The psychology of this pursuit can be fascinating stuff. Some guys are very uncomfortable seeing escorts. It unnerves them to write an email note, to wait for her knock on the door, and deal with the possibility that she may not be attractive to him. A guy I know who was into the Amsterdam windowgirl scene but now craves the German FKK Club action put it this way. He prefers, ``See, Buy, Fly`` (the motto of the duty-free shops at Schipol Airport in Holland) when it comes to picking the ladies.
I`m of the belief that if you`re going to enjoy the fruits of this hobby, then you have to be brutally honest about your sexuality. As Giselle of FKS aptly put it in one of her posts, ``This (hobby) is adult entertainment``. It`s not about choosing a mate or spouse. Everyone has their quirks in this business, both the guys and the gals.
One acronym that gets tossed around a lot, without a lot of exaggeration, is GFE. Ronnie (NaughtyLady) made an excellent point about one group of hobbyists: “Guys who want to explore parts of their sexuality that their wife or girfriend is too ``vanilla`` to even consider”. And what might be “too vanilla” to many a wife or girlfriend? The doggy position for one. At least in the USA. It scares the hell of some women to have sex in that position. And some are quite uncomfortable in cowgirl. Yet at the same time, particularly during the hot-and-heavy romance stages in a relationship (pre-marriage), the same ladies who recoil at the doggy position will sometimes insist on providing a TC/CIM/S. And we know what the “S” stands for.
As an aside, I ran into a couple of married guys in Amsterdam RLD a few years ago. Each guy talked about how he loved his wife and his kids but the infrequency of sex disappointed them. So they were like kids in a candy store in the Amsterdam RLD. No-kissing is the cartel standard there but sweaty gymnastics in multiple positions with a bonafide 9/10 for face and/or body is pretty damn amazing. Imagine doing it doggy style with a lady whose world-class body is as good or better than ubermodel Heidi Klum in her prime. Two words: SENSORY OVERLOAD! You’re holding her waist or hips from behind. Her waist might be 22-24” flared to 34-36” hips and, as one guy put it, you can reach down to fondle her at the same time. It’s living a fantasy for a brief period. But there is a downside to clubs and windowgirls. Closed eyes, lack of enthusiasm, often many restrictions, occasional ripoffs, and sometimes horrible chemistry. The escort pursuit, as I’ve experienced it in Montreal, is much more satisfying.
With Eastern Europe opening up to more airlines, I see many more guys headed to that region to indulge in 24 hour companionship at $300-600US or thereabouts. That’s a mere fraction of what other markets, including Montreal, charge. And some of the women in Eastern Europe are drop-dead gorgeous and for a fixed rate provide a “SuperGFE” (virtually all the mainstream acronyms plus Greek in some cases), as one fan of the Riga (Latvia) scene put it.
I`m of the belief that if you`re going to enjoy the fruits of this hobby, then you have to be brutally honest about your sexuality. As Giselle of FKS aptly put it in one of her posts, ``This (hobby) is adult entertainment``. It`s not about choosing a mate or spouse. Everyone has their quirks in this business, both the guys and the gals.
One acronym that gets tossed around a lot, without a lot of exaggeration, is GFE. Ronnie (NaughtyLady) made an excellent point about one group of hobbyists: “Guys who want to explore parts of their sexuality that their wife or girfriend is too ``vanilla`` to even consider”. And what might be “too vanilla” to many a wife or girlfriend? The doggy position for one. At least in the USA. It scares the hell of some women to have sex in that position. And some are quite uncomfortable in cowgirl. Yet at the same time, particularly during the hot-and-heavy romance stages in a relationship (pre-marriage), the same ladies who recoil at the doggy position will sometimes insist on providing a TC/CIM/S. And we know what the “S” stands for.
As an aside, I ran into a couple of married guys in Amsterdam RLD a few years ago. Each guy talked about how he loved his wife and his kids but the infrequency of sex disappointed them. So they were like kids in a candy store in the Amsterdam RLD. No-kissing is the cartel standard there but sweaty gymnastics in multiple positions with a bonafide 9/10 for face and/or body is pretty damn amazing. Imagine doing it doggy style with a lady whose world-class body is as good or better than ubermodel Heidi Klum in her prime. Two words: SENSORY OVERLOAD! You’re holding her waist or hips from behind. Her waist might be 22-24” flared to 34-36” hips and, as one guy put it, you can reach down to fondle her at the same time. It’s living a fantasy for a brief period. But there is a downside to clubs and windowgirls. Closed eyes, lack of enthusiasm, often many restrictions, occasional ripoffs, and sometimes horrible chemistry. The escort pursuit, as I’ve experienced it in Montreal, is much more satisfying.
With Eastern Europe opening up to more airlines, I see many more guys headed to that region to indulge in 24 hour companionship at $300-600US or thereabouts. That’s a mere fraction of what other markets, including Montreal, charge. And some of the women in Eastern Europe are drop-dead gorgeous and for a fixed rate provide a “SuperGFE” (virtually all the mainstream acronyms plus Greek in some cases), as one fan of the Riga (Latvia) scene put it.
