I notice that some provider contact request forms are specifically asking for real phone numbers (no VOIP or text app numbers). I am bit apprehensive about sharing it because my personal details show up when I google my number. Is there a way to get rid of this information online? Should I get a burner phone instead?
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If you book reputable ladies, what are you really anxious about?
There's always the option of not booking girls who ask for a real number if that's a deal breaker to you. But yes, you could get a second phone/sim card, or you could send a removal request to Google, I don't know the exact process but I know it's doable.
You can get a burner phone. There are good reasons why we ask for real phone numbers as indy's. The only way I will see a client who uses a textapp is if I get a solid reference from him. A lot of clients will make several new numbers and emails to see SP's who don't want to be in touch with them. I'm not sure why clients are so afraid of sharing personal info when booking providers who have a website, several ads and a social media presence honestly. If I were to blackmail a client or leak info, my career as a SP would be ruined. There are very little chances that anybody like me will do something with your info, unless you literally assault them.
You may be reputable as I'm sure are several others. But until I find that out in person, some of us have as much or more to lose with respect to lost anonymity and reputation as said reputable ladies
I don't give out my personal number any more than I would expect you to give out yours. I'm harmless and very pro-SW... in fact, IRL I'm usually told real names (curiosity on my part to see how it matches the person) and I reciprocate and give mine. Several have become FB friends even, but in the beginning, my guard is up as should that of all SP's. <3In my experience, albeit limited, a lot of European talent and some SP's (i only know a few there), use WhatsApp to communicate, especially when a lot of the girls come from out of country to work as do many of the clients. Personal info is personal info. And it's not a comparison, but it's likely that getting outed for me would have far greater consequences than the same for you. A cautious client might see things in the manner I do more easily than the manner you just explained. I know some rather famous people where privacy and discretion is paramount, and I've facilitated various things for them. The irony is that they do not know to what extent I'm involved on the back end, nor do they ask for the same reason I hold their anonymity and privacy sacred. And yet if we were to ever meet, the likelihood of you telling me certain personal things about you and likewise for me is higher than average
You may be reputable as I'm sure are several others. But until I find that out in person, some of us have as much or more to lose with respect to lost anonymity and reputation as said reputable ladies
Eh, I don't know. Your biggest risk is being exposed and losing a wife or job, which obviously sucks, but ours is being evicted or killed. (If you mean arrest, that doesn't happen if you aren't after underage trafficking victims). It sucks on both ends, which is why we screen and why you're on a review board. The good thing indeed is you have the option of seeing ladies who fit your screening preferences
Plenty don't necessarily ask for a real number or real world info, like myself. And yet if we were to ever meet, the likelihood of you telling me certain personal things about you and likewise for me is higher than average
Hum? How so? That's a weird thing to say.
It was a subtle poke at a conversation we have had quite some time ago... I thought you would have rememberedEh, I don't know. Your biggest risk is being exposed and losing a wife or job, which obviously sucks, but ours is being evicted or killed. (If you mean arrest, that doesn't happen if you aren't after underage trafficking victims). It sucks on both ends, which is why we screen and why you're on a review board. The good thing indeed is you have the option of seeing ladies who fit your screening preferences
Hum? How so? That's a weird thing to say.
If you gave me a good and reliable reference, I would be cool with you using a textapp. But often people who use textapps refuse to give references or photos. I don't use whatsapp because I feel uncomfortable video chatting with a potential client if I haven't met him. I just think it's normal for indy providers to ask for screening. What do I do with screening info? Nothing. I just check it out, and that's it. If you treat me well, why would I do anything with your personal info?You may be reputable as I'm sure are several others. But until I find that out in person, some of us have as much or more to lose with respect to lost anonymity and reputation as said reputable ladies
In my experience, albeit limited, a lot of European talent and some SP's (i only know a few there), use WhatsApp to communicate, especially when a lot of the girls come from out of country to work as do many of the clients. Personal info is personal info. And it's not a comparison, but it's likely that getting outed for me would have far greater consequences than the same for you. A cautious client might see things in the manner I do more easily than the manner you just explained. I know some rather famous people where privacy and discretion is paramount, and I've facilitated various things for them. The irony is that they do not know to what extent I'm involved on the back end, nor do they ask for the same reason I hold their anonymity and privacy sacred. And yet if we were to ever meet, the likelihood of you telling me certain personal things about you and likewise for me is higher than average
My comment wasn't intended to be directed specifically at you or anyone else for that matter. Personally, I generally give industry people the benefit of the doubt. But I do understand the concern of the OP. He has to figure out his own risk vs. reward tolerance.
How would the person know you are using a texting app? I am sure there are ways, I am curious about them.
There are websites for that. If the phone number comes back with no service provider, it is a texting app
Reputable ladies like most clients are only reputable until they are not. How many people have you trusted or thought were really good friends or nice people and then stabbed you in the back lol. I doubt the number is 0.
I understand the reasons for SP screening and also that they are in much more danger than a client would be in most cases. If I were them I would be doing the same thing it is their life and right to only accept clients that comply and their safety should come first above anything else.
This will always be an issue. A burner phone, SIM card, is away around it or just stick with SP that don’t require it.
Personally I use my own phone do a lot of research and contact only reputable ladies with reviews but everyone has a different risk level and like you say there are ladies out there that will meet your safety level so just pass on the others.
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