That’s why the male ego gets in the way sometimes although I have a strong ego I realize I can’t compete with a 30to 40 year old performance wise but making a session fun and enjoyable as gotten me many positive comments with the ladies and that’s really all I’m looking for.
MSOG guys...
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I've never been to a Massage Parlor, but my main service has been FBSM. The ladies massage for the first 40 min or so before the flip, so not sure how they could end it early. I guess parlor girls might flip you after 10 min?
When I was still participating in the hobby, I often would finish prematurely. Sometimes within one minute of intercourse. It depended on a few things such as when was the last time i was intimate with a woman, how attractive the sp was, the way she initiated foreplay, the vibe she gave while we were together ext. If she was very vocal during sex and encouraging me to cum that wouldn’t help my stamina either.
even though i’m young I still had trouble going for 2 SOG even if I finished quick, I just dont recharge fast enough and the few times I was able to get hard, i was unable to finish, which is honestly worse feeling then cumming quickly.
I always appreciated that the SP’s were not judgemental and very understanding regarding my PE. They never made it a big deal and some even liked it. ( less work for them I guess). It was one of the things I enjoyed most about the hobby, I didn’t have to prove myself to these girls, just go in be respectful and kind and have a great time. I never felt the need to « perform » which is very relieving mentally and helped me enjoy my time. Eventually my stamina improved and in general i was able to last an amount of time that was satisfying and the thought of even attempting a second SOG didn’t even cross my mind.
I learned that if you have stamina issues and 2 shots wasn’t doable the best thing is to pace the meeting. Take a shower, do some small talk, if the girl likes to give body massage go for that, do extended foreplay and then go to the main event. Even if you finish quick you still burned at least 20-25 mins and most sp’s appreciate taking it slow, especially a new client. You can spend the rest of the time cuddling, kissing and doing small talk. I learned to really appreciate this aspect of the meeting because just lying in bed with a woman is very relaxing and would often satisfy me more than the sex. Probably because I craved just being with a woman and spending time with a woman more than the actual sex. I was incredibly inexperienced with women before the hobby and it helped me be more comfortable around women in general and being more social with the opposite sex. I don’t think I would have been able to court my current partner if I didn’t spend so many hours with all those amazing Sps I saw. They gave me confidence, helped me improve my skills in the bedroom and made me comfortable being around the opposite sex.
Anyway i dont know where i’m going with this but essentially, meetings are more than « how many times can I get my rocks off ». Enjoy and appreciate the other aspects of a meeting and your hobby happiness won’t come down to if you were able to sog 2 or 3 times.
even though i’m young I still had trouble going for 2 SOG even if I finished quick, I just dont recharge fast enough and the few times I was able to get hard, i was unable to finish, which is honestly worse feeling then cumming quickly.
I always appreciated that the SP’s were not judgemental and very understanding regarding my PE. They never made it a big deal and some even liked it. ( less work for them I guess). It was one of the things I enjoyed most about the hobby, I didn’t have to prove myself to these girls, just go in be respectful and kind and have a great time. I never felt the need to « perform » which is very relieving mentally and helped me enjoy my time. Eventually my stamina improved and in general i was able to last an amount of time that was satisfying and the thought of even attempting a second SOG didn’t even cross my mind.
I learned that if you have stamina issues and 2 shots wasn’t doable the best thing is to pace the meeting. Take a shower, do some small talk, if the girl likes to give body massage go for that, do extended foreplay and then go to the main event. Even if you finish quick you still burned at least 20-25 mins and most sp’s appreciate taking it slow, especially a new client. You can spend the rest of the time cuddling, kissing and doing small talk. I learned to really appreciate this aspect of the meeting because just lying in bed with a woman is very relaxing and would often satisfy me more than the sex. Probably because I craved just being with a woman and spending time with a woman more than the actual sex. I was incredibly inexperienced with women before the hobby and it helped me be more comfortable around women in general and being more social with the opposite sex. I don’t think I would have been able to court my current partner if I didn’t spend so many hours with all those amazing Sps I saw. They gave me confidence, helped me improve my skills in the bedroom and made me comfortable being around the opposite sex.
Anyway i dont know where i’m going with this but essentially, meetings are more than « how many times can I get my rocks off ». Enjoy and appreciate the other aspects of a meeting and your hobby happiness won’t come down to if you were able to sog 2 or 3 times.
CydoniaNights, I wouldn't beat yourself up too much about lasting one minute for the first round. Depending on the woman, I last about that long too. But that's generally because I rarely climax via BBBJ. So all that pent-up stamina is usually no match for FS round one.
When I can keep it up, it's usually in the 2nd or 3rd round. And rounds 2 and 3 are almost always in a 2hr session and if she and I click really well. There are some SPs that always bring out the best in me to have such MSOG. But nothing lasts forever. I can tell it's taking me longer to recover. Or maybe I wasn't as head over heels enamored with the women as I thought. I won't know until my next Montreal sportfucking trip. Either way, memento mori so we should just go out and enjoy ourselves.
