TheComte said:All that's been said works for some of us, with mixed results.
I have pretty good endurance with my GF but when it comes to SP, my first encounters were another story; still are when I anticipate too much and forget what follows....
I couldnt agree with this more .. I have this same problem .. with my gf I last a good 30 - 45 minutes .. whereas with an sp I only go for about 10 minutes, which is pretty much dissapointing, for the last 8 months I've seen only 2 SPs (even though I would like to go more often) I try to avoid it coz then it would be money thrown out the drain.. each time that I go to see a SP I get all nervous and chills go all over me .. I dunno if thats the cause if this .. but if there is a solution to it I sure want to hear it