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MCTJ

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Before the pandemic I used to be a purely incall guy. Since I don't live nor work downtown, the trip there was always a little bit of a hassle. Being single and living in a condo building, I decided to switch to outcall agencies. I know that not everyone can host in their home, but here are a few of my pros and cons with this type of situation

Pros
1) the comfort of being in your own home
2) cleanliness in guaranteed
3) easier to arrange snacks and drinks
4) easier to fit in my daily routine

Cons
1) more cleaning and laundry to do
2) potential issues around discretion, but no problem so far
3) unable to see ladies from XO in outcall mode (distance)

Do you have any experiences to share about hosting a SP at your place?
 

Christian32

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I agree with all your points @MCTJ , I would add:
Pros:
- Girls are more focus on you, when they look around its not to find the clock but learn about you and so you build a stronger and faster connection with them. Also girls that do outcall can't take as many clients.

Cons:
- Its harder to refuse a girl when you don't like how she looks
- Some girls will steal your things so you need to hide your valuable objects before they come and/or keep an eye on them at all time.
 
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I found several issues when arranging outcall at home
  • The biggest problem here is invasion of privacy. It is very hard to hide every piece of identification around the house which may indicate what my real name is, what I do etc. I also found the girls are very curious. For exp- in between breaks I give the girl my personal laptop to listen to some music, I see them they start to go over my browsing history, trying to find my real name from my youtube account info, opening drawers in my home without my permission etc.
  • I also found, hygiene of girls are lot better when I do incall compare to outcall. This is true especially now in summer.
  • Lot of times girls will arrive late due to traffic and will leave the place early again due to traffic/next outcall location is far.
  • Lastly, you have to clean your properly before the meeting which is a lot of work in my case.
 

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@testingsite I agree with your points!

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The biggest problem here is invasion of privacy. It is very hard to hide every piece of identification around the house which may indicate what my real name is, what I do etc. I also found the girls are very curious. For exp- in between breaks I give the girl my personal laptop to listen to some music, I see them they start to go over my browsing history, trying to find my real name from my youtube account info, opening drawers in my home without my permission etc.
That's something I think that we have to give up to do outcalls at home

I also found, hygiene of girls are lot better when I do incall compare to outcall. This is true especially now in summer.
Indeed, I considered mentioning this one, it depends a lot on the girl, but in average they are less clean and I think the explanation is simple... girls doing outcalls don't take a shower when they arrive (I only had one do that, once on a hot summer day) so we have to hope that the client before us gave them enough time to shower...

Lot of times girls will arrive late due to traffic and will leave the place early again due to traffic/next outcall location is far.
I don't mind personally that they be late (I prefer that they be late than too early), but I had some cancel at the last minute and that is frustrating as had already spent time to prepare my condo.

But despite those possible issues, can we agree that an outcall at home with a gem is the best possible SP experience ? :)
 

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Too many things can go wrong at home. Personally, it’s something I would never consider.
 

MCTJ

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@testingsite
  • Privacy: i have very few things to hide that could reveal my identity and I have very few valuables that one could steal, so not a big deal
  • Hygiene: definitely something that crossed my mind. When she seemed rushed, I have asked if she wanted to shower at the start of the meeting, and the offer was accepted once.
  • Late arrival: seems to be almost the norm unfortunately. I should've added it to my list. I never had one leave early at the end.
I have not given up entirely on incalls, it's just that they became the most convenient option for me in these different times. I expect to do a mix of both when "life returns to normal". I would not consider renting a hotel room ($) just to see a girl from an outcall agency. As it turns out, I found at least two gems from the largest outcall agency in town :)
 

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Pro if you have a physical disability it is very difficult to get around to the incall location and shower their. In your own home you feel comfortable and safe
 
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Speedygonzales

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I prefer outcall, I feel much more at ease in my own house.Being a single guy, I dont worry about hiding my identity, In general, the sps that i entertain are independent, so dont have to deal with agency drivers.
 
