Loyal or hunter when it comes to the hobby?

[HornyForEver]

Do you prefer meeting always the same provider (escort, stripper, masseuse...) or do you keep changing providers?

Personally, I tend to stay with the same strippers/SPs. Sampling the new talent has a much lower cost in strip clubs, though I still don't do it. If you tend to sample the new talent, at what frequency do you do so (ratio of first-seen providers to all providers met within some time period, say 3 months)?

On the other hand, if you stick to the same providers, why do you do so instead of hunting around?

 

[Siocnarf]

In the beginning I used to meet lots of new ladies, until I found a couple that are perfect for me. I try someone new for variety once in a while. With my budget I prefer to stay mostly with the ones I love.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

New is nice once in awhile but I find I have a better evening with someone that I have met a few times.

 

[muffinbuffer]

For me it's all about the novelty. If I want a sure thing, I go with my wife. Honestly, in terms of getting exactly what I want, that's the only way to ensure it.

All new, all the time.

 

[TheDon]

I will try new SPs but my preferences are to stay with a handful of SPs I know and connect with.

Even if I were to stick with 1 SP, my frequency of seeing them would be more of a monthly basis which is not enough to get tired of seeing the same girl.

 

[hungry101]

There needs to be a 4th option: I like to try new talent but I will repeat with the best from the past.

Off hand, I can only remember repeating with 6 different girls over the years. There is just too much talent out there. I will say that I am a binge hobbyist and I would have repeated with more but I hobby when the opportunity arises. I typically swoop into town by some stroke of fate. I see as many girls as I can. I can rarely repeat with a girl a second time. They are either out of the business, not working that day, week, or month, or fully booked.

I have been doing this a little while now. I am trying to look out for the old girls not only because they were so good but because there is some nostalgic element that I can't explain. I found that I can rarely recreate the magic of the first special encounter. So some times it is better not to repeat because reality can set in and ruin the memories.

 

[blkone]

I tend to be loyal with a couple mature ladies but for the younger girls around my age I'm almost always a hunter. I've had two experiences where things started to become more than business and I did not like the experience. The last experience was ... showing up to my house with a movie just to "chill", um, wtf?

 

[HornyForEver]

There needs to be a 4th option: I like to try new talent but I will repeat with the best from the past.

Repeating with the best option is subsumed by option 3. If you are not hunting, then you will probably repeat with the best providers you know, reviving sweet memories. I was hoping to see how often people go for new talent, like 1 of 10 dates I make is a new hunt. I have been dancing some strippers over and over again for the past 10 years. Same thing for SPs, but usually I keep seeing them for a couple of years until they either disappear or they start taking me for granted. Hunting goes below 1% in my case, that's why I voted for option 1.

 

[HornyForEver]

...I have instances of loyalty, but loyalty leads to emotional attachment which I am trying to avoid, I once felt attached to a SP, and believe me, I don't want to be in that place again, there is too much confusion going on in my head, and I have no sense of clarity whatsoever, so that is why I am more of a hunter….

Loyalty should never lead to attachment. Many of us feel infatuated by an SP after an encouter, but after some time this infatuation vanishes and I think this is better for both the SP and the client. I like to think that the SP I am dating/dancing is the soulmate I have been looking for, though an inner voice keeps telling me that this is just a fantasy and I learned to listen to this inner voice over the past years. It is better to enjoy this ephemeral feeling and then let it fly away.

 

[sinop]

There are some that I know I enjoy my time with and I repeat visit, but I think it's smarter to mix it up most of the time and not get attached or comfortable. These girls aren't going to be doing this job forever and it sucks when they vanish if you get used to seeing them.

 

[UncleBob]

I'm in a similar situation as Siocnarf.

I like to have a regular and I hunt new talent once in a whille.

Yes I might get attached, but if she retires completely, it is sad but I'm happy for her cause since I love her, I want the best for her.
And I'm very aware that I can't be part of the equation forever mostly because of the difference in Age.

I regularly scan Ad sites for new talent but I toftt a lot less now and usually wait for reviews. I am more patient.

 

[randolph]

I see one provider regularly and only occasionally try someone new. Usually trying someone new just shows me how good my regular is. I've become quite attached to her over the years. A relationship would never work in "real life," but I do appreciate the time I've spent with her. She's a lot younger than me, in great shape, and super good at sex. And she is very sweet--too talkative and little crazy for some, but we get along well.

 

[Halloween Mike]

In the past lots of girls i wanted to repeat but they quit before i could.... since i was seeing one every 2 or 3 months. Then a couple years later i repeated for the first time with Kate(saw her when she was very new as Mia). Then there was the Kelly Summer summer lol, i saw her 4 times in a matter of months, and then i kept repeating with Kate while still seeing other girls as well.

That was pre-2014, lets just say after my first 2014 girl (Hannah former GG) things got a bit complicated and i will keep it to myself lol. Well some of you guys know but i prefer to not mention it openly on the board. Lets just say for the moment i am on "break"

 

[HornyForEver]

The drawback of seeing the same SP over and over again is that some will end up taking you for granted and the quality of service will suffer a lot.

 

[daydreamer41]

I think repeating is dependent on the mileage and comfortability you have with the ones you repeat.

Some SP's the passion can increase each time you see them. But it's nice to meet new girls also. Plus, most SP's have a career of a few years and that's it. So you are forced to venture out anyhow.

 

[master_bates]

I'm a hunter, I like variety

 

[nightcrawler]

I try and stay with the same service providers (Wildtimes, MTLgfe or delight). however when a girl you would like is not available at the time you need, you sometime have no choice but to try someone new.

 

[CockAsian69]

I stick to the one I like the most and for the most part do not venture out from that, but lately I have been tempted by the fruit of another. This one physically the opposite of my little fave. I wonder if I will sample the other or not. Time will tell.

CA OUT!

 

[treebeard]

I like to repeat with girls I've had fun with, but it's rare that the 2nd encounter is as good as the first.

Only exceptions for me are Katrina from GG, saw her 3 times and each session was better than the previous meeting.... I really miss her.