Is there an age when it becomes harder to ejaculate?
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This is a very good thread.
When you become older, you can have two main issues, erection and ejaculation, I am 62 and I have both problems
First one if you do not have physical issue is cause by different things, mainly psychological, if you see an SP for the first time or even a girl friend it happen, so if you loose your erection once it can become a psychological circle, you will be afraid that you will not have another one, I do not talk about others, I am just talking about my experience, it take more stimulation, and its true that sometime just the mere seconds between a full erection and the time you reach for the condom, you lose it.
So after that is square one, but the connection between the person you are with is also important, I must convince myself that she know what I know, but do not want to accept that older men have these difficulties.
I have tried about 10 years ago the little yellow pill, true it help, but it is not connected to ejaculation.
As for ejaculation, if you manage to keep your erection, it can take a while and again its a lot of stimulation, visual , tactile, etc, also Anti depressants can cause anorgasmia, I know
This is why when I see an SP try to take at least 3 hours, and yes when you repeat with someone these issues vanish a lot, but sometimes as beautiful a flower can be, it is human to want to see and smell the perfume of another flower.
One time I had a prostate massage with BBBJ, believe me, old or not, it was overwhelming, but its not a common thing you can ask when you see an SP.
Of course when I am alone, I do not have any of these issues.
So the issue, is not or try to, think about it, let it go, otherwise you will not be in the moment, easy to say, bit not always easy to do
Qapla
M.
This is a very good thread.
When you become older, you can have two main issues, erection and ejaculation, I am 62 and I have both problems
First one if you do not have physical issue is cause by different things, mainly psychological, if you see an SP for the first time or even a girl friend it happen, so if you loose your erection once it can become a psychological circle, you will be afraid that you will not have another one, I do not talk about others, I am just talking about my experience, it take more stimulation, and its true that sometime just the mere seconds between a full erection and the time you reach for the condom, you lose it.
So after that is square one, but the connection between the person you are with is also important, I must convince myself that she know what I know, but do not want to accept that older men have these difficulties.
I have tried about 10 years ago the little yellow pill, true it help, but it is not connected to ejaculation.
As for ejaculation, if you manage to keep your erection, it can take a while and again its a lot of stimulation, visual , tactile, etc, also Anti depressants can cause anorgasmia, I know
This is why when I see an SP try to take at least 3 hours, and yes when you repeat with someone these issues vanish a lot, but sometimes as beautiful a flower can be, it is human to want to see and smell the perfume of another flower.
One time I had a prostate massage with BBBJ, believe me, old or not, it was overwhelming, but its not a common thing you can ask when you see an SP.
Of course when I am alone, I do not have any of these issues.
So the issue, is not or try to, think about it, let it go, otherwise you will not be in the moment, easy to say, bit not always easy to do
Qapla
M.
You can try some Korean red ginseng or Siberian ginseng, it seems to be a more natural way to go.
Thor Jr
It is an interesting and honest thread. I'm in my early (er, I suppose "mid") 50s. No problems with functioning. Yet. But what I've noticed, and this has been true for a while, is that I've got one shot in me. After that, it's not so much that I can't go for msog, it's that I have no interest at all. More than that, it drains me for the rest of the day/night, and my libido is diminished the next day even. In some ways, honestly, it makes life a hell of a lot easier. But it is a strange evolution from my younger days ...
I know what you mean, it seems that our testostérone level are going down with age, hence, the libido is going down as well, and all the other problems that come with it, unfortunately there is no magic recipe, sure you can take the little yellow pill, and this pill will do nothing without stimulation, as for ejaculation or orgasm it is less spectacular when you are 60 than at 18, and it can be much harder when you take specific medication, but hey that is life and sometime when you meet the right person, they sometime find a way to stop the cryogenic process lol
Qapla
M.
Qapla
M.
Is there an age when it becomes harder to ejaculate?
Every age, so far for me its been about who i am with that makes the difference, when i am not attracted to a woman, it goes one of 2 ways, one way is ill be like a 2 minute egg and just finish fast to just get it over with or ill go limp and if i am attracted to a woman, then i can go for a little while so i can enjoy myself.
There are a few factors we have to think about also, alcohol, fatigue, dehydration, stress, preoccupation, and i am sure other things come into play.
Thor Jr
Every age, so far for me its been about who i am with that makes the difference, when i am not attracted to a woman, it goes one of 2 ways, one way is ill be like a 2 minute egg and just finish fast to just get it over with or ill go limp and if i am attracted to a woman, then i can go for a little while so i can enjoy myself.
There are a few factors we have to think about also, alcohol, fatigue, dehydration, stress, preoccupation, and i am sure other things come into play.
