Newbie seeking advices

[Chloeeloise]

Hi. I'm a girl who wants to get into the industry. I'm seeking advices.
I want to know how to begin.
Is it better to work for someone or to be independant?
Incall or outcall?
The dos and the don't?
How to have a maximum security?
I'm open to any kind of advices and thank you in advance for your help.

And how do I upload a picture? I can't find where is the spot to do it. Maybe because I'm on my phone.

Please don't judge my english, I know it's bad.
French is my main language.

 

[Jamesrenard44]

Salut

Je te suggère de contacter une des nombreuses indépendante sur ce site. Elles sont les mieux placé pour indiquer ce qu'être indépendante implique versus travailler pour une agence (publicité, séance photo, incall ou outcall, le type de service que tu veux offrir, l'administration des rendez-vous etc etc)

Peut-être que certains connaissent plus que la pointe de l'iceberg mais je me fierais bcp plus a une fille d'expérience...

And please, don't give freebies in exchange of good reviews, already enough drama for 2016 lollll

 

[marc7]

The vast majority of SPs can smell a guy who is a cheapass and deliver service accordingly so when you say you will give an "honest review", it's honest only from one point of view and not reflecting that the girl is giving a service she gives to her perceived cheapass clients, while she delivers a better service to better paying clients. This is all or should be common sense. Therefore I do not trust the cheapass hobbyist's review. Furthermore the cheapass hobbyists tend to pick out the very low end SPs they can afford, or who are more likely to give a freebie or discounted service to them, and then overrate them - whereas the higher end or market SPs usually are a better quality SP in looks and service. Granted there are gems at all levels of the market, but when a girl is discovered to be a gem she gets paid accordingly as per the laws of the marketplace and basic rules of supply and demand. Reviews may initially influence the demand but if a girl is overrated and then she does not get repeat clients, eventually there is a market correction in the price or she is fired or if an indy, ceases charging a high rate. Conversely an SP in solid demand wanting to work less may increase her prices accordingly and get away with it as simple good business planning. Example: Chloe of Euphoria- i have never met her privately but she has had many great reviews over a sustained period of time, raised her rates dramatically, works less and still gets great reviews at $300/hour.

Voilà je pense qu'EB résume bien le côté affaires de la chose !
C'est le côté personnel qui est le plus dure . Respecte toi et tes limites !

 

[Chloeeloise]

Merci pour vos réponses.

 

[talkinghead]

Hmmmmmm....

 

[Handi]

Don't contact Ricky Bonds.
Lol kidding, it depends of the amount of time you want to invest. If you have time to become an indy, than contact indycompanion, they will advise you

 

[EagerBeaver]

Talk to some of the more experienced indies n the board - like Miss Elizabeth, Gabreielle Garnier. Talk to good agency owners- the ones I like are James of Euphoria and Martin at XXXtase. Both are smart, know the business, and if you send your pics tell you where you stand. James agency's tends to favor spinner type ladies.

 

[AmberRose]

Like Handi mentioned, if you think working independent is a route you'd like to go, feel free to contact myself or anyone else from Indycompanion(or just email directly on the website) and we can help set you up

 

[Lawless]

Don't do it.

Turn around and stay away from this business as far away as you can. Don't destroy your life over some quick money.
Every woman I've met in this business has been messed up to some degree, your outcome will be no different.

 

[jalimon]

Don't do it.

Turn around and stay away from this business as far away as you can. Don't destroy your life over some quick money.
Every woman I've met in this business has been messed up to some degree, your outcome will be no different.

Completely agree and the same can be said for men. All of them seeing SP also have someting messed up to some degree. So if you can avoid, avoid this business!

 

[AmberRose]

Don't do it.

Turn around and stay away from this business as far away as you can. Don't destroy your life over some quick money.
Every woman I've met in this business has been messed up to some degree, your outcome will be no different.

Good thing you haven't met me then, or you'd have to eat your words sir

She is a human who can make her own decisions. No one is enticing her into this and she can get all the facts and decide for herself if it's something she'd like to continue with.

I certainly hope you aren't still seeing any providers with that attitude!

 

[Lawless]

Good thing you haven't met me then, or you'd have to eat your words sir

She is a human who can make her own decisions. No one is enticing her into this and she can get all the facts and decide for herself if it's something she'd like to continue with.

I certainly hope you aren't still seeing any providers with that attitude!