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There is really only one lady I would ever invite to my home.
I much prefer meeting them at their incall.
I am not scared of them taking anything I usually have quite a bit of cash with me on top of the donation and I have never had anything missing, they are not thieves they are escorts, the ones I have met so far I trust.
While I don’t disclose my real name, it would not be a big deal if they knew.
It would be too much of a hassle to clean a big home just for that each time and I have family photographs all over my home those I like keeping private.
 
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I think for a lot of us privacy is important. I don’t feel comfortable inviting an SP in my home.
i prefer meeting them at their incall location. Some SP I have talked to about doing outcalls, don’t even like the idea of doing them. For some it’s a question of security and safety.
 

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But despite those possible issues, can we agree that an outcall at home with a gem is the best possible SP experience ? :)

I do agree with you on this. There are many things you can do in outcall which is not possible incall. If you have right chemistry with girl, they might even stay overnight without any extra fee. Some girls even told me that they prefer outcall, because they do not like being cooped up all day in their incall apartment. Atleast a mix of incall and outcall is preferred.

Now, if you happen to book wrong girl, things can go pretty wrong as well.

I remember this one time I booked a girl from an agency and when she arrived at my condo building, I saw that girl got picked up by police. I was pretty scared at that time about it. After that event, the girl disappeared from that agency roaster. Several months after that event, I saw that girl popped-up in another agency schedule. So, I booked her again and then, when we met, she explained what happened several months back when she got picked up by police. Just to be clear, the reason she got picked up has nothing to do with escorting. I also assume the girl did not say anything to police about why she was at that time in my condo building :) Then couple of times you know girls show up when they are under influence and also possess drugs. Seriously, I do not feel comfortable having drugs in my house.
 

MCTJ

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Also, the only calls I have done at home were with girls from reputable agencies. If something were to go wrong, I could contact the agency to address the situation
 

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My problem with outcall is they always late n i only have a small window sometimes when i hobby so has to be on time n also i find the outcall places sometimes hav hot girls but bad or YMMV service n the good service girls lack a bit of looks.. girls that have both looks n service can find more in the incall. If you have good relation with them n book often or long hrs im sure they will accomodate.. even n especially indy always late on outcall n i have to make sure i block a coupl hours free
 

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have to agree on the hygiene comments from my one time trying this; and if it's the norm I would rethink repeating. I had to open all the windows it literally smelled like someone unloaded a boatload of salmon in my house.
apart from that no issues with lateness and she was super cool and non-judgemental about being fucked while facing a copy of goodnight moon on the bedside table, among other things I had no time to put away.
 

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I found several issues when arranging outcall at home
  • The biggest problem here is invasion of privacy. It is very hard to hide every piece of identification around the house which may indicate what my real name is, what I do etc. I also found the girls are very curious. For exp- in between breaks I give the girl my personal laptop to listen to some music, I see them they start to go over my browsing history, trying to find my real name from my youtube account info, opening drawers in my home without my permission etc.
  • I also found, hygiene of girls are lot better when I do incall compare to outcall. This is true especially now in summer.
  • Lot of times girls will arrive late due to traffic and will leave the place early again due to traffic/next outcall location is far.
  • Lastly, you have to clean your properly before the meeting which is a lot of work in my case.
Weird, I never saw a girl snoop or try to steal anything.

In my experience, something to watch out for is the evidence they leave behind. That happens frequently.
 
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When i started in 2009 incall was actually not even a thing. Agencies that were the leaders in Montreal (Devilish/GOF) or Satin Dreamz, Xxxtase etc, had no incall. Its really Mike with Goodgirl that changed the game. Im sure incalls existed before but they were not much part of Merb.

So being from a different place i had to take an hotel anyway and got used to meet this way. For having done a few incalls too, i really don't like it as much.I don't like arriving and having to shower in a rush cause its on my time (compare to shower BEFORE she arrive at my own pace for outcall). Then even if drying myself i still feel "wet" and don't engage too fast in action cause its uncomfortable for me. Also i don't like the feeling of going into a "foreign place" to have sex... And then once you done, gotta dress again fast and be out to not overstay your welcome. When she leave my place i like to take 10-15 mins of cooling down in underwear with a beer, then usually i put my taughts in my review or if a friend wanna do something i then go in the shower and prepare to leave, but i can do this at my own pace. Its just also not cool having to do metro and walk in summer heat or winter cold.

