Being respectful with personal information!!

[Marsouin]

Why would you want to get consent for writing a review that is ridiculous.
If she advertises on this board that is an automatic acceptance of a review this is a review board after all.

Now for me I have never written a review with a play by play of the action or the acronyms utilized. We each have our own style, I think I can get my point across without bragging or dehumanizing the lady in question, but asking for consent that will insure only glowing reviews of fabulous experiences and unfortunately occasionally there are some that are anything but that.

You are misinterpreting what I posted ...
1) I get consent to write the review I do not send the review for approval. There is enough shill on this board already both good and bad
2) Agency girls are not advertisers. I do get your point that if you post ads on Merb ...

 

[envelopes]

This is a review board, to share our experiences that we have had with individuals who have taken the time, to share their time with us. This is not a gossip column site, for us to share personal information about the individual we have had the pleasure to have a sometimes beautiful encounter with.

How does, where she works, goes to school and what she is studying and how many kids she may have, or even if she's coming off a bad break up, have to do with your GFE experience with a woman who thought she could share some personal stuff with you, just so when you have a conversation to get acquainted, you both feel a little more comfortable. I just think what is shared, should not be made public. She shared because she felt comfortable with you. Why divulge this information for the whole world to see.

Reviews should about be the experience, using acronyms, passionate words and how you felt after the encounter. Be discreet in your reviews and its not hard.

If she tells you she goes to McGill to study to be an architect and she's in her third year and she's only doing this till she graduates, You can put in your review that if your looking for a hot university student to share some time with, she's your girl.

If she tells you about kids, just tell us she's a hot MILF. We will get the point.

If she shares with you that she was working in a restaurant as a chef, but lost her job because of covid, i personally do not need to know this, will not make my experience any better.

I think everyone gets the point, I'm just ranting because of what i read sometimes. What she does for a living, her teeth are yellow, she's fat, and so on.

I try to write about the experience, not helping to prepare her CV. If i did cross the line and mentioned something she felt she wanted to share with me, here on merb i apologize.

Okay, I'm done for now. If anyone has something to add, please, do tell. I did this because in the past, and recently, its been mentioned to me. That is all i will say..

Thank you and good day.

To add onto this, stop outing people's name changes. Just this week, I saw at least 5 instances of "so and so is now so and so". I don't know why guys do this... it doesn't make you seem helpful! There's a reason they changed their names and work.

In the past week, two specific girls I saw being mentioned who's name changed, changed it for good reason. 1 girl I know has a stalker, so she changed her name and agency. Another girl I know was being harassed by a previous owner, so she left and changed names. They specifically told me not to talk about it. Then I read comments on merb outing them. It's crazy.

And I've seen so many reviews with guys describing tattoos. There's no need to tell everyone a girl has a butterfly with red wings on her left thigh. It's not really helpful hobbying information.

 

[LC18]

Just this week, I saw at least 5 instances of "so and so is now so and so". I don't know why guys do this... it doesn't make you seem helpful! There's a reason they changed their names and work.

This is a very good point. People can change their name because they’re harassed, they can quit an agency and join another one for the same reason. It’s very unfortunate when people come online to tell people their new location.

It’s different if the person changes her name every other day to scam people. This information should not be kept secret.

 

[LC18]

It is not sending a review for approval but more making sure she’s comfortable with having explicit details shared or not. It’s normal.

Those details can sometimes actually do the opposite effect than what you think. It’s not always helping us.

 

[Fradi]

Unless I am wrong these are the Merb Rules. This is a review board after all.

We consider that ANY SP has the right to ask for removal of posts about her, as long as it does not affect the objectivity of the board. We consider this board as being a service to the "hobbying community", but the service providers have the right to decide whether they want to be reviewed here or not.
05/02/2001

EDIT 1: It seems the change was never clearly stated here but, since quite a while, it`s been MERB policy not to grant NRP for escorts, unless there`s a direct verifiable threat to her safety or unless she permanently leave the business. This is still in effect.

ACCORDING TO THIS A NO REVIEW POLICY IS ONLY GRANTED IF SHE PERMANANTLY LEAVES THE BUSINESS OR IT IS A VERIFIABLE THREAT TO HER SAFETY.

An agency SP was granted No Review Policy when she was no longer on the roster. When she came back to the agency it was lifted.

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M8

EDIT: As Oceanne is currently being advertised as being available on the xxxtase website, her NRP has been lifted as per MERB rules.

Mod 8

 

[Fradi]

You are misinterpreting what I posted ...
1) I get consent to write the review I do not send the review for approval. There is enough shill on this board already both good and bad
2) Agency girls are not advertisers. I do get your point that if you post ads on Merb ...

It is nice that you get consent from the lady that is a gentlemanly thing to do I have no issue with it my point was and still is that you don’t need her consent.
You are writing a review on a review board that is what the board was created for.

 

[Sylar]

This is a review board, to share our experiences that we have had with individuals who have taken the time, to share their time with us. This is not a gossip column site, for us to share personal information about the individual we have had the pleasure to have a sometimes beautiful encounter with.

How does, where she works, goes to school and what she is studying and how many kids she may have, or even if she's coming off a bad break up, have to do with your GFE experience with a woman who thought she could share some personal stuff with you, just so when you have a conversation to get acquainted, you both feel a little more comfortable. I just think what is shared, should not be made public. She shared because she felt comfortable with you. Why divulge this information for the whole world to see.

Reviews should about be the experience, using acronyms, passionate words and how you felt after the encounter. Be discreet in your reviews and its not hard.

If she tells you she goes to McGill to study to be an architect and she's in her third year and she's only doing this till she graduates, You can put in your review that if your looking for a hot university student to share some time with, she's your girl.

