Random thoughts: What’s on your mind lately? Part 2

[LeDodo]

Been away for months. What’s new around here?

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Winter is coming

 

[LeDodo]

When I look down I can see my cheeks, I feel chubby

 

[LC18]

Been away for months. What’s new around here?

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Came back from the deads just in time for Halloween. Spooky!

 

[LC18]

I think a lot of people wonder why SPs ask for deposits and to be fair it honestly sucks that we have to but so many men waste our time :/

 

[LeDodo]

I think a lot of people wonder why SPs ask for deposits and to be fair it honestly sucks that we have to but so many men waste our time :/

Deposit=seriousness

 

[LC18]

Deposit=seriousness

But I hate to think like that. I’ve met so many men that were serious, respectful and cared without needing to ask for deposit.

To me it’s more: minimum amount of emails = seriousness


After 10 emails I assume you are a time waster and starts losing my smile

 

[LeDodo]

But I hate to think like that. I’ve met so many men that were serious, respectful and cared without needing to ask for deposit.

To me it’s more: minimum amount of emails = seriousness


After 10 emails I assume you are a time waster and starts losing my smile

Yeah I know ... As we say: un mal nécessaire but I always feel appreciative when I feel trusted and the ymmv that follows

 

[Yourspicyasiangirl]

Sometime, this hobby can bring really nice people in ur life

Meow

 

[LeDodo]

Meow

Woof

 

[LC18]

Yeah I know ... As we say: un mal nécessaire but I always feel appreciative when I feel trusted and the ymmv that follows

We live and we learn. I keep saying that I’ll start asking for a deposit and never do it, I will now

 

[Giselle Montreal]

We live and we learn. I keep saying that I’ll start asking for a deposit and never do it, I will now

Well, I don't always ask one. We can always decide as we go! That's the beauty of it.

 

[urquell]

Deposits aren't there to determine if the guy is serious. The guy is serious, and he's going to see somebody. The deposit is in order to ensure that the guy is serious, and will be locked into, the deposit taker, and will stop looking around at other girls. It's just to discourage window shopping and to save SPs time. The benefit to deposits rests entirely with the SP, which is fine, as far as it goes, from the extreme SP point of view. From the extreme guy point of view only suckers pay deposits, since it accrues no benefit to them whatsoever. Perhaps there is an art and diplomacy in it for some people as a compromise in the middle. Most people seem to be extremists though. lol

 

[Enjoying life]

I think a lot of people wonder why SPs ask for deposits and to be fair it honestly sucks that we have to but so many men waste our time :/

Works both ways

 

[twenty4seven]

Deposits aren't there to determine if the guy is serious. The guy is serious, and he's going to see somebody. The deposit is in order to ensure that the guy is serious, and will be locked into, the deposit taker, and will stop looking around at other girls. It's just to discourage window shopping and to save SPs time. The benefit to deposits rests entirely with the SP, which is fine, as far as it goes, from the extreme SP point of view. From the extreme guy point of view only suckers pay deposits, since it accrues no benefit to them whatsoever. Perhaps there is an art and diplomacy in it for some people as a compromise in the middle. Most people seem to be extremists though. lol

I guess I'm in the middle because it doesn't bother me either way. I've paid some deposits and decided against some too. Am I gonna send one to an unknown with little/no reviews? Probably not. Am I going to forgo seeing a dreamgirl on my TDL for a nominal one? Also no.

 

[mtremblay]

I think that how the deposit is handle (now, the exact amount, anonymous info) tell's more about me as a customer than the deposit itself.

When a deposit is mention in the screening process, I will write that I'm ready to send the deposit in my introduction (1 complete message). However, I only contact reputable ladies with great reviews.

 

[LC18]

Works both ways

Your risk: blue balls
Our risk: loss of income

 

[LC18]

Deposits aren't there to determine if the guy is serious.

The deposit is in order to ensure that the guy is serious,

Um

 

[urquell]

Um

read more critically, and include proper context.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I'm amazed to find out I have 3 positive reviews on Terb.

 

[Enjoying life]

I'm amazed to find out I have 3 positive reviews on Terb.

Of course!