Receiving text messages from escort or agency to promote their services!

[fran444]

Texto non désiré ...

Drôle de situation la semaine dernière ...

J`ai reçu un texto d`une SP que j`avais rencontré une fois il a près de 1 an. J`ai trouvé ça impoli et très imprudent pour moi. Je sais qu`il y a des risques liés au hobby, mais je n`aurais pas pensé qu`une SP m`aurait contacter en privé pour m`offrir ses services !!!

Certaines sont devenues des amies avec le temps et j`aime bien avoir de leur nouvelles, mais avec cette dernière ma rencontre avait été ordinaire ... sans grande chimie .. alors quelle surprise de la voir essayer de me rencontrer à nouveau ... comme si le racollage était sa nouvelle pub.

Bref j`y ai vu un grand manque de respect à mon endroit ... ces dames nous demande de respecter leur intimité et de ne pas envahir leur vie, alors je demande juste en retour qu`elles respecte la mienne.

Avez-vous déjà vécu pareille situation ??

 

[CLOUD 500]

I love it when girls solicitate me services it is a big turn on. I loose interest if they do not solicitate. I like them to show interest in them wanting my business.

 

[MtlGuy]

same here, how could you say No ? Hell, she has your number after 1 yr, shows she does not think your another perverted jack ass.

 

[Daiko]

Certains aiment recevoir des nouvelles, d'autres ne veulent laisser aucune traces et rester secrets, pour ces derniers, c'est leur responsabilité de gérer ça, avec un 2ème téléphone dédié, par exemple. Tu ne peux pas imposer tes conditions particulières à tout le monde, il faut s'attendre à des comportements inattendus.

 

[CLOUD 500]

same here, how could you say No ? Hell, she has your number after 1 yr, shows she does not think your another perverted jack ass.

Exactly. Big turn on even a girl who was average shows me that importance deserves my business in my book. Only if more girls would take the initiate to ask their clients to see them.

 

[CLOUD 500]

d'autres ne veulent laisser aucune traces et rester secrets, pour ces derniers, c'est leur responsabilité de gérer ça, avec un 2ème téléphone dédié, par exemple.

True some of these guys live a double life... Are married or have a GF who are obviously under their scrutiny. Best to get those phone apps a lot of escorts are using those to post ads.

 

[TheDon]

Business must not be good to solicit a repeat 1 year after. Unprofessional and desperate!

 

[stiffrod422]

Or they are just very horny for you to service them ;-)


Stiff

 

[blkone]

Depends if I have a GF or not, if not, bring on the texts!

 

[Doggyluver]

If you don't want a text, even after 1 year, don't give your number out

 

[Jamesrenard44]

It's part of game. If you don't want to receive text messages, use email, merb private message or whatever....

Do you think they like receiving text messages when they retired? No. But it's part of the game unfortunately

 

[Maria Divina]

Being one who prefer highly to be contacted by email, and I'm very clear about it always.......

if someone, even if I confirm with him that's "by email", insist and send a SMS after, I just know how he is respecting myself for real.

That's rare, it happened only twice. And that's killing certainly a part of the joy to meet again. Those ones, from "particular friends" become only "clients". Not the type I prefer to meet at all.
I really want to have the most fun possible and meet trustable people who are able to follow my little demands for my well being peace of mind.

For my part, I'm sorry that you had that SMS after one year from someone you did not see very much.
That's something I recommend to NOT do to any ladies. That's a total lack of good manners in this industry.
That's to gentlemen to contact us, and ladies should wait to have the permission by her gentleman before thinking to do.

Ah zut, je viens de remarquer Fran44, tu avais écrit en français, alors, je te traduis:

Pour ma part, je suis désolée que tu aies reçu ce SMS après un an d'une personne que tu connaissais peu en plus.
C'est quelque chose que je recommande vivement de NE PAS faire aux filles/femmes. C'est un manque total de savoir-vivre dans cet industrie.
C'est aux messieurs de nous contacter, et les filles/femmes devraient simplement attendre d'avoir la permission express avant de penser à le faire.

 

[Gabriella Laurence]

Business must not be good to solicit a repeat 1 year after. Unprofessional and desperate!

Right on the money. No pun intended

Slow periods or not, professional ladies understand the important need for discretion by respecting the contact etiquette and not sending unsolicited texts/emails to the patrons they have seen in the past.

 

[UncleBob]

Pour ma part, j'adore recevoir des textos ou appels de SP et ce n'importe quand.
Je prend des précautions pour configurer pas avoir de notification sur mon cell barré.
Si j'étais en couple, je n'utiliserais pas mon cell maison. J'aurais soit une application configurée comme il se doit ou un autre cell que j'éteints ou n'amène pas dans maison...

