Flossing after an appointment is wild. Taking DATY to another level..., or worse... DATO.
Showers, who are these guys ruining it for everyone.
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that's one of the benefits of this hobby, I am now a certified expert on every type of shower/bath faucet design know to man. I've seen 'em all!
from the 80s style bathtub showers where you pull a little lever on the bath spigut to sent the water upstairs to the showerhead (which often results in half of the water continuing to come out of the bath spigut and only half out of the shower head - so then you re-try the lever several times to try to maximize the conversion from the bath to the shower head, sometimes that works sometimes it doesn't), to the ultra modern sytle showers with multiple sleek dials where you dont know what controls what (usualy one for temp and the other is some kinda diverter) to evertything in between. Low pressure showers, high pressure showers which rip your skin off; hand showers that clip and those where the clip is broken (common, then you inevatibly get sprayed by the dangling hand shower), or hand showers that leak from the handle or from the connection to the source. I've seen showers where the controls are on one wall, but the water comes out the opposite wall... I've seen waterfall showers from the ceiling and body sprays that aim for your private parts. Glass enclosure showers, flimsy curtain showers, showers with no curtains! Rolling glass doors that wont stay closed showers (you end up holding the door closed with one hand while showering with the other hand). Showers with windows, showers with no light. Showers where hot and cold are inversed (thats common). Only cold water showers. Only scalding boiling hot water showers! Moldy showers, brand new showers. Showers with very personal items lol - thats always interesting. And more.
My point: i always take a shower, its expected, no matter the state of the shower.
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I do agree to the shower before the session...that is automatic with me.
I have seen many different style of shower offered...one that still upsets me was the lady said she took a shower just before I arrived. I appreciated that..I told her that I wanted to shower before starting...I enter the bathroom...start the taps to get the desired temperature of water, undress and wait for water to warm up....4-5 minutes goes by...still cold. Okay! taps are reversed...turn the other tap on only wait 4-5 minutes still cold water..WTF? I still took a cold shower despite being frozen...I hope she is warm enough to keep me from shivering like a motor running on a few cylinders instead of all of them. At this point I wonder if she did take a cold shower before me and maybe she used all the hot water and left me with nothing but cold water?
On another date she didn't force me to shower before because she asked if I showered before leaving home...Yes I did! After getting really intimate she wanted to please me with licking my anus(is this still called DATO on a man?), so she used a baby wipe on my back door and she was surprised how clean I was. No shit Sherlock(pun intended) I have a bidet at home that I love using before any special event...she says that many guys still have residue from wiping. Just saying...
I have seen many different style of shower offered...one that still upsets me was the lady said she took a shower just before I arrived. I appreciated that..I told her that I wanted to shower before starting...I enter the bathroom...start the taps to get the desired temperature of water, undress and wait for water to warm up....4-5 minutes goes by...still cold. Okay! taps are reversed...turn the other tap on only wait 4-5 minutes still cold water..WTF? I still took a cold shower despite being frozen...I hope she is warm enough to keep me from shivering like a motor running on a few cylinders instead of all of them. At this point I wonder if she did take a cold shower before me and maybe she used all the hot water and left me with nothing but cold water?
On another date she didn't force me to shower before because she asked if I showered before leaving home...Yes I did! After getting really intimate she wanted to please me with licking my anus(is this still called DATO on a man?), so she used a baby wipe on my back door and she was surprised how clean I was. No shit Sherlock(pun intended) I have a bidet at home that I love using before any special event...she says that many guys still have residue from wiping. Just saying...
There’s no mutual drying off because the girls apparently “shower” and do their makeup and hair before we get there.
In my case its right as i arrive after the "hello, im HM, nice to meet you". The reason is im not comfortable starting right away as i get out of the shower. Its weird, i feel "wet" despite drying off and its just not a good feeling. So using the 10-12m of chit chat for that part make it 2 birds 1 stone. If i talked 10 min, showered, then waited another 10 min it would make it almost 30 mins before anything start, wich is too long.
I usually take it pretty fast after a few salutations. I'd rather have a chat after so we can transition to the "main event" without being interrupted.
Why apperently ? I always refresh few min before the person is coming why I ask exact time
A little after arriving after a bit of a chat and a glass of wine.
I do like .. get pay.. shower and after chill ... but I know some girls prefer char and after go in the shower.. but I find it's interrompt the session
Would you like to be kiss at front of the door or later ... ?
Tout est dans le premier regard. You know if you kiss now or later and thi s
…this is a matter of vibe when you look at her and she looks at you
Yes .. but if I give space to the person when she come .. or I look at her really close it's to way to open the door
This is such a good question because I enjoy kissing and often do it very early on. So many of the clients who see me love this. BUT one time I kissed a client when he arrived and 2mins later he left because I wasn't his type, I spent the rest of the week feeling like I had sexually assaulted him. Wouldn't have kissed him had I known I wasn't his type. I still feel bad about it tbh.
Please assault me as much as you wish. I ll tell you right at bat i m not into balls busting.Not all men are into kissing; Both take a chance at first meeting
Agreed I don’t like to chat right out of the gate, there’s plenty of time for that after the first shower & the SOG.
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