If she tells you about kids, just tell us she's a hot MILF. We will get the point.

If she shares with you that she was working in a restaurant as a chef, but lost her job because of covid, i personally do not need to know this, will not make my experience any better.

I think everyone gets the point, I'm just ranting because of what i read sometimes. What she does for a living, her teeth are yellow, she's fat, and so on.

I try to write about the experience, not helping to prepare her CV. If i did cross the line and mentioned something she felt she wanted to share with me, here on merb i apologize.

Okay, I'm done for now. If anyone has something to add, please, do tell. I did this because in the past, and recently, its been mentioned to me. That is all i will say..

Thank you and good day.

I agree with most of this, but pointing out that a SP has bad oral hygiene or might be of different weight than advertised is important information for a review board. I think in those two particular cases it is rather a matter of how to convey the message in a respectful manner.

 

[Sylar]

It is not sending a review for approval but more making sure she’s comfortable with having explicit details shared or not. It’s normal.

Those details can sometimes actually do the opposite effect than what you think. It’s not always helping us.

I am not sure you and @Fradi are really in disagreement with each other. Fradi states that a review without explicit or personal details should not require specific consent. Based on what you wrote here you seem to be OK with that too?

 

[LC18]

I am not sure you and @Fradi are really in disagreement with each other. Fradi states that a review without explicit or personal details should not require specific consent. Based on what you wrote here you seem to be OK with that too?

Because this is still a form of consent believe it or not. Asking the person if the details are too explicit/crude for their liking is asking consent.

 

[Fradi]

I am not sure you and @Fradi are really in disagreement with each other. Fradi states that a review without explicit or personal details should not require specific consent. Based on what you wrote here you seem to be OK with that too?

I fully agree and you can read any one of my reviews, none of them are explicit or contain personal details and i believe they are all respectful actually they are all about ladies I had a fantastic time with and have been seeing for years.

What I am trying to get across here is that this is a review board anybody advertising here has to understand that they will be reviewed and nobody needs their approval or consent that is up to the Mods to monitor and to remove the review entirely or portions of it that they deem inappropriate not the SP.

What purpose would a review board serve if SP were to approve and consent to their review before it being posted.

 

[Sylar]

Because this is still a form of consent believe it or not. Asking the person if the details are too explicit/crude for their liking is asking consent.

What if there is no explicit detail (in my opinion), like in one of your recent reviews:


I knew I was coming to Montreal a few months in advance and pre-screened with Lena. She was incredible to work with, and her incall was easy to navigate (even as a tourist)

I opted for a special massage date, and it was terrific. Lena is a gorgeous person and everything was laid back, fun, and completely unrushed. Lena is a great lady and made my trip amazing.

I will repeat it if I’m ever back.

 

[LC18]

This person still asked me if it was ok to write a review. He mentioned it wouldn’t be explicit and didn’t send it before posting. I saw no issue with the review so I replied to it instead of ignoring or arguing.

 

[Thor Jr]

I agree with most of this, but pointing out that a SP has bad oral hygiene or might be of different weight than advertised is important information for a review board. I think in those two particular cases it is rather a matter of how to convey the message in a respectful manner.

That was kind of my point, thank you. Use words that will be respectful and let us read between the lines.

Thank you,
TJ

 

[Thor Jr]

To add onto this, stop outing people's name changes. Just this week, I saw at least 5 instances of "so and so is now so and so". I don't know why guys do this... it doesn't make you seem helpful! There's a reason they changed their names and work.

And we actually have a thread about this for everyone to see, including the stalkers.

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

@LC18 i really admire your courage to be among the sharks and shamelessly defend your point. But for my own I prefer my peace!
You are doing amazing!

Because this is still a form of consent believe it or not. Asking the person if the details are too explicit/crude for their liking is asking consent.

 

[LC18]

@LC18 i really admire your courage to be among the sharks and shamelessly defend your point. But for my own I prefer my peace!
You are doing amazing!

Someone’s gotta do it

 

[LC18]

And we actually have a thread about this for everyone to see, including the stalkers.

Hold on…but you’re actively participating in that thread?

 

[DouMan]

The subject of identifying a provider that changes her name rides on an extremely thin line.

On one hand we have those that change their stage name for safety and/or family reasons. It's a no brainer that in such cases that the person should NEVER be called out.

On the other hand we have those who will change their name following multiple bad reviews/service and want to hide behind a new name while still offering below par service. We often refer to the term "bait + switch". In these cases, for the benifit not only of the customer, but for the general community, indeed it should be called out.

Let's just be more diligent before making a choice of identifying or not, for the right reasons

 

[bodick7]

The subject of identifying a provider that changes her name rides on an extremely thin line.

On one hand we have those that change their stage name for safety and/or family reasons. It's a no brainer that in such cases that the person should NEVER be called out.

On the other hand we have those who will change their name following multiple bad reviews/service and want to hide behind a new name while still offering below par service. We often refer to the term "bait + switch". In these cases, for the benifit not only of the customer, but for the general community, indeed it should be called out.

Let's just be more diligent before making a choice of identifying or not, for the right reasons

Il y a probablement une troisième raison: le délire de l’artiste

 

[Thor Jr]

Hold on…but you’re actively participating in that thread?

You are absolutely correct, Lili is still Lili, just another agency, with same pictures and Britany went Indy, its publicity for her. And as you can see, this is the only references i made. And in my OP i did apologize for anything i may of said out of context, but in these two isolated occurrence's, no harm. There are a lot of ladies changing agency's, names and pictures, for a good reason, and i respect this, and some have retired and made public in the threads, so again no harm.

LC i respect you, but you do not need to always try to find the bad in people, we all make mistakes and i have been around long enough to have made a million mistakes and i will own up to all of them and some i must learn to live with.