I get that incall has huge benefit for the agencies. No driving loss time, easier to book and control etc, but i just really don't enjoy it as much. The couple times i did it i had no hotel room as i had somebody to drive me back home same day (once was a party, once was a metal show i was attending with friends) and during that show i also made it 1 bird 2 stone and met Scarlett wich was at Euphoria at the time and she was only doing incall in her place. But honestly it would need to be someone i REAAAALLLY wanna meet hardcore for me to do incall again. There is one exeption and i won't elaborate too much on it as the lady is UTR but even tough i meet her incall i don't have to follow a clock. Sex is usually between 45m to 1h but she is very lenient on the time for shower/talk, i don't feel pressured at all.

If i was based in Montreal i dunno what i would do. Im assuming some agencies don't do outcalls to home that are not in the heart of downtown. Renting an hotel just for sex even tough cheaper than a night (Chablis/Chabrol 4h for instance) is still money spent. Even tough there was a little "issue" some of you rode in one of my last reviews, i gotta say having a friend wich is downtown and offering me a room has really be a blessing. I save hotel $, i feel almost like home (as i usually stay a couple days to spend time with him too) and i don't have to go to an incall.

Now if incalls were a little different, like the brothels in movies, that could be a different thing. I mean you arrive and get confy in a lobby, get served a drink, get a line up of available ladies etc, that would be an experience i would love to do. I get that privacy wise its not it, and the bigger agencies have most of their girls fully booked every nights so they would never really be part of the line up, but if the covid crap finally move away one day i think it would be a wonderfull idea for agencies to have as "semi special events".

Altough the logistic could be the problem as current incalls are not set up to accomodate this. And before someone says it, yes im aware massage place can work that way (some will offer you a line up) but they ain't like escorts service wise and it ain't as glamour as my vision of it. Now maybe im just dreaming too much and this can't be possible whatsoever but i just feel it would be so cool.

This remind me when Mike of Mtl GFE renamed his agency Mike's Mansion, for a bit i taught he would litteraly have something like that. But in the end it pretty much was just a name change til his agency and euphoria fusion.
 
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testingsite

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Also, the only calls I have done at home were with girls from reputable agencies. If something were to go wrong, I could contact the agency to address the situation

Here, very important thing to understand only some situations an agency can handle like if a girl shows up your home drunk/wasted. In that case, either they can send you a different girl or give you a refund.

But some situations are beyond their control like if a girl leaves the agency and then start blackmailing you knowing your personal info like family/work info or have text message exchange info between you and her. In this case, you will have to handle the situation completely alone. You can not ask help from law enforcements either.

So, you have to be always very careful.
 
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adeci

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have to agree on the hygiene comments from my one time trying this; and if it's the norm I would rethink repeating. I had to open all the windows it literally smelled like someone unloaded a boatload of salmon in my house.
apart from that no issues with lateness and she was super cool and non-judgemental about being fucked while facing a copy of goodnight moon on the bedside table, among other things I had no time to put away.

It was time for another P.M. (planned maintenance) during the heatwave nonetheless. Different girl and no smell. I only wonder what is that routine they do in the W.C. upon arrival. So far each time the girl spends like 5 minutes in there and leaves absolutely no trace. I only hope she is not flushing something kind of kit down my toilet as I don't want to end up calling a plumber.
 
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So, I have started doing again outcall more in past 2 months than incall and the difference is so shocking :oops:.

The outcall agency girls are more nicer, affectionate and less business minded. They provided a lot more comfortable and non-rushed session.

I had 8 encounters in past 2 months from outcall agencies and I had zero bad sessions .

I like now more outcall than incall :) .
 

Ducon

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I've been receiving at home for years.
I only had a problem once, with a girl who couldn't hold her drink. The agency stepped up to resolve the situation.

The girls frequently leave behind all sorts of evidence that would be very difficult to explain to my wife or girlfriend if I had one.
Recently, a girl sprayed a load of her perfume in my bathroom for some reason. The smell lingered for days.
 
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