You've been sharing a lot of grudges lately. It's a strange feeling. Please don't retire ever.
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You've been sharing a lot of grudges lately. It's a strange feeling. Please don't retire ever.
Lucky girl most of these guys are smiling, and happy to see her.
That sounds an awful lot like a person who can stalk. If they are not content to know you for the transactional nature you are engaged in and are seeking to know more about you and your personal life......it is a fine line that is being inched toward and your personal and private life is at risk. Some people are not well.
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I am super happy for you Fradi that you are living the dream seeing the three or four same providers all the time and that your experience in this industry couldn't be better! But please, coming here to say clients filming us and sharing photos and videos without our consent rarely happens is upsetting. It is not because you are unaware that it's not our reality. It's also not because I choose to share some photos of me on the Internet that clients can film me and share whatever they want about me, this is a ridiculous argument to bring to the discussion.
lmao you really don’t get it do you?
Because it’s happened, that’s why I’m bringing it up.
Clients can and will set up hidden cameras and take photos/videos of us.
I’m definitely leaving sooner than later
Show me where I said that it is ok to film you and distribute it on the internet, or anything personal about you. I believe I said the exact opposite.
Yes it may happen and if you know about it you should report it to the police. I highly doubt that it is in the mind of most clients to behave like that.
I don’t know why some of you ladies always have to paint such a negative opinion of your clients and the people that support you.
You think we appreciate and enjoy this type of behaviour of constantly being painted and made to feel as if all men are some kind of low life.
Apart from that heaven help anyone that may disagree with you then you all gang up on the guy.
Why would anybody want to film you, or take photographs of you. You have enough photos of yourself face out on the internet that you voluntarily submitted yourself.right on your web sight.
Again you don’t want your photograph on the internet don’t take one and submit it on the internet.
I think they didn't generalized the picture....
Ceci dit, ils doivent en voir des vertes et des pas mûres...
I am just getting tired of the constant client bashing.
If it is so bad, life is all about choices.
You make your own luck in life.
I think giving her this opportunity to share what's not so good about clients isn't that bad.
If it can make some clients better gents, I think it's ok.
This is exactly it. I know for a fact I've had clients share what they believed was "real info" about me and I've received many suspicious friend requests on my personal social media. There's nothing that's going to convince me to offer BBFs or have free sex with clients.
And I don't think it's client bashing to share things that are upsetting about our lives as SP's, not all clients do mean things like this, most of my clients are really respectful and the ones who aren't usually are the ones who don't book or who saw me when I had much lower rates and was clearly not in a good place mentally.
I think if you want to know things about your SP in order to connect with them more, ask them questions about things that aren't compromising.. Like what their interests are, what movies and music they like, what their hobbies are, etc etc. Asking for real name, dates of birth and details about other SP's lives isn's appropriate..
Sorry for you dear. Hope you are not talking about me...I feel this.. I don't want to be ungrateful or mean, but lately I've had really really long conversations and email exchanges with people who ended up not booking or cancelling.
To add to that
Shame the posts were deleted but there was a case of stalking just last summer by someone who uses this site... It was really sad
Why would I be talking about you? You didn't say you were planning on booking me
I am all for sharing things that can help men be better clients.
This thread however has turned into bashing men and unfortunately and for the life of me I don’t know why none of you are willing to stand up for yourselves as clients and men and just keep bobbing your heads in agreement no matter what they say.
It is not a thing of us against them as the ladies seem to do if you happen to disagree with them it is about being respectful and appreciating what we can do for each other.
They provide the intimacy and warmth that we miss in our lives and in turn we provide the funds that help pay for the finer things in life that they want.
There is no reason why we can’t appreciate each other and not constantly paint a negative picture of the other.
I love seeing the women that I have gotten to know and would never endanger them in anyway or be disrespectful to them.
I got a favorite who I've seen for let say 7 years before she told me her real name.
I think after several repeats over months, it's ok
I have all my favorites birthday date and they have mine.
I'm a little confused about your comment personally because I don't see any client bashing here, I just see people sharing negative experience with CERTAIN clients. Also, not all clients are men.
There are a million of people on earth, some are really nice and kind, some do things that are bad.. it's just reality. This industry is really tough, and I would like to invite you to put yourself at our place for once.
I don't think clients should be against providers or vice versa personally, but unfortunately, certain people do things that we know YOU personally wouldn't do. It's not because someone is complaining about another person's behaviour that it applies to you as well.. I think people are agreeing because they know these things really do happen.. It's naive to believe that providers don't experience disrespectful behavior and violence. That doesn't mean providers hate their clients or men in general.
When I see people complain about bad behaviour from certain providers I don't take it personally either, because I know I'm not one of the people who do this type of thing.. I don't agree with a lot of things other providers do, either.
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I don't think it's necessarily bad for clients to know personal info about their regular SP's necessarily as long as the person provided this information themselves and there is trust between the 2 individuals
I just don't personally appreciate a new client asking for my real name or finding out that someone researched for personal info about me online or that someone went out of their way to find my personal social media and gave it away to somebody else..
First let me say that it is nice to have a lady like you posting on this board.I'm a little confused about your comment personally because I don't see any client bashing here, I just see people sharing negative experience with CERTAIN clients. Also, not all clients are men.
There are a million of people on earth, some are really nice and kind, some do things that are bad.. it's just reality. This industry is really tough, and I would like to invite you to put yourself at our place for once.
I don't think clients should be against providers or vice versa personally, but unfortunately, certain people do things that we know YOU personally wouldn't do. It's not because someone is complaining about another person's behaviour that it applies to you as well.. I think people are agreeing because they know these things really do happen.. It's naive to believe that providers don't experience disrespectful behavior and violence. That doesn't mean providers hate their clients or men in general.
When I see people complain about bad behaviour from certain providers I don't take it personally either, because I know I'm not one of the people who do this type of thing.. I don't agree with a lot of things other providers do, either.
You are always respectful in all your posts and you choose your words with tact and kindness.
I have been around for a very long time ( basically I am not young lol) and seen many things in life and understand that the life you ladies have chosen is a very tough one.
It is not right for anyone to disrespect women in anyway and especially not by distributing personal information about them that can endanger them.
This is also true for SP endangering, blackmailing, and threatening clients.
As far as photographs and videos again anything that is not authorized should be reported to the police.
Having said that there are many intimate and explicit photographs and videos that are distributed by the ladies themselves in order to make money again their choice if they are comfortable with that, but then don’t complain about it.
Unfortunately as you said it is a very tough profession you have chosen and these things will happen, you put yourselves in the public eye in todays world it is naive not to know it will happen.
It is really all about how you choose to convey this information, it can be done as you have chosen to do or in a way that can be received as being a constant negative against all men and clients.
You are right it is not clients against companions.
I have been lucky in my life I have received nothing but love and kindness from the women in my life and that is why I chose to see so few because I appreciate the way they treat me and hopefully they feel the same.
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