When I can keep it up, it's usually in the 2nd or 3rd round. And rounds 2 and 3 are almost always in a 2hr session and if she and I click really well. There are some SPs that always bring out the best in me to have such MSOG. But nothing lasts forever. I can tell it's taking me longer to recover. Or maybe I wasn't as head over heels enamored with the women as I thought. I won't know until my next Montreal sportfucking trip. Either way, memento mori so we should just go out and enjoy ourselves.
I think things vary significantly for people depending on their age, level of fitness, sexual appetite, the level of attraction and chemistry between the two partners, and how much action the guy has already had in the last day/week. I do think its a base case where you need to have the ability to do MSOG< but then it also requires a mental and physical state of readiness (as I've fluctuated a lot in my abilities previously)
For example, when I was in my early 20s several years ago (and generally quite healthy and fit with good amount of sleep each night) I was able to have sex all week long (think one week I met 23 different providers, basically doing 3 one hour sessions a day though I think the curve was more like 6-7 sessions the first day, then it dropped off to 3-5 a day before eventually it was tough to even just have 1-2 sessions in a day with a full night of sleep).
But then when I was feeling less fit in MTL I think just meeting 5-10 in a week was challenging.
Over time I've grown to appreciate all parts of a date, not just my own gratification, but also exploring new kinks or trying to learn different positions or ways to spice things up. In my opinion that's the part that I love about dates with different SPs, you meet such a dynamic range of people who all introduce you to different things that help you learn more about yourself (what you like or don't like) as well as about what's out there.
Nowadays I usually book 90 minutes as its the minimum I want if I'm going to try for two SOG, though I have been able to make it work in an hour before, I feel rushed and I don't like trying to rush things just for the short term gratification. Usually I get a shot out of the way while we build chemistry, and then spend some time talking and learning more about my partner and practicing my french before going for the second shot.
There have been providers I have incredible chemistry with like Lina @ XO (think she retired?) where we ended up just doing multiple 3 hour sessions because we were so attracted to each other and lost count
I also remember when visiting MUH I used to really enjoy the different kink sessions and would usually do multiple hours and manage to get MSOG because it was easy to stay turned on with all the novelty of different roleplays.
On the other hand I've also had times where just getting one shot with a provider is hard because things are awkward or there is a major interruption in the passion and I start to get performance anxiety because things aren't really free flowing (gotten better at relaxing over the years). Or I'm just numb due to too many sessions in the past few days and need to take a break.
For example, when I was in my early 20s several years ago (and generally quite healthy and fit with good amount of sleep each night) I was able to have sex all week long (think one week I met 23 different providers, basically doing 3 one hour sessions a day though I think the curve was more like 6-7 sessions the first day, then it dropped off to 3-5 a day before eventually it was tough to even just have 1-2 sessions in a day with a full night of sleep).
But then when I was feeling less fit in MTL I think just meeting 5-10 in a week was challenging.
Over time I've grown to appreciate all parts of a date, not just my own gratification, but also exploring new kinks or trying to learn different positions or ways to spice things up. In my opinion that's the part that I love about dates with different SPs, you meet such a dynamic range of people who all introduce you to different things that help you learn more about yourself (what you like or don't like) as well as about what's out there.
Nowadays I usually book 90 minutes as its the minimum I want if I'm going to try for two SOG, though I have been able to make it work in an hour before, I feel rushed and I don't like trying to rush things just for the short term gratification. Usually I get a shot out of the way while we build chemistry, and then spend some time talking and learning more about my partner and practicing my french before going for the second shot.
There have been providers I have incredible chemistry with like Lina @ XO (think she retired?) where we ended up just doing multiple 3 hour sessions because we were so attracted to each other and lost count
I also remember when visiting MUH I used to really enjoy the different kink sessions and would usually do multiple hours and manage to get MSOG because it was easy to stay turned on with all the novelty of different roleplays.
On the other hand I've also had times where just getting one shot with a provider is hard because things are awkward or there is a major interruption in the passion and I start to get performance anxiety because things aren't really free flowing (gotten better at relaxing over the years). Or I'm just numb due to too many sessions in the past few days and need to take a break.
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I remember during my amateur days, I could go 2 easily within an hour. Overtime it became more about the potency of the SOG. I learned by holding out my SOG (takes training), increases the build up. Depending how good it is, it can just be once during a session. 2 is my sweet spot. 3 sounds excessive, imo i think it comes from the inability to drain yourself. To each their own. I prefer having two POW POWs then 3 pew pew pews. lol I wanna walk out like a drunk in the streets
23 in a week! If they cost on average of $200, that's $4600/week to spend! Were you a 22year old CEO?
It was one of my first trips in the hobby ever (I visited MTL from US) so I was a bit like a kid visiting disney land for the first time
Since then I've learned to focus on having a few really good sessions vs trying to cross everybody off my todo list (and my trips were like 1-2 times a year so by no means was I paying that every week jaja)
Since then I've learned to focus on having a few really good sessions vs trying to cross everybody off my todo list (and my trips were like 1-2 times a year so by no means was I paying that every week jaja)
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