Popping a cherry

[hard2cum]

I just booked 4 nites at Saint Sulpice for early March. I and my GF is going to spend 4 days in Montreal with expressed purpose of popping her cherry. This girl is a little different: 26 years old, born in eastern Europe, but raised in LI, NY since 12. She's smart and stunner too, so when she told me she's virgin, I didn't believe her. Turns out that her best friend was a gay so she didn't get much advance as she would liked. God bless faggots! We decided to make this trip because she's been going bonkers recently, i.e. her self esteem is in gutters due to her cherry. But then she promised herself that she wont do it untill getting married,(and she's not religious) so there are a few wires crossing here.

I am excited because in 20 years that I have been sexually active, I never had a virgin, at least not knowingly. My problem is that I need to pound a girl for at least an hour before I can come. I expect some difficulties. Any advice? Mechanical, psychological or otherwise?
Any couple friendly SP(must have mucho experience) who might be helpful in this sort of situations?

 

[babefreak]

I don't think you'll have the time to master the techniques to prevent premature ejaculation before you leave for your trip.

So, I would suggest you go to a sex shop and get yourself a little bottle of China Brush. That will do the trick. But be careful not to put too much because it will completely freeze your dick and you won't feel a thing and won't cum for hours. Ask the vendor to explain to you how it works and how long before you have sex you should apply the stuff. It's usually 1½ to 2 hours before. And trust me, it works! Even male porn stars use it. Otherwise, how the hell would they last so long while fucking the most beautiful girls in the world like that...

Remember, don't put too much!!!

Oh yes, I would suggest you also put on a condom, even if she's a virgin. It will help you last longer as it will reduce sensitivity. Also, sometimes the China Brush can freeze not only your dick but also what gets in contact with it... So again, don't put too much.

Good luck!

P.S. Personaly, I would run away so fast from that type of woman. A beautiful woman, 26 years old, still a virgin in 2007! I don't think she cares much for the thing and even has poor sensitivity below the belt. Imagine after being married with kids, oh boy!!! But, it's my opinion only. At least try her and you'll see...

 

[dirtierasigetolder]

I just booked 4 nites at Saint Sulpice for early March. I and my GF is going to spend 4 days in Montreal with expressed purpose of popping her cherry. This girl is a little different: 26 years old, born in eastern Europe, but raised in LI, NY since 12. She's smart and stunner too, so when she told me she's virgin, I didn't believe her. Turns out that her best friend was a gay so she didn't get much advance as she would liked. God bless faggots! We decided to make this trip because she's been going bonkers recently, i.e. her self esteem is in gutters due to her cherry. But then she promised herself that she wont do it untill getting married,(and she's not religious) so there are a few wires crossing here.

I think you're a pig and I feel bad for this girl. How about you try and show some respect for her and not talk about her in a board that is reserved for SP/MP/SC. Do the honorable thing and don't take her virginity if it doesn't mean anything to you.

I'm sure if she's 26 and still a virgin that it's special for her. Imagine if you've been keeping it that long cause you wanted to give it to the right person. It's a gift you can't return

Hey Mod, how about you remove this thread for being in bad taste

 

[babefreak]

I don't think this thread is in more bad taste than any other here. Most of us are not doing such honorable things...

What makes you think this guy isn't going to treat her right after? He hasn't given us her name.

Popping a virgin or paying for sex or cheating on your wife... Wich is worst? Every SP was a virgin once... We all talk about this here. So let's not start with this honorable thing bullshit please.

 

[dirtierasigetolder]

I don't think this thread is in more bad taste than any other here. Most of us are not doing such honorable things...

Popping a virgin or paying for sex or cheating on your wife... Wich is worst? Every SP was a virgin once... We all talk about this here. So let's not start with this honorable thing bullshit please.

We agree to disagree...Let the mod make his decision

 

[Greeker]

I don't think this thread is in more bad taste than any other here. Most of us are not doing such honorable things...

What makes you think this guy isn't going to treat her right after? He hasn't given us her name.

Popping a virgin or paying for sex or cheating on your wife... Wich is worst? Every SP was a virgin once... We all talk about this here. So let's not start with this honorable thing bullshit please.

I agree with that.

 

[metoo4]

I hate to admit but, I tend to go towards Dirti's side...

If the girl have self esteem problems because she's still a virgin, it's probably because she's getting pressure from somewhere... Unless she's the one pushing to do it, not you insinuating it's about time, I suggest letting it go. If you let her know it's ok for you to wait, she might be even more pleased later on! What's your feeling for her? You just want to bang her and you hide behind "wanting to render her a service" or you feel you could marry her? She's saying she want to wait till she married, are you planning this "pop trip" without telling her about the "pop"? That would be a bad, bad idea...

