posted age vs actual age conversion chart

[Giselle Montreal]

Giselle, in your case (you show your face) I would advice just putting the year of where the photos were taken at the bottom as a "watermark".

EDIT: I am surprised that a SP advertising as late thirties would attract more younger guys than someone who is "in their thirties". Would anyone know why that is?

I have advertised being in my thirties for 8 years but only in the last months I received so, so many inquiries from younger guys. It was the main thing I changed lately, but it might be a coincidence, only time will tell.

I indeed thought about adding a year to my gallery. Will see if it's needed.

 

[MCTJ]

EDIT: I am surprised that a SP advertising as late thirties would attract more younger guys than someone who is "in their thirties". Would anyone know why that is?

I was asking myself the same question. My hypothesis (and I may be wrong) is that there's quite a few men in that age range looking for a more emotionally authentic connection and that a woman older than 35 is perceived as more likely to offer one. @Giselle Montreal is also very sexy Curious to hear her opinion, too.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I was asking myself the same question. My hypothesis (and I may be wrong) is that there's quite a few men in that age range looking for a more emotionally authentic connection and that a woman older than 35 is perceived as more likely to offer one.

Your hypothesis is as good as mine. But if really they are looking for an "authentic connection" and think an "older" woman can give it to them, I must say they have no idea how to create a fun environment for a perfect encounter to create said connection.

 

[Julia Sky]

Haven’t you noticed that some people have been on merb since before you were born?

Before I was born? How young do you think I am? Haha!! If that was the case I would've been underage when I started - in fact VERY underage. Probably not even a teenager.

I'm aware that people used merb before I started working but definitely not before I was born lol

Anyway like I said in a post earlier, it makes sense if you've seen her advertising for years. My question was more about situations where people haven't seen the ad before, it's their first time booking this specific SP, and I wanted to know if it was common to ask escorts their age in person or if they just decide "she looks older so she has to be older" and rolled with that

 

[Lans]

But before i could mention what my plan B was she blurted out “I thought about something the other day but didn’t know how you’d react: how about we have an encounter like we used to have…you’d actually be my very first client on this comeback & you could write a review?” I laughed & said “OMG! This is what my plan B is!”

Did you get a free encounter for helping her?

 

[Rebaynia]

EDIT: I am surprised that a SP advertising as late thirties would attract more younger guys than someone who is "in their thirties". Would anyone know why that is?

Since American pie, younger guys have been chasing MILFs. There is something attractive to them about an expierienced woman they can learn to be better lovers from. I often hear from mid 20's virgins looking to enjoy their first time with someone who can be understanding, and they don't feel judged by.
Besides not all men are interested in barely legal. Some do prefer the more mature woman.
I am proud to advertise my real age, as the respect given, is often much nicer, than what my younger counterparts express they recieve.
Besides I can't get enough of hearing I look younger than my actual age, as opposed to being insulted by hearing I look older than.
Though it does depend on the maturity lvl of a younger man. I have seen some rather rude in their 20's and some amazingly respectful ones.

 

[Joe Thighsman]

Agencies probably won't see this as a consensus, but I will refrain from even considering booking a SP who is in her 20's. As a man in his 60's, being intimate with someone younger than my daughter just seems wrong (and I can't imagine they are too thrilled about it, either). Maybe that's just me. Personally, I would like to see more woman in their late 30's or 40's, with whom I am much more comfortable.

 

[haberbosch25]

Agencies probably won't see this as a consensus, but I will refrain from even considering booking a SP who is in her 20's. As a man in his 60's, being intimate with someone younger than my daughter just seems wrong (and I can't imagine they are too thrilled about it, either). Maybe that's just me. Personally, I would like to see more woman in their late 30's or 40's, with whom I am much more comfortable.

You are missing out on a lot of fun with that self imposed restriction. My favourite escorts have all been in the 18-23 range.

 

[AirBo]

As a man in his 60's, being intimate with someone younger than my daughter just seems wrong

Agree 100%

 

[Sylar]

Since American pie, younger guys have been chasing MILFs. There is something attractive to them about an expierienced woman they can learn to be better lovers from. I often hear from mid 20's virgins looking to enjoy their first time with someone who can be understanding, and they don't feel judged by.
Besides not all men are interested in barely legal. Some do prefer the more mature woman.
I am proud to advertise my real age, as the respect given, is often much nicer, than what my younger counterparts express they recieve.
Besides I can't get enough of hearing I look younger than my actual age, as opposed to being insulted by hearing I look older than.
Though it does depend on the maturity lvl of a younger man. I have seen some rather rude in their 20's and some amazingly respectful ones.

I get what you are saying and it makes sense. But in this case the change was from "thirties" to "late thirties" which really doesn't move the needle that much.

 

[Rebaynia]

I get what you are saying and it makes sense. But in this case the change was from "thirties" to "late thirties" which really doesn't move the needle that much.

