Losing virginity to sp....

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Just my opinion and I am one who has a hard time believing things. Is there really a 20 something year old virgin doing blow looking for advice or just someone getting a chuckle out of posting stuff like this. Does not sound right to me, even Dear Abby would doubt this one.

 

[MelodieIndy]

TheNewGuy101: at Montreal Unicorn Healers, the Unicorns have met with many men in a situation similar as yours. You are not alone and you shouldn't be afraid to ask questions and express your desires. This is a place where you can feel loved and understood. We do offer sexual education (it doesn'T have to be super formal ) as part of our sessions. Our ladies are GENUINE and they will make you feel comfortable and give you useful advices

xoxoxoxoxo <3

 

[talkinghead]

Just my opinion and I am one who has a hard time believing things. Is there really a 20 something year old virgin doing blow looking for advice or just someone getting a chuckle out of posting stuff like this. Does not sound right to me, even Dear Abby would doubt this one.

I agree completely and was about to say exactly this.

 

[jalimon]

Just my opinion and I am one who has a hard time believing things. Is there really a 20 something year old virgin doing blow looking for advice or just someone getting a chuckle out of posting stuff like this. Does not sound right to me, even Dear Abby would doubt this one.

I agree with you STN. If you need to be high to post on a public forum, most chance are youre a troll. If not, then you need serious help. The thread discussion was none the less very interesting.

I really whish I had taken a sexual course like Jasmine offers when I was early 20's. I learned how to give (still learning in that area actually) and receive sexual pleasure I was mid-thirthy... Before that it was a lot of sex, but poor girl they must have loved me a lot to keep with me as I was so bad

Cheers,

 

[MelodieIndy]

Before that it was a lot of sex, but poor girl they must have loved me a lot to keep with me as I was so bad

Cheers,

ahahahahahahaahahah

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

I really whish I had taken a sexual course like Jasmine offers when I was early 20's. I learned how to give (still learning in that area actually) and receive sexual pleasure I was mid-thirthy...Cheers,

I do wish that I had seen escorts earlier due to the sex being so much better but I can not cheat on someone, old fashioned if you want and never really had the need for one as you only need to be polite, have a good sense of humor and make a move, some will say no but suprised how many will say yes. And yes, set your standards to a realistic level, the GND type that does not get laid that often will enjoy herself....

 

[K Douglas]

I had a friend in your situation. He graduated at 24. Had a good job. He's average looking and he doesn't know how to talk to women. Eventually he met a girl at 31 and lost his virginity. He then had another girlfriend he's been with her for some time. The only thing I would tell you is don't get things distorted in your head. When you'll be 35 you won't be banging 21 y.o. There is a difference between the women you pay and the women you date. My friend is dating average looking girls but they're serious enough so he can start a family with them, he'll never hear crazy stories from them.

So, my only advice is if you decide to do it, know there is a difference when you start thinking about building something serious you might want to lower your expectations in terms of beauty and start looking at long term stability, anyways most women stop being attractive at around 40.

As we age our appearance deteriorates I would tend to agree with that. But to arbitrarily choose 40 I'm not sure. One of my exes turned 40 last year and she looks way better than she did when I dated her at 25.

To the OP I'll echo what others have said - do not be under the influence of drugs or alcohol if you choose to see a SP. And don't overthink things just roll with the flow. Do some research on here and find out which ladies will take the lead.

 

[Passionné]

You need coke to give you courage to ask a question on an anonymous board?

Wow.

Deal with your drug dependency before worrying about being a virgin. Guys that are high are very annoying according to every escort I know.

Number 1, being with an escort won't teach anyone how to have success either getting laid or being in a relationship. These are different worlds, though being with an escort and maybe gaining a little sexual confidence could help a bit.

Number 2, read Westwoody's again. If you need drugs to get you in the mood to do anything, if you need drugs at all to prop yourself up for anything you've got something a lot more serious to deal with than being a virgin.

