I wish there as a function or Google maps understanding search criteria like "near avenue XXX and rue XXX"
Such a pain to find crossroads
Such a pain to find crossroads
Random thoughts (*rises from the dead*)
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No I meant like when some people *wink wink* tell you they are near rue Saint Dominique and boulevard de maisoneuve est. If you type one street name it will highlight the whole street.
But then to find a specific that crosses it there is no function?
There is! Just write "name & name" or "name / name" that usually works for me
Like here I wrote "Notre-dame & peel"
I walked around with cum in my hair yesterday
I had sex in a car and didn’t have time to look at my hair before leaving
I once showed up to rent a hotel room wearing this new "dry finish" or something sunscreen on my face. The woman at the counter looked at me strangely.
Once I got into the room I looked in the mirror only to find that said stupidly expensive sunscreen looked like I had dried cum on my chin/corner of my mouth.
I bought new sunscreen.
Do you remember the brand? So that we never buy it
It's La Roche Posay, the bad one is in a small tube, the good one is shaped like a vape lol
Wanting to be with someone 18, 19, 20 when you are yourself over 25 is really weird
You or..?
Imagine being over 40 now.
A young woman with an old man is really, someone else's woman...
Would you like to try again in English and with full sentences?
...Sigh.
Do. You. Speak. About. Yourself?
I. Am. Over. 40. Feel. Same. Way!!!
*Drops purple crayon...
I am not 18, 19 or 20.
I am not someone above 25 wanting to be with someone 18, 19 or 20.
I do not accept clients below 25.
I don’t care if a client is twice my age, I have been an adult for a few years already.
Us as SPs. Being over 25 wanting to be with 18 19, 20.
As an SP, its not about wanting to, for us it's more about willing to. I want, to meet adult men, who appreciate me, desire me, and pay to spend time with me, activities happen. I'm not wanting any set age, except good expieriences that won't cause me more trauma, to recede into myself to avoid the outside world more than I already do.
I was groomed as a child. I am able to realize the difference that my situation is not one that comes from me grooming a young adult, they are autonomous beings themselves reaching to me as an adult. Business is business.
I'm trying, and about to fail, to keep a roof over my 3 kids and my head, I have more than myself to think of. And there are more expieriences I would worry about me not surviving the mental effect of the visit, and removing myself from all problems permanently as a result. Then to judge myself for seeing a legal adult who wants to see someone older willing to see him. Screening for good visits only isn't to just get good visits, it's for mental survival. I wouldn't care about give up on myself I already did, but I have to keep going for now for them.
The young adults around me in my personal life, are seen as children to me. They aren't reaching out to me in text asking to pay for services, or seeing me as a sexual option. To them I am a safe adult to be around because I have made it a point that my home is a safe place for them to get away from what they have had to deal with in their own homes.
I am, which is why I feel needing to justify recent comments I have made about MILF situations. I get worried about being misunderstood and judged for it.
I think I worry, often a young woman has her youth taken from her when being with an older man, because he wants her to speed up threw life, to match him at his slow down state. Wife and mother her up, so she doesn't even get the chance to be and expierience youth and discovering who she is in the world before being told who to be for his desires.
With my kids I warned about relationships at young ages, because rather then discover who you are, you try to be what this other person wants you to be, sometimes its the opposite of who you actually are.
We all need time to creat our own selves and boxes, before letting someone else create a box to shove us in even if we don't fit.
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There is much to unpact and reflect here.
I'll start by saying thank you for the explanations to both of you.
Although my original question was asked on a human perspective. I understand the separation between woman, sp and men, clients.
I'm sorry about the traumas you had to live threw! If it is any consolation; I do take those stories to heart, mine as well; trying to be a better human, helping where and how I can.
As a single middle aged man. I still want kids. Maybe naïvely, and women my age can be intimidating.That being said; I wouldn't want a younger woman to rush threw in order to breach the gap you mentioned. It's the opposite actually, in my case. Although, as we discussed in the past, it is a communication and values issues in the end, that either makes it or not.
And yes, it is terryfing for me to meet a 20 year old and realise, she could be my daughter. The attraction must come from her, and if i'm half the gentleman I think I can be. To also realise if said attraction is from genuine sentiments or only the need for securities.
...And yes the society frowned upon age gap, you try to mute. And men get the cutes nicknames: Silver foxes... women gets to be seen as cougars, milfs etc...
That is also a disparity, we could adress.
P.s. That's why I try to be brief... So I dont write novels or overshare. Eff it!
It was worth it. Thank you.
My random thought...
How much I hate having and AuDHD brain with timeblindness, that means at any given time at any given day, because of some trigger I don't know of, I can be flipped back to a moment of the past as if I am in it presently. Only for a moment, not enough to make it uncomfortable for others, just long enough to remind me I will never get to forget the things I have gotten to build myself up out from.
How much I hate having and AuDHD brain with timeblindness, that means at any given time at any given day, because of some trigger I don't know of, I can be flipped back to a moment of the past as if I am in it presently. Only for a moment, not enough to make it uncomfortable for others, just long enough to remind me I will never get to forget the things I have gotten to build myself up out from.
