far from being.."

Makes me wonder why you would actually share this and ask for judgement when you can't even control your own intolérance.

Or do you think your behavior is appropriate?

You should actually go read what this guy writes. I'm sure wear a Maga cap

Immigrants
LGBTQ
Etc

I'm surprised he hasn't been banned

Don't worry.. I have plenty of screenshots.

 

[Johnny test]

This discussion is the "Usual suspects" of threads..... you follow the topic but never thought it would go that way
works with "The sixth sense" too

 

[Sweetguyyul]

I agree. Its mostly the hypocrisy behind it.
"Why do people act this way!?" When he's ripping his shirt..
You scratch a bit and the guy loves to kick LGBTQ and immigrants around..