Money up front, or at the end?

[Rebaynia]

Pay upfront. Tip whenever works for you, it wasn't expected anyways.

If someone tells me they are only paying at the end, I am packing up and leaving. No cash first, no service, the end. Even people I have seen many times pay up front. I won't put my phone away until paid when I walk in the door. Extras discussed during booking, and paid up front, or are not available once booking starts.

I am forgetful, and follow a set order of operations when it comes to certain things in life.
Walk in, greet, kiss, hug, and as I set my purse down, either they pay right away, or I have to ask, but it is payment in full, then I text my safty, start timer, then phone away. Business is done. Then it is time to enjoy ourselves until the chime goes off.

I am not a restaurant, and am not willing to put myself in the, dine and dash, situation.

 

[LeDodo]

So money up front from now on.

Well I think most Indies advertising here mention payment upfront ... If ones read their information/website. And we all (I hope) follow their booking etiquette. I can also understand why such protocol after hearing stories about that.

Not sure about the debate. The only debate could be about the tips as normally this is for good service and you won't know before the beginning of the session
If tips is given after it can feel transactional but you can't give it before so ... Catch22 lol

PS: I might be too nice or naive but I give everything donation + tips before

On a side note my housekeeper just reminded me I forgot several payments here and there. I usually send e-transfer during the week but I might forget if too busy. So anyone can forget or make genuine mistake.

 

[LeDodo]

I usually pay upfront, cause that's what I'm used to. But, I don't like it.
I prefer to pay at the end because, if the provider gave me a good service, I usually want to give an extra tip.
If I already paid, I usually don't like to go back in my pockets.

I agree, that's the catch 22 we try to deal with lol

 

[Wearethenight]

When in doubt, pay upfront, as in my previous post and a client refusing to pay after service rendered I contacted le. The last you want to do is end up in the news because it is theft, let me reference this article. I only see a few regulars independently, but if any client refused to pay me I will not hesitate to contact le. SW work hard, do your research and like most industries be respectful and pay.

Toronto area man charged after allegedly failing to pay for sexual services

A Toronto area man has been charged after he allegedly refused to pay for services he obtained from a sex professional in the Durham region, police said.

www.ctvnews.ca

 

[Enjoying life]

When in doubt, pay upfront, as in my previous post and a client refusing to pay after service rendered I contacted le. The last you want to do is end up in the news because it is theft, let me reference this article. I only see a few regulars independently, but if any client refused to pay me I will not hesitate to contact le. SW work hard, do your research and like most industries be respectful and pay.

Toronto area man charged after allegedly failing to pay for sexual services

A Toronto area man has been charged after he allegedly refused to pay for services he obtained from a sex professional in the Durham region, police said.

www.ctvnews.ca

What an ass!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

When in doubt, pay upfront, as in my previous post and a client refusing to pay after service rendered I contacted le. The last you want to do is end up in the news because it is theft, let me reference this article. I only see a few regulars independently, but if any client refused to pay me I will not hesitate to contact le. SW work hard, do your research and like most industries be respectful and pay.

Toronto area man charged after allegedly failing to pay for sexual services

A Toronto area man has been charged after he allegedly refused to pay for services he obtained from a sex professional in the Durham region, police said.

www.ctvnews.ca

Not only it is theft but it's an assault. If a client leaves without paying it's a breach of consent, because I consented to offer services in the condition that I am paid. And no that doesn't mean I find my clients unattractive.

 

[hob12]

I pay at the end because it feels more "natural" to do so.

But if the SP asks, I'll oblige right away.

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

mostly, i aim to pay at the beginning but oddly in a mp, we pay at the end most of the times

 

[Lunaseraphim]

mostly, i aim to pay at the beginning but oddly in a mp, we pay at the end most of the times

Really? I got paid at the beginning at the 3 MP I worked at.. I think it must depend on the security levels.

 

[jeffmathers]

When in doubt, pay upfront, as in my previous post and a client refusing to pay after service rendered I contacted le. The last you want to do is end up in the news because it is theft, let me reference this article. I only see a few regulars independently, but if any client refused to pay me I will not hesitate to contact le. SW work hard, do your research and like most industries be respectful and pay.

