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How to book an indy
How to recognize some common scams
Incall
1. After agreeing to a date and time, the SP might give you very vague indication of where she’s hosting like a street or a street corner. It’s not sketchy, she’s doing that to protect herself. You wouldn’t give your exact location to just anyone would you? She will most likely give you the exact address 1-2 hours before the appointment, don’t panic.
2. If you’re bringing something to eat or drink, make sure it’s sealed. This means no half opened wine bottle, no left over Easter chocolate. The SP might not accept it if it’s unsealed by fear of being drugged.
3. Be on time! Not early, not late. You don’t want to show up too early because in the event that she’s a high volume provider and meeting people back to back, you might show up while the last client is walking out. If you show up too late, she might assume you’re a “no show” and block you. Some companions rent a space per hour so if you are late, they cannot extend their rental.
4. Text to let her know you have arrived. Even if she gave you the exact address, send a text message. There might be more directions such as: apartment number, buzz number, door on the side
5. Get the payment question out of the way, don’t make it awkward. If you’re unsure where to leave the money, ask them or give them the envelop. The rest of the session will feel less transactional and she won’t be stressed that you’ll leave without paying.
6. Shower! Yes you’ve showered before you left your place like the rest of us but how is the SW supposed to know that? Also, maybe you were scared to be late and decided to run a little. Maybe you’ve biked there. Doesn’t matter, a squeaky clean dick is a good a good dick.
7. If you’re unsure about what’s ok and what’s not, ask. It’s not awkward, make sure you know her boundaries and communicate your preferences. (It’s better to do it before meeting to avoid disappointment)
8. When it’s time to leave, LEAVE. There’s nothing we dislike more than clients that overstay. You are not gonna be on her good boys list if you do that. If you feel like didn’t have enough time, ask her how much it is to extend or book a longer session next time.
Outcall
1. After agreeing to a date and time, let the SP know which hotel you are staying at or if you are hosting from your home, let her know the nearest street corner. Some might ask for an address right away, if you’re not comfortable with that just politely say so.
2. Give your room number or home address 1-2 hours before the appointment. Give any other information closer to the appointment such as “meet me by the elevator”
3. Place the payment in the bathroom and invite her to shower. She would ask you the same if you visiting her so it’s not rude to ask her to freshen up, by placing the payment in the bathroom you hit 2 birds with 1 stone.
4. If you’re planning on offering something to drink or eat, make sure it’s sealed. Being drugged by a client is a common fear.
5. If you’re unsure about what’s ok and what’s not, ask. It’s not awkward, make sure you know her boundaries and communicate your preferences. (It’s better to do it before meeting to avoid disappointment)
6. When it’s time for her to go, let her go. If she’s working in an agency, her driver might be waiting for her and you wouldn’t want him/her to think she’s in any trouble. If you want to extend the session, let her know 15 mins before the end so that she can let you know if that’s doable.
Other useful links
How To Book An Indy
Comment Rencontrer Une Indépendante
C'est votre premiere fois? Lisez ceci
• Scam or Standard practice
How To Introduce Yourself Like a Pro
Screening and References
How to use the 411 section
How to book an indy
How to recognize some common scams
Incall
1. After agreeing to a date and time, the SP might give you very vague indication of where she’s hosting like a street or a street corner. It’s not sketchy, she’s doing that to protect herself. You wouldn’t give your exact location to just anyone would you? She will most likely give you the exact address 1-2 hours before the appointment, don’t panic.
2. If you’re bringing something to eat or drink, make sure it’s sealed. This means no half opened wine bottle, no left over Easter chocolate. The SP might not accept it if it’s unsealed by fear of being drugged.
3. Be on time! Not early, not late. You don’t want to show up too early because in the event that she’s a high volume provider and meeting people back to back, you might show up while the last client is walking out. If you show up too late, she might assume you’re a “no show” and block you. Some companions rent a space per hour so if you are late, they cannot extend their rental.
4. Text to let her know you have arrived. Even if she gave you the exact address, send a text message. There might be more directions such as: apartment number, buzz number, door on the side
5. Get the payment question out of the way, don’t make it awkward. If you’re unsure where to leave the money, ask them or give them the envelop. The rest of the session will feel less transactional and she won’t be stressed that you’ll leave without paying.
6. Shower! Yes you’ve showered before you left your place like the rest of us but how is the SW supposed to know that? Also, maybe you were scared to be late and decided to run a little. Maybe you’ve biked there. Doesn’t matter, a squeaky clean dick is a good a good dick.
7. If you’re unsure about what’s ok and what’s not, ask. It’s not awkward, make sure you know her boundaries and communicate your preferences. (It’s better to do it before meeting to avoid disappointment)
8. When it’s time to leave, LEAVE. There’s nothing we dislike more than clients that overstay. You are not gonna be on her good boys list if you do that. If you feel like didn’t have enough time, ask her how much it is to extend or book a longer session next time.
Outcall
1. After agreeing to a date and time, let the SP know which hotel you are staying at or if you are hosting from your home, let her know the nearest street corner. Some might ask for an address right away, if you’re not comfortable with that just politely say so.
2. Give your room number or home address 1-2 hours before the appointment. Give any other information closer to the appointment such as “meet me by the elevator”
3. Place the payment in the bathroom and invite her to shower. She would ask you the same if you visiting her so it’s not rude to ask her to freshen up, by placing the payment in the bathroom you hit 2 birds with 1 stone.
4. If you’re planning on offering something to drink or eat, make sure it’s sealed. Being drugged by a client is a common fear.
5. If you’re unsure about what’s ok and what’s not, ask. It’s not awkward, make sure you know her boundaries and communicate your preferences. (It’s better to do it before meeting to avoid disappointment)
6. When it’s time for her to go, let her go. If she’s working in an agency, her driver might be waiting for her and you wouldn’t want him/her to think she’s in any trouble. If you want to extend the session, let her know 15 mins before the end so that she can let you know if that’s doable.
Other useful links
How To Book An Indy
Comment Rencontrer Une Indépendante
C'est votre premiere fois? Lisez ceci
• Scam or Standard practice
How To Introduce Yourself Like a Pro
Screening and References
How to use the 411 section
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