That honestly makes a lot of sense.. But if I experience something bad, I'm not trying to take it out on someone else. I guess someone who looks down on me for being a sex worker and being open about my opinions would tho even if I didn't do anything to hurt them. I definitely think it's good to foster positivity and sometimes offer nuances instead of getting angry..
I think sometimes it's a matter of perception, too. If someone feels easily attacked by things that were not directed at them in my opinion it's time for this person to pause and take a few deep breaths and realize that they are jumping to conclusions. Same thing with people who feel like it's ok to resort to being abrasive and mean. I've never been rude to anyone here, but often it seems like just having a different opinion is perceived as an attack. I think if someone is getting a high off bashing someone online, they need to ask themselves why.
I received some chocolate and flowers this week as well as a really special present from a regular client last friday and met wonderful ppl
so I feel appreciated. I'm also lucky to have good friends who are supportive, and a community of providers who have each other's back. Silver linings.