Thor Jr
Maybe my post was biased, stress and fatigue is an issue, alcool also, and anti depressant are responsible a lot, I know, so is age a factor? Can be by a small degree
Using Erectile Dysfunction medicines do not help you ejaculate more.
If anything using Viagra or Cialis will prolong your ejaculation and maybe you will not be able to ejaculate at all.
If anything using Viagra or Cialis will prolong your ejaculation and maybe you will not be able to ejaculate at all.
Excellent post. I am older now too and have tried a ton of approaches to this, from 4 hrs with a gorgeous busty thing (who wouldn't do BBBJ at all!) to an enthusiastic busty MP. The latter I found to be the perfect formula. I had already seen this MP and loved her breasts, nipples and attitude.
I had no sex nor masturbation for 2 days before (more than that isn't really necessary), drank no caffeine that morning, drank only light alcohol the night before, saw her in the morning when we are all naturally more erect, took the blue pill at least 90 mins before the visit, took 'ExtenZe' that morning and the one before (there are natural alternatives but these have similar vitamins and help you produce more semen, which I just LOVE to produce for a more satisfying orgasm), then during the session I asked her to only briefly take me in her mouth so as not to loose his juice and to avoid touching his tip at all until the end, had a brief massage cause I was already hard to go, flipped a bit early, did 69 position with her on top. As I ate her delicious pussy, I asked her to only use her hands then do a full a full BBBJTCCIM at the end and all the way to the very last drop. She complied so perfectly and happily. The DATY stimulated me, her firm hand is similar to what we're all familiar with (our own hands) and not loosing much 'juice' till you finally shoot, then finishing in a wonderful friendly eager mouth. AHHHHhhhh....!!!! is all I can say. She even talked dirty to me as she was jerking me, complimenting me on my firmness and length.
Heaven !
Very insightful Garito
It is true that before an encounter, I will not masturbate for at least 2 weeks, and how can I do that, meditate lol, its like an orgastic energy build up
The blue pill or yellow pill can help, because at least you won't in a certain measure bother with erection.
I do not know Extenze, I will check that
Finally for ejaculation, I think the best is a non stop stimulation, the 69 guy under and the lady over is very exciting, and by chance it happen quick or close to come dont refrain, shout it, sing it so the person will know
MSOG are long gone for me, this is for Hockey:lol:
And when you have a solid erection, there is the 5 seconds to reach the condom, so we could open it take in one hand, BBBJ a bit, put the umbrella and hope for the best, and try to use the last Japanese condom Okamoto 0.01 available at amazon.ca
One thing I have noticed, when you repeat, these problems disapear over time at least it did with the lady I was seeing for a long time, now i found a new gem future will tell, I prefer as always not to name them, check my posts.
Seems like a complicated process, its not if you are with somebody who can do the trick and the most important thing is communication
Qapla
M.
It is true that before an encounter, I will not masturbate for at least 2 weeks, and how can I do that, meditate lol, its like an orgastic energy build up
The blue pill or yellow pill can help, because at least you won't in a certain measure bother with erection.
I do not know Extenze, I will check that
Finally for ejaculation, I think the best is a non stop stimulation, the 69 guy under and the lady over is very exciting, and by chance it happen quick or close to come dont refrain, shout it, sing it so the person will know
MSOG are long gone for me, this is for Hockey:lol:
And when you have a solid erection, there is the 5 seconds to reach the condom, so we could open it take in one hand, BBBJ a bit, put the umbrella and hope for the best, and try to use the last Japanese condom Okamoto 0.01 available at amazon.ca
One thing I have noticed, when you repeat, these problems disapear over time at least it did with the lady I was seeing for a long time, now i found a new gem future will tell, I prefer as always not to name them, check my posts.
Seems like a complicated process, its not if you are with somebody who can do the trick and the most important thing is communication
Qapla
M.
I am not a physician but i have read that prolonging an orgasm is not good, a few days is ok, but 2 weeks is too long according to the health advisors, but, to each his own, but read up on it, maybe i mis read the article, but if i go 2 or more weeks without an orgasm, it feels weird when i do and not in a good way.
Thor Jr
Thor Jr
Hi Thor
I know about what they say about having regular ejaculation is good to avoid prostate problems, when I was talking of a delay of two weeks, its only when I meet.
Only to have my testosterone levels at the highest point as well as the libido.
M.
I know about what they say about having regular ejaculation is good to avoid prostate problems, when I was talking of a delay of two weeks, its only when I meet.
Only to have my testosterone levels at the highest point as well as the libido.
M.
How do people feel about not allowing BBBJ so as not to 'loose' your juice? I find that allows me to build up to a much better climax. The girl seemed to understand this approach really quickly when I asked her to only do a HJ without touching the tip, then vacuum cleaner suction action upon climax. Phew baby !!!
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