It's easy to steer somebody to take such decision and have them think they decided themself when in fact, we're manipulating the whole time! After, it can then only backfire into somebody's face and it will be hers. It happens all the time with the SP world where the girl think she want to do it when, in fact, the pimp is pushing her.

H2C, I am not insinuating you're pushing her. Just think about it and gauge how much you have to gain versus how much she have to loose.
I get from your post you have way more experience than her and are probably quite older than her. Something natural to you might not be to her. Be careful, don't put a time limit as of when it will happen, might be first day, might be the last, might be not at all! Let her decide FOR REAL when and how. And, once it's done, forget about going and going! Some girls gets very sensitive after and you won't even be able to get your tool close because she will feel pain. And this will be for a few times after the first one. Could even take a few days before you can do her again!

 

[Techman]

I also find myself agreeing with Dirti.

But then she promised herself that she wont do it untill getting married,(and she's not religious) so there are a few wires crossing here.

I don't see from the above quote, where she has any wires crossed.
It's obvious that saving herself for a special person is important to her. Religion has nothing to do about it. She can only give her virginity to one person in her life so if she is just another 'notch on the bedpost' for you, don't do it. If you do go ahead with it, I hope you will be there to deal with any guilt she may feel afterwards.

 

[babefreak]

As hard it is for me to admit it (because I don't know if I would have the will power to resist such an opportunity), I must agree with you guys at some point.

If you only want to bang this girl and move on, I wouldn't recommend taking her virginity like this. If you love this woman and feel you could marry her, I say go right ahead, but be sure you won't pressure her because she might regret it. For some women, it's a very symbolic moment so don't go ruining it.

 

[Big Bee]

At 26, if she decided to get her cherry popped, I think she's old enough (or should be) to gauge if he's the right guy or not, having him put pressure or not..

If she's doing it solely for him, she's an idiot and I can't imagine she managed to stay a virgin for this long (gay friend or not, every women is on someone's radar at some point).

As for what his actual question was, I think babefreak got it wrong, his problem is not premature ejaculation, it's the opposite... a bit like myself sometimes... I have no experience popping cherries ( I wish I did but I don't). but I know the longer it's been since I dumped my load, the quicker it goes when time comes... also, for me, I have to stay with a cool head... Maybe you want to have your girlfriend have some champagne... have her take more than you...!! I guess it would hurt less for her that way, and you can stay in control...

And so what if you don't come, think of pleasing her, explain how you feel, what you,re scared of, honesty is best..!!

Good luck and hope you,ll be back to tell us about it..!!

 

[Big Bee]

Oh yeah, and if anyone thinks this thread is not right, don't read it... this is a free country, make sure you take advantage of that..!!

 

[babefreak]

As for what his actual question was, I think babefreak got it wrong, his problem is not premature ejaculation, it's the opposite... a bit like myself sometimes... I have no experience popping cherries ( I wish I did but I don't). but I know the longer it's been since I dumped my load, the quicker it goes when time comes... also, for me, I have to stay with a cool head... Maybe you want to have your girlfriend have some champagne... have her take more than you...!! I guess it would hurt less for her that way, and you can stay in control...

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Ok, I think I understand what he meant. That's a problem older men will get, especially those with prostate problems. My father had that problem. Or perhaps it's psychological in H2C's case. As Big Dee mentionned, the longer you wait between ejaculations, the easier it will get... Hard2cum (the name says it all ), you should come back and give us more details.

 

[Rango]

What's The Big Deal

Fellow merbites,

Sexual relations is a perfectly natural thing. Why make a big deal of it. for most women I've ever met an hour of foreplay beats an hour of pounding any day or night.

Rango

 

[hard2cum]

The thing I am most concerned about is my GF's mental state. We have known each other for little over three years. (We work for same company. I am in a position of authority but I am not her direct boss.)

When I first saw her I thought I was out of her league and I put her out of my mind for more than two years. Meanwhile despite my reserved disposition, I somehow got reputation as a worldly stud, which I am not in actuality. Apparently I somehow caught her fancy and she began to drop hints on me. This time frame coincides with her change in behaviour which other people noticed as well. Used to be rather demure girl then she turned wild.

At age 40 and still single, I was happy to be her first target. Turns out that we are at the same mental wave length so it has been rather smooth sailing. Then she told me about her virginity and I respected it all these time. We do have a sexula relationship: we have done everything but genital-to-genital penetration. Around V-day, she told me to be done with it during one of those sessions. I asked for a verification which she confirmed. So I suggested that we take a mini-vacation to my playground and make it nice at a decent hotel which she agreed as well.

There are one thoudand thoughts crossing my mind but I must go to sleep....