Ish,
I'm very uncomfortable with this view IF it is based on bigotry rather than rational caution. It's true that certain ethnic groups have very general perceptions of and biases toward each other that create a need to be aware of cultural tensions and thus be cautious. Yet, this means using your senses to react rationally to each individual, NOT approach someone as a stereotype to be feared as a or considered a threat somehow.
If someone of one ethnic group doesn't feel any attraction overall to women of a particular ethnic group that's a preference, though I don't see how it can be 100% since attraction and beauty cannot be denied individually no matter who the lady may be. But to dismiss or avoid someone simply because of an ethnic definition regardless of the individual I call bigotry and/or racist. For me, I don't have any dislikes based on ethnicity or race. In fact I often but not always find more differences more attractive...in certain changing moods.
I think Box will agree that if an escort like Alyssa Rose has had a high percentage of tense or bad experiences that show a trend with any ethnic groups then it's her right to avoid predictable likely discomfort. All cultural groups do have behavior tendencies that other groups may not find likable. It's unfortunate that it affects individuals who are different within the norm of the behavior and attitudes within their native culture. But escorts do not get a chance to know an individual before she is thrust into a business proposition that is immediately as personal and intrusive as it gets. So I cannot fault an escort for wanting to avoid a situation where she is supposed to serve a client before she can know him who may likely be a risky meeting based on her experiences. It may come close to stereotyping, but because of the lack of time for acquaintance and the deep intimacy of the meeting I think it's a rational reaction.
Box, I'm sorry anyone has to deal with this choice. I've never experienced this with escorts. "my time is wasted & she loses money. No good for either of us"...you seem to have had a reasonable view of this situation and I wish you good luck.
WHY??? Was I supposed to find wearing a yarmulke offensive or degrading. I thought it was respect.
Having had two best friends who were Turkish Muslim and Russian Jewish I know some very serious religious reasons why it MIGHT not be the best decision to get seriously involved if you are not of the same persuasion. They both had views about women that were one chauvinsitic, and one turned out later to be borderline misogynist. But wearing something on your head...c'mon. So some gets turned on by a woman in a Burka headdress...so what. Doesn't that come under role-playing. Hmmm, harem girl in Arab traditional dress...ummmmm....thanks for reminding me.
:thumb: Though I have to agree I don't see how religion should enter into the consideration for a sexual service meeting on either side, unless there is some kind of objectionable act such as degradation the escort would object to, but then objectionable acts for an escort could also be greek, swallow, etc, and have nothing to do with religion or ethnicity.
Cheers,
Merlot