J'ai déjà reçu un texto d'une SP, à qui j'avais donné mon # mais elle m'avait pas donné le sien, 6 mois après sa retraite. Elle était avec une tite agence...
Elle m'avait dit ne plus vouloir s'annoncer pour tel et tel raisons et voulait m'offrir de se voir à l'occasion.
Ça m'a fait chaud au coeur et j'ai accepté et eu les meilleures baises à vie avec elle.
Ça n'a pas assez durer longtemps malheureusement... quelques mois puis elle est passé à d'autre chose... fait quelques années de ça.

Souvent, il y a des SP qui ont eu des problèmes avec Pimp, Stalker, Dénonciation, menaces, qui caignent de s'annoncer ou qui ont une autre source de revenu mais veulent un ptit bonus et qui veulent rester le plus discrètes possible.
C'est donc possible qu'elles tentent de contacter des clients qu'elles ont déjà vu, souvent des ex-réguliers, mais parfois, elles passent au travers leur liste...

Je vois ça comme un privilège une SP qui me contacte.

 

[P. Gabriel]

I had the service of an agency and also from an indy a long time ago and I am receiving text messages saying available for incall today and the names of whoever is available.

I can't see how someone can be that stupid. We hobby under a certain discretion and I am surely not expecting anyone to send me a message with even pictures if I didn't ask for it.

I will get back to you madame if I ever need your services again.

I was in a meeting and the message appeared .... What do you think I looked like to the others.

I am not mentionning names here but please stop all this . You can do a lot of damage. If I didn't call back maybe two years later, why in the world would you text me ? I can understand you want to advertise and fill up your agenda but we come here and see who is advertising and we decide.

I'm pissed

The first time it was a new agency who dissapeared since then a few months ago and now an indy I say in Boucherville two years ago.

 

[hungry101]

Years ago I had an escort I met on BP continue to call and text me. I used her services once and I made the mistake of calling her from my work cell. Finally, I told her curtly Do not call me again! That did it. Then I went out and bought a bat phone which I have long since discarded. More recently, I bought a sim card from Rodgers in Canada. 25$/month and a one time 10$ charge. Give them this number and then when you are not hobbying, remove the sim card and put it in a safe place. If anyone ever questions me I would say I bought it because cell phone charges in Canada are outrageous otherwise.

 

[gaby]

Well........ cela est débattable......i had absolutly no problem PERSONNELLEMENT receiving TEXTOS from an indy i ALREADY saw and just saying..hi--how are you am always working--thinking of you-----stuff like that.....again no problem at all FOR ME.....au contraire i like that....BUT it happens very very rarely i must say....

No problem neither with agencies who know my tastes and let me know they have the one for me......they don't do it sans doute par respect ou trop busy......BUT i would not b offended at all......au contraire.....just good marketing si cela ne devient pas du harcèlement bien évidemment.

And am pretty sure some or many of you guys receive régulièrement messages---textos as such and not complaining....am i wrong?

 

[hungry101]

There are people associated with this hobby (including girls) that I do not mind receiving such messages from. In fact, I enjoy it and welcome those messages. I just don't think a girl I called and saw one time should be calling me at my desk on a regular basis like a telemarketer. But shame on me. I was partially to blame. 1) I gave her my number by the fact I called her and 2) I never set boundaries.

Question: Has anyone ever decided to see an escort because you received a random call from one? Is this like changing your cable or internet provider?

 

[neverbored]

Another reason to use a burner. I turn on my burner phone from time to time...everytime its loaded with messages makes me cringe for others.

Makes me wonder if anyone here ever got into trouble.

BTW, you might also want to consider a seperate phone (dumb phone if possible), ya ya, I got my tinfoil hat on. But when you know how much crap you phone monitors without even being loaded with a SIM card or even in airplane mode its not just the SPs and agencies you need to be worried about.

 

[laid_back_alex]

Gaby,

Although it may not be a problem for you, I do not feel that this is debatable at all. One unsolicited text can completely ruin a man's marriage. Indys and agencies are well aware that discretion should be a top priority. If they don't know your personal situation they should not be sending you unsolicited texts. The possible damage from that single text outweighs the benefit by a HUGE margin. If you're single or don't care about discretion, sure no problem but the point here is that the agency should never ever take that risk unless there is explicit consent to receive ANY unsolicited texts from them. This is very obvious and the good news is that most indys and agencies are smart enough not to do it.

Of course, we can take better precautions to avoid this situation and many have mentioned already, however the point is that the providers should also be careful.

I don't see how this is debatable if the John does not give his consent to receive unsolicited texts.