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[Poll] Why are you paying for escort services?

Why are you paying for escort services?

  • To feel cared for. For an emotional connection.

    Votes: 24 26.1%
  • Unwilling to find a traditional (non-sex worker) partner

    Votes: 23 25.0%
  • Unable to find a traditional (non-sex worker) partner

    Votes: 21 22.8%
  • To fight boredom or loneliness

    Votes: 23 25.0%
  • As a source of excitement

    Votes: 52 56.5%
  • To explore unconventional/kinky sexual practices in a consensual fashion

    Votes: 28 30.4%
  • Other (specify in comments if you wish)

    Votes: 6 6.5%

  • Total voters
    92
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AnthonyAnderson

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i think you forgot an important category :rolleyes:

With a significant other but... (fill in the blank)
I thought about it, but here, I am more interested in the deeper "why" of what motivates paying for escort services. Regarding the behaviour you describe, I think its main motivations can be found in my list of answers, although I don't claim it to be comprehensive.
 

urquell

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I think you might need to add an "other" or "none of the above" category. I would also say that most of the responses above seem to be tied to an emotional or complex reason and often it can boil down to simply being horny, and nothing deeper than that.
 
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AnthonyAnderson

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I think you might need to add an "other" or "none of the above" category.
Good idea. Done.
I would also say that most of the responses above seem to be tied to an emotional or complex reason and often it can boil down to simply being horny, and nothing deeper than that.
Wouldn't that fall under "to fight boredom"?
 

neverbored

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just add an option for sexercise, not all of us are seeking a deep romantic connection with a sp. Not saying we dislike a good connection, just saying for some its a bonus when it happens.
 
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MoreGonzo

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just add an option for sexercise, not all of us are seeking a deep romantic connection with a sp. Not saying we dislike a good connection, just saying for some its a bonus when it happens.
I appreciate beautiful women with different backgrounds, personalities and of course the sex
 
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Cheecho98

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Picked other. Been going to indy masseuses for some time. Married and not lonely, but my wife doesn't want any physical intimacy since the start of perimenopause. Like not even cuddles or hugs. Been 6.5 years. At this point I just settle for physical touch, skin to skin contact, a hug or some cuddles if the MP is ok with it.
 

neverbored

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You could also add : Business and entertainement. A number of my encounters are business functions.