Number 3, there probably are escorts who would join you, but if they do it's only going to increase your problems not help deal with them. Better escorts won't want to deal with this kind of client and their issues.

I would never have wanted to lose my virginity to an escort...paying for it. It would have felt like I cheated myself out of something special and real.

Yeah a lot of women lose their special attractiveness around 40, but many don't and I find that type absolutely KICKS ASS!

Cheers

 

[hungry101]

Cocaine leads to impotence?

This guy is most likely a fake. Regardless, he said he had did so much blow that he couldn't function? I thought that cocaine was a aphrodisiac? Maybe he should try ecstasy?

For me a little vitamin V and a nice bottle of red wine will do.

Also, I'm glad to see that we didn't have a bunch of whiners crying "make sure it's with someone special." I'm trying to think of my first time with my high school sweetheart. She was my first love and she broke my heart so it must have been good but honestly I don't remember my first time. I did some chick standing up in an alley in Rome and my dick still comes to life when I think of that special moment.

If you want to make your first time special get Jennifer of XO or have an oil boob massage by Natalie Jolie. Now that was damn special.

Actually, I think the Unicorn faith healers is a great choice. First, chose a safe word and then get nasty.

 

[bobgratton44]

I lost my virginity from a SP at 22 (thanks jenni diamonds), I don't regret it. I almost died when I was 21 from a stupid shit and at least now I know what is the awsome feeling to be with a beautifull girl

 

[Garotalover]

The first time I had sex was the worst sex I ever had. I had no idea how to please a women. I think I came within 10 seconds. If you have performance anxiety like I did, ease into it (pun intended). I would try an MP first - get used to having a beautiful woman share some intimacy.

 

[jalimon]

I lost my virginity with a friend of a girl friend of mine. We were both quite drunk after a night out. She gave me a bj with me standing up and her sitting on the bed. I decided to pull her on her back so I could fuck her but I miscaculated the size of the bed, knocking her head on the wall in the process. It was not that much romantic but I got to fuck her twice. Then she left and I went to eat a poutine

Cheers,

 

[hungry101]

The college affirmative consent folks want to know whether she became unconscious when she knocked her head on the wall and whether you did the NCAA concussion protocol before sticking it in her.

LOL. I was thinking that. Now that there is no more statute of limitations for rape, In about 20 years, Jalimon is going to have to defend himself in court after she sees a hypnotist and he determines she has repressed memories of the deed LOL. .

 

[jalimon]

LOL. I was thinking that. Now that there is no more statute of limitations for rape, In about 20 years, Jalimon is going to have to defend himself in court after she sees a hypnotist and he determines she has repressed memories of the deed LOL. .

Maybe that is why that girl became my regular in college, when both of us did not succeed at getting anything better we would end up in the same bed. Maybe she was just afraid I would knock her over again. Shoot never tought about that, I am sorry darling!

Cheers,

 

[TheNewGuy101]

Wow this thread blew up alot faster than i thought it would and id like to thank everyone for their 100% honest opions. For those worried about my blow addiction...i didnt word myself correctly. When i do blow i get super fucking horny and thats why i failed miserebly the first time i called an sp from a shit provider. Making this kind of thread was embarrassing for me for obvious reasons thats why blow helped. Talking to my friends who have never had this kind of isssue seemed impossible to me.... To them picking up a girls is like picking up a bottle of orange juice at the grocerie store, its nothing to them. They have their facebook and instagram account with amazing phothos that get them all the attention in the world. Funny though when i chill with their girlfriends they're always happy to chat with me and love me but they dont have friends to present to me. take that as you will, maybe they're lying or some shit but i dont thinks so. Everyone arround me wishes the best for me but i dont really go out because im shy/inexperienced and to be honest i dont like bars/clubs or any of that shit. I just want a girl thats down to cuddle have some drinks and whatch netflixs, take a walk outside, go hiking wtv. Im pretty drunk as write all this but after reading all your comments i think im going to make the call and lose my virginity to an sp. To the people that offered help dirrectly expect a pm
FYI i am pretty drunk as i write this but i guarantee 100% if i meet an sp...i wont be on drugs or alcohol. I dont need either or to talk to women. Its making the first move that's my problem.
Thanks to all of you i expected a hell of alot more negativity to be honest.
I'll be contacting someone this week. It's my last week of vacation and i think i deserve some fun right?