Toronto area man charged after allegedly failing to pay for sexual services

A Toronto area man has been charged after he allegedly refused to pay for services he obtained from a sex professional in the Durham region, police said.

www.ctvnews.ca

You're a provider?

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

Really? I got paid at the beginning at the 3 MP I worked at.. I think it must depend on the security levels.

Room fees get paid at the beginning, then tips at the end...

But it is true, there are other mps, like 2214 or La Montrealaise, they require the money up front. So yes, it depends of the mp

 

[Enjoying life]

Room fees get paid at the beginning, then tips at the end...

But it is true, there are other mps, like 2214 or La Montrealaise, they require the money up front. So yes, it depends of the mp

Your going to a place as its different than someone coming to you! SO MONEY IS ASKED UP FRONT

 

[philonius]

I started seeing sps only recently so I don't know what the expectation used to be but one constant of every indy website/ad/escorting recommendations has been money up front, so immediately that was the expectation. I don't know a world or scenario that would be improved by waiting until the end but then again I'm not used to getting screwed by providers or going to sketchy places so idk. I like doing it upfront actually, esp. when we meet in public bc it gives me an excuse to find a creative way to hide it.
Some ways I've handed a provider an envelope/money in public:
- Book (classic)
- Bookshelf safe disguised as a book (most spycraft item I've purchased)
- A fully sealed/addressed envelope with stamp ("oh, btw, can you mail this for me when you go to the post office")
- Inside the liner of a mostly sealed vinyl record
- Inside gift bag /w gift
- Inside a Nintendo Switch game case (/w game)

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Room fees get paid at the beginning, then tips at the end...

But it is true, there are other mps, like 2214 or La Montrealaise, they require the money up front. So yes, it depends of the mp

Yeah I think it depends on the place and if there's enough security. I don't know about 2214 but from what I heard La Montrealaise is a similar style of MP that I've worked at.. If there is security or a system in place to ensure the provider will be safe, obviously paying upfront isn't necessary. It's also not likely that anyone will forget because the service at MP is completely different, and so is the setting. I think it's curious that it seems more natural for some to pay at the end tho.. Maybe because when you go to the restaurant or you get a haircut, you pay after. But for me, I feel like it's more natural to ''get it out of the way'' and forget about the transaction during the booking, because of the nature of the service. Does that make sense?

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

Yeah I think it depends on the place and if there's enough security. I don't know about 2214 but from what I heard La Montrealaise is a similar style of MP that I've worked at.. If there is security or a system in place to ensure the provider will be safe, obviously paying upfront isn't necessary. I think it's curious that it seems more natural for some to pay at the end tho.. Maybe because when you go to the restaurant or you get a haircut, you pay after. But for me, I feel like it's more natural to ''get it out of the way'' and forget about the transaction during the booking, because of the nature of the service. Does that make sense?

Of course , it makes sense

 

[cpp433]

I can't imagine that even your bestie, most visited sp wouldn't want it at the beginning. Are they cool with it at the end bc of trust or familiarity or whatever? Maybe. Still doesn't mean you should.

Really? I been coming up there for 20 years give or take and only twice did the lady want the $ up front

 

[philonius]

Really? I been coming up there for 20 years give or take and only twice did the lady want the $ up front

Reread the 2nd part you quoted there. Just because they don't mind it at the end doesn't mean they're not concerned about it. In fact, asking for it means you messed up (that's how I feel about it) bc I bet there's quite a few that just wouldn't ask but wish you would just provide it upfront.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Really? I been coming up there for 20 years give or take and only twice did the lady want the $ up front

Are you talking about girls you saw at agencies tho? Because that's very different from an indy.

 

[Enjoying life]

Reread the 2nd part you quoted there. Just because they don't mind it at the end doesn't mean they're not concerned about it. In fact, asking for it means you messed up (that's how I feel about it) bc I bet there's quite a few that just wouldn't ask but wish you would just provide it upfront.

I greet sps with a nice hug and already give them a gift right away!

 

[kstanb]

always pay up front,
under any circumstances, e.g.: you forgot your wallet, you misunderstood the rates, the dog ate your envelope, etc, it is better that this is raised and solved BEFORE you both get naked