I wish the OP had provided more details in his first post. There's a pattern here of endless threads about questions that could easily be answered in 1 page or less. Hence my frustration.
Is This A Red Flag | Appreciate Any Input
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Maybe she assumes she will see you for the same amount of time you booked her through the agency? Did you specify the length of the booking requested?
If you've booked her several times for 60 and then 90 minutes she probably assumed that's how long you're booking her.. why would this be a red flag? Maybe she just forgot to ask...
True. But at least it’s content. Not everything needs to be Cartesian, imo. I enjoy the light reads at times
Come on. Not a red flag at all. You’ve seen each other multiple times. She trusts you to meet on your terms at your hotel.
What comes to mind is the big bad wolf being afraid of Little Red Riding Hood!
Yeah but ...
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Thanks very much, Julia. I always appreciate your input and others here in MERB xoxo. You guys are the best. I think I am just being paranoid for paranoid's sake after being scammed through Leolist before joining MERB lol. You are right, chemistry was good not because not because she worked in an agency. Thanks so much Julia and others. I will see her and post how it went.
Thanks Halloween Mike, appreciate the detailed advice. Yeah, I am just being paranoid lol. I will keep your advice in mind and ask for the money back if he says I forgot something in the car. I hope she doesn't. Because she knows I will see her whenever I am in town which is pretty much every month. Thanks again!I had times when i texted agencies and didn't specify duration, sometimes they would ask, but most would not, as they are either used to me booking 1h or they consider unless stated otherwise that 1h is the standard. Now if you say you met her 6 times and 5 out of those 6 were 90m, she likely assumed it would be 90m. Why not reconfirm with her the duration, that way you will be sure.
I don't understand what "reg flag/danger" there could be if you sure you are really in contact with the right person. Worst than can happen is she ghost you... wich sure would suck, but thats why Plan B are important. But no an indy escort won't show up at your hotel with 2 big guys and try to rob you... lol. If these set ups may happen, they always happen in incall where they have "home advantage".
Just be aware that "i forget something in the car" is 98% of the time "i won't be back, you just got robbed". So if you pay in advance, if that was to happen, ask her to give back the payment. And don't accept a purse as "deposit" as i read in the past they would have no problem losing a cheap purse they probably paid 2$ at goodwill with a pack of smoke almost empty and a couple kleenex
But seriously if you seen her already multiple times, i don't see why she would do anything shady. She probably want to keep you as client...
Come to my room any day!! HOT
Yes, paranoid. Thought rdv was yesterday. Or are you trolling? Of course clarify details beforehand. There’s also a long thread on that, by Lena Cartier I believe
OH noo, I am not trolling I am being genuine and serious. I am meeting her next Thurday. Paranoia got the better of me. Thanks so much, I will check the thread by Lena Cartier.
My guess is that she doesn’t mind learning how long you want her to stay once she gets there or figures you’ll tell her the mext time you get in touch. One thing i learned when i continued seeing an sp who was no longer working for an agency was that she had a lot more free time than she used to & didn’t have to be rushed out of your place to hurry & see another client. In my case it was usually an hour unless i asked if she could stay longer when she arrived. More often than not it was sure whatever how long i wanted her to stay. Other times she couldn’t stay longer or could only stay for 30-60 minutes since she had made other plans like going away for the weekend.
A member raised safety concerns and sought advice, but instead of being supported, his inquiries were challenged by others. Whether he's overly cautious or paranoid is irrelevant; his concerns deserve respect and proper consideration. It’s disappointing to see members dismiss his questions and respond with unnecessary comments, especially after he has gone above and beyond to express his concerns. I agree with him that his worries may stem from previous negative experiences or patterns observed in other members posts. It’s important that we foster a respectful environment where members feel safe to voice their concerns without fear of being attacked or challenged.
Thanks so much for your kind words, Obvio. Always appreciate your advice. I have no issues explaining myself and I really appreciate everyone's advice. May be others thought I am being too paranoid.
I don’t think he was attacked by anyone.
It would however be kind of smart to ask the lady her rate and let her know how long you want the session to be.
This is essential information for both client and SP surprised neither made it a point to ask. Good communication is essential on both sides.
As far as red flag, no I don’t see any, he has seen her 5-6 times before and all was good and he is meeting her in his hotel room not some shady unknown area of Montreal of her choosing.
It would however be kind of smart to ask the lady her rate and let her know how long you want the session to be.
This is essential information for both client and SP surprised neither made it a point to ask. Good communication is essential on both sides.
As far as red flag, no I don’t see any, he has seen her 5-6 times before and all was good and he is meeting her in his hotel room not some shady unknown area of Montreal of her choosing.
How long and how much? Because indies maintain everything by themselves, so their donations are different then agency's donations.
