BadChap, I appreciate very much what you're saying and I believe that you are respectful and considerate in your time with the girls you see. I truly think they must be grateful to see you.
I'm sorry to be so serious in a forum based on pleasure. But I'm interested in the reality of the hobby as well as the fantasy. And, in the end, I do believe that women should be able make their own choices about their lives, and that the best we can do is be considerate and respectful--exactly as you say.
Exceptionally well stated and very insightful wisdom and advice.
Every job and profession has its own inherent risks. Even LE's are now targets of crazy people and folks who are at the wrong place at the wrong time have been murdered -- for example, 10 German tourists were blown up by a suicide bomber in Istanbul (a place I've always wanted to visit) today in the (misguided) name of religion.
I have spent quality time with Independent SP's in Montreal and TO. But because of my extremely limited availability (because I'm caring for a terminally ill parent), I often have less than a couple of days to book my flight and hotel to Montreal and then I try to relax, take in Montreal's culture and exceptional food and see as many SP's as I can (like a convict who was granted a weekend pass for conjugal visits, except I have no SO -- no time or energy even to hit the gym).
I fully support a woman's choice to make an informed, educated decision as to what she does with her body, based on the totality of the circumstances in her life.