You would be surprised. It's the same difference as a girl in her 20's, and late 20's. Some here won't see a woman past 23, so someone advertising 28 is a no go for them.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

You would be surprised. It's the same difference as a girl in her 20's, and late 20's. Some here won't see a woman past 23, so someone advertising 28 is a no go for them.

Exactly what I think as well. Thirties is not a lie, but simply a bigger range of possibilities. Late thirties is surely closer to 40 and rings differently.

 

[Doc Holliday]

Did you get a free encounter for helping her?

I did not charge her anything to help her out. I did it out of my own free will. I am a modern day good samaritain.

 

[Julia Sky]

You are missing out on a lot of fun with that self imposed restriction. My favourite escorts have all been in the 18-23 range.

Maybe he's having a lot of fun with the providers he does book. I think it's a little weird to tell someone else that they're missing out by choosing not to fuck women who are younger than their daughters. It's his choice and there's no shortage of very fun women above 30!

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Agencies probably won't see this as a consensus, but I will refrain from even considering booking a SP who is in her 20's. As a man in his 60's, being intimate with someone younger than my daughter just seems wrong (and I can't imagine they are too thrilled about it, either). Maybe that's just me. Personally, I would like to see more woman in their late 30's or 40's, with whom I am much more comfortable.

I don’t have a daughter, not that I’m aware of, but I have enough nieces or young women that I literally rocked to sleep when they were babies that I just can’t be comfortable with SPs in their early twenties.

I did tried a few times but, only once did the girl managed to make me forget about the age gap. The other time there was very awkward moments and I did stopped the meeting right away. I am aware that the uneasiness comes from me, but I just can’t help it. Now I book girls that are solidly in their late twenties, so far my best experiences were with women in the 35-45 range, maybe some older, who knows.

 

[Fradi]

Honestly I couldn’t care less about an SP being older.
To me I am either attracted to them or not.
I tend to see SP in the age of 25-50 and one of the most attractive ones I saw Maria Divina was advertising herself as 46, too bad she has retired.
I have no idea if she was older or not, she was just simply gorgeous and an amazingly nice kind person.
My ATF probably around 30 I have been seeing her for many years, never asked never cared in my eyes she is stunning whatever her age is.

It is not the age that makes a good connection it is their kindness and personality.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

It is not the age that makes a good connection it is their kindness and personality.

As well as our own kindness and personality!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I must say I find it a little strange that so many people are fixated on age here.

When I first became an SP, I was working for a massage parlor that recommended I lie about my age. I said I was in my early 20's. At the time I was charging less. Did I get more inquiries? NO. Did I get treated better? Absolutely NOT. I was treated worse, and people tried to take advantage of me more. Within the first 2 months I made the mistake at the time of telling certain clients I was much older, just to see how they would respond, because I noticed that a dating app I was on had the wrong age for me and I actually would get more matches at the time. Some of them looked relieved, actually. One or two of them spread the (false) info behind my back and there was a client who wrote a review of me saying I looked 45 in person because he was so bitter about not having seen a ''real 23 year old'' (which is absolutely not true, I often get told I look younger than my age)

I understand that attractiveness is important when booking a SP, but someone can look good at any age. And who cares what age someone advertises if they look the age they say they are? I think it's really weird to be so fixated on that. A lot of colleagues have told me that they actually age themselves older than they really are to get more respect and better quality clients. Would you call them deceptive?

I ended up giving in and saying how old I really was, and it's been mostly good for me. Interestingly, often clients tell me I'm brave for saying I'm over 30 because I ''look younger''.. The truth is that a lot of women in their late 20s ans 30s and 40s are gorgeous. I realized recently that a lot of high end providers I was following on twitter are in their 40's, but nobody focuses on that because what is important is their beauty, elegance and talent as a provider. I've had clients argue with me and tell me ''NO. you're not 30-31, it's not possible with the body you have''. So weird.

Many agencies and spas push for us to lie about our age.. I had friends who were in their mid 30's and had spas put their age at 24. They looked younger than their age and clients didn't really realize or care, but it creates a mentality that the younger women are the more attractive they are.. I would say that's not true. When I was 18-22 I was definitely not at my best physically.. A lot of girls that age still retain their teenage awkwardness and only become more sophisticated and develop a style and more beauty in their late 20's and 30's. I know that was definitely the case for me. In porn also a lot of ''barely legal'' actors are not actually that age.. Same thing with movies and tv shows, often very young women are played by women in their late 20's, so we think that the ultimate level of attractiveness is somoene extremely young, close to childhood. It's interesting to think about all this.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

A lot of girls that age still retain their teenage awkwardness

It's interesting to think about all this.

Let’s not blindly ignore a certain reality; it’s a well known fact that some "hobbyists" are specifically looking for that I.e. underage looking providers.It still creeps the f**k out of me when I see some comments here where, the poster is nearly attesting his pedophile tendency in such a way to make it seem like it’s "just" a fantasy!

 

[MCTJ]

I had a feeling that my revival of this thread would elicit a conversation around age. What @Lunaseraphim says is interesting. My point about age should be interpreted very narrowly: truth in advertising.