AmberRose,

she is asking for advice, I am giving her my opinion and maybe find her a solution. Is that ok with you?

and no I don't see any providers. I did at one time and today regret it. I was foolish, selfish. I didn't know it then , but I know it now.

Tell me, would you want your daughter to be an escort?

 

[tiannas]

Tell me, would you want your daughter to be an escort?

If my daughter was old enough, emotionally mature enough and was to escort because she enjoyed it, then absolutely yes. This is not a shameful profession, and can be a positive experience for many women.

Might I ask you, if you regret seeing providers and no longer do so, why are you here? Just curious.

 

[AmberRose]

If my daughter was old enough, emotionally mature enough and was to escort because she enjoyed it, then absolutely yes. This is not a shameful profession, and can be a positive experience for many women.

Might I ask you, if you regret seeing providers and no longer do so, why are you here? Just curious.

Yep, well said and I concur.

I haven't had bad experiences in this industry and love it, it's enriched my life more than I can explain, so why would I tell my(future) daughter she can't experience the same for herself and make her own choices from there.

My own parents know what I do and are accepting, you want to tell me they're wrong?

Either way, I've seen the negative impact this industry can have on women better than you could have, and I still say she's free to make her own choice when given the facts. I never recommend this business to women, I am truthful about it in every way and let them know it's up to them if they want to enter into it. To tell someone to avoid it at all costs is biased.

 

[Thor Jr]

Don't do it.

Turn around and stay away from this business as far away as you can. Don't destroy your life over some quick money.
Every woman I've met in this business has been messed up to some degree, your outcome will be no different.

Sorry guys, but the part about every woman is messed up is a crock, i have become friends with a few of the ladies and know many of them and they are no screwed up, if anything they are better because if what they do and who they are.

Chloe, if you want to do things right and have fun doing it, just like EB said, talk to some of the veterans ladies from the boards and get their advice, they are popular because not only because they are good at what they but also because they are smart.

P.S. I am not trying to get freebies for kissing ass.....


Thor Jr


Thor Jr

 

[Lawless]

If my daughter was old enough, emotionally mature enough and was to escort because she enjoyed it, then absolutely yes. This is not a shameful profession, and can be a positive experience for many women.

Might I ask you, if you regret seeing providers and no longer do so, why are you here? Just curious.

Tell me Tiannas, do you have a daughter? I am thinking you don't. I have 2 BTW.

Why I'm here ? I find some discussions interesting and like to keep up with how the industry is going. That Ricky Bonds is some interesting character, no? Many Ricky Bonds in this business.

 

[Thor Jr]

If my daughter was old enough, emotionally mature enough and was to escort because she enjoyed it, then absolutely yes. This is not a shameful profession, and can be a positive experience for many women.

Might I ask you, if you regret seeing providers and no longer do so, why are you here? Just curious.

Amen, and it is one of the oldest professions around and respected in some countries as so.

Thor Jr

 

[jalimon]

If my daughter was old enough, emotionally mature enough and was to escort because she enjoyed it, then absolutely yes. This is not a shameful profession, and can be a positive experience for many women.

Can you have a normal life? Have a boyfriend that understand? Have a family that understand? Have another job with colleagues that undertand? Have kids? And so on? No, it's a life where at some point you will have to avoid talking about it. Lawless is right in the fact that choosing this life is choosing a life where everyone is messed up to some degree. If you are confident and ok with that, all fine, as you are and as I am. But honestly the first best advice is still to avoid

 

[minutemenX]

Don't do it.

Turn around and stay away from this business as far away as you can. Don't destroy your life over some quick money.
Every woman I've met in this business has been messed up to some degree, your outcome will be no different.

I just love confident people who know exactly what is good for everybody and for the world…
Why we don’t listen to them?

 

[AmberRose]

Can you have a normal life? Have a boyfriend that understand? Have a family that understand? Have another job with colleagues that undertand? Have kids? And so on? No, it's a life where at some point you will have to avoid talking about it. Lawless is right in the fact that choosing this life is choosing a life where everyone is messed up to some degree. If you are confident and ok with that, all fine, as you are and as I am. But honestly the first best advice is still to avoid

The answer to all your questions is actually yes, many of us are living proof of all of the above

For a business you haven't worked a day in, I wouldn't be giving advice since you have no personal experience, only prejudice.