 

[curly]

As we age our appearance deteriorates I would tend to agree with that. But to arbitrarily choose 40 I'm not sure.

Our appearance deteriorates, but our social skills hopefully improve, which is even more important to get a girl. I've had more 20 y.o. in my bed (freebies) at 40 than I did at 20! I was so shy then!

 

[starry]

From 30 to 45 you can definitely bang 21 year olds. Actually that is the best age range.

I'm 67 and I bang 21 year olds (and older ladies) all the time. Its a bit like the talking dog. The miracle isn't that I do it well (cause sometimes I don't) but that I can do it at all. The gals seem to like me tho but maybe they are just being nice. I do worry about disappointing them and embarassing myself. I think I'll try a testasterone patch before I run out of time.

 

[chowzilla]

my first time was with my first girlfriend, we were each other's first. This was great because we both were very eager to explore more and more. The biggest plus, is that you are both discovering sex together at the same pace.

I lost my V card relatively late compared to my friends. Same as TheNewGuy101, I was a very shy...probably worse. I will be honest, seeing SPs has brought me a lot of joy but has messed up my expectations in the bedroom. After some time, booking/dating SPs has extremely helped me find my confidence. It's like night and day.

I went from the guy who would not be able to hold up a conversation... let alone freeze if a girl spoke to me... TO the guy, who can confidently speak to girls (still working on being chill with civilian girls that I find very attractive). I've been told on several occasions that I am a very good natural conversationalist (its not easy, im putting 100%).

All this sounds dandy, but I learned this skill too late. I do not wish for you to take as long as me. I am 29 (close to your age) but I have been in the hobby for quite some time and I only hope you work on your confidence and social skills more than banging girls. This will help you out in life in general. The drugs are actually slowing you down... homie.

Another trick that worked for me was watching Comedians. They are the world's PROs of story telling and delivery.

I see a lot of me in you, good luck bro.

 

[Crocodile Dundee]

I knew a guy that had never even seen a naked girl at the age of 28.

 

[AlexB.]

So hey, not feeling great about discussing it nor bumping a old thread, but I just had to ask if others on here might have possibly been in a similar situation, or have any advice/recommendation for me personally.

I'm absolutely honest when I say that I have no judgement whatsoever with anyone who seek companionship with all kinds of beautiful ladies offering it for money. To be honest, I'm quite jealous. I'm thirty and have been suffering from agoraphobia and social anxiety for a long, long time. Suffice to say that there's not been many occasions for me to partake in dates or relationships. Loneliness has been creeping in, the experience lacking and the touch of a woman missing.. So I ask you all whose already seeked and found companionship through independent or non-independent brave women, what are some advices you would give me on the matter? Other than to seek therapy LOL (which I am, let's get it out of the way)

Shyness, judgement of others, lack of sexual experience.. Are things I try and want to conquer for myself most of all, but also for those around me. I'm house sitting from mid september to mid october and it's a experience I'd really want to have. I'm new to all this so I don't really know how to go forth with it. Other than I know I would need a non-judgemental confident woman that wouldn't mind showing the ropes to a reserved person haha. My maternal language is french and I'm trying my very best at writing in english at this moment so if anything isn't as clear as it should, just let me know.

I don't have knowledge of most abbreviations that are used in this line of work and would also appreciate the help in this matter if there is any thrown at me haha. I've just learned what CIM and Greek meant and that a Outcall instead of a Incall would be necessary for me. South shore of Montreal.

Thanks!