Reflections on ......

[travelfreak]

Sometimes I take some time to read random threads here.
This time I will make a short reflection on what I have seen, and I don't like it. When is it OK for us to ask about all the itty bitty details about the ladies. I read that some are really picky when it comes to the face and some need perfect tattays or bum and details about services. I can't imagine what it feels like to be scrutinized and judged this way and then have to deal with guys from all walk of life. Have we all taken time to look in the mirror and see what we look like, I doubt all of us a a 10/10/10 so why do we have the right to judge? The ladies will try to deliver similar service to all of their clients but I totally understand that it will vary depending on the connection made. So when I read people complaining that they didn't get the same services as the other guy, well I guess the connection wasn't made in that case. From my experience this business is all YMMV situations, we can't assume we will get this or that. I think the ladies are trying their best to make it consistent and doing this to people that they might find almost repulsive in their books.

So please try to take this as a YMMV situation and sometimes we will get lucky and find that lady we actually click with and the session will be mind blowing. BUT, we should not take it for granted based on other peoples reviews that we will receive the exact same services as someone else that posted this fantasy scenario. I think we should appreciate the ladies for what they do because I know for sure I could not if I was in their shoes.

My 0.02

 

[lgna69xxx]

Excellent post TF! :thumb:

 

[panthere]

Sometimes I take some time to read random threads here.
This time I will make a short reflection on what I have seen, and I don't like it. When is it OK for us to ask about all the itty bitty details about the ladies. I read that some are really picky when it comes to the face and some need perfect tattays or bum and details about services. I can't imagine what it feels like to be scrutinized and judged this way and then have to deal with guys from all walk of life. Have we all taken time to look in the mirror and see what we look like, I doubt all of us a a 10/10/10 so why do we have the right to judge? The ladies will try to deliver similar service to all of their clients but I totally understand that it will vary depending on the connection made. So when I read people complaining that they didn't get the same services as the other guy, well I guess the connection wasn't made in that case. From my experience this business is all YMMV situations, we can't assume we will get this or that. I think the ladies are trying their best to make it consistent and doing this to people that they might find almost repulsive in their books.

So please try to take this as a YMMV situation and sometimes we will get lucky and find that lady we actually click with and the session will be mind blowing. BUT, we should not take it for granted based on other peoples reviews that we will receive the exact same services as someone else that posted this fantasy scenario. I think we should appreciate the ladies for what they do because I know for sure I could not if I was in their shoes.

My 0.02

Ok...i do AGREE in a way and i feel you!!!..Here comes the BUT....
All the girls that i did encounter was almost perfect in their one ways :amen:...But for some of them i will not gonna go see them again!!!..(small majority)..But you have to understand ONE THING...We DO PAY for their service...I am pretty sure the girl that i did saw would not pay for MY service llollll...And trust me i am farrrrrrr from a 10/10/10 lolllll....And you know in life your category that you could hoke up and that some you cant ...like i know that Angelina Jolie would never whant me for dating or sex lolll...But i am probably gonna be her friend or bouncer for sure...(but nothing more)....So guys and girls know their status in life in a way...
But for the only reason that the one thing is WE pay for their service...yeah FOR SURE...it is gonna be a YMMV..for sureeee!!!..But in some part like GFE stand point...They have to respect and honor the commitement that we did pay,except if the guy is disgusting or bad hygien etc....So for myself i know that some chimie is not there with some beauty,and with some we click right away...it is ALWAYS ABOUT RESPECT!!!...You give that to the person...and karma gonna give it to you back!!

P.S. I do hope you and others feel what i do MEAN..!!!..And also btw you have magnific girls that do have a perfect history...And for some not,but we can and do read between the lines with previous post of the merb member etc....So we are THE ONE to judge and to call or not that girl in a way...

11h23...Also in all my reviews i neverrr gonna say...ohh she need to loose 15 or 50 pounds.... or that she have bad taste for tattoos ,or something else to degrate her!!...Except if she had bad hygien or not clean or not shaved ...So it is like i said before RESPECT...

 

[travelfreak]

panthere, well said.
I understand we are paying for a service and as you said RESPECT is very important.
If you respect and treat the providers well I am pretty sure they will return the favor.
What I saw this morning was quotes stating they "are very sensitive to the looks" so in other words the ladies have to be very pretty. But as we all know someone can find a lady very pretty and you can't for the world figure out how

 

[panthere]

panthere, well said.
I understand we are paying for a service and as you said RESPECT is very important.
If you respect and treat the providers well I am pretty sure they will return the favor.
What I saw this morning was quotes stating they "are very sensitive to the looks" so in other words the ladies have to be very pretty. But as we all know someone can find a lady very pretty and you can't for the world figure out how

Thank you first...i am happy you did understand my point.
And of course we have people that whant perfection=But perfection doesnt exist anyway!!!...But for me the chemistry is veryy important,i would not say name but i did saw girls in GT that did offer their service and i would never pay for it cause they dont satisfy my curiousity or no chemistry or not my type of girl.!!(For some other member they had been amazing but not for me=taste is individual).... But also in other hand i did hook up with some and i am still happy from it .So bottom lines...treat the person you are with the same way YOU want to be treated and ALL is gonna be almost perfect !! It is like in life,everyone should know this by now ..But you do always find a bad apple,(in that case a merb member),you just have to ignore him and go look to the real poster that did comment...and you gonna have the real answer..or better yet =YOURSELF!
Peace.

 

[johnybird]

So true Travelfreak and Panthere.

sometimes i read these reviews and wonder to myself how these beautiful ladies don't get self conscious (i'm sure some might), they must have pretty thick skins to be able to absorb some of the critisisms, must be frustrating for them as well.

When I read reviews that a certain SP was 5 lbs heavier (who notices 5 lbs) or is too tanned, they took an hour to text them back, etc..., I think to myself "Who Cares", some of these are written in a hostile way and for such petty insignificant things (at leas for me) , and then the thread start escalating to the point where the SP has to respond just to set the record straight.

I even thought the "When will SP rates fall like the loonie and barrel of oil?' was started as a joke, just for some fun, until I started reading how serious and kind of agressive some of the Merb members were.

I understand this is a review board but some of these reviewers sound so damn mad. You can still get your point across in a respectful and gentleman like way.

 

[Handi]

As you can see in my reviews, I only review the womens I had great meeting with and have positive things to say. I know how bad reviews can hurt and its not because it didnt click with me that it wont with an other. If I did not enjoy the meeting, ill just let the booker know, or answers to merbites questions by pm. After all, the most important thing for me when I meet an Sp is respect, so I will respect every Sps I met, on this board too, unless they have been really unrespectful with me...

 

[PopeDover]

Sometimes I feel like some men have a check list in mind...and they are "testing" the providers.......:nono:
Where's the fun?

The fun begins after she passes the test :thumb:

and after we the clients pass your test. Is that wrong, despite how unpleasant it sounds?

If the test is stupid and shortsighted, well, you can lead a guy to Montreal, but you can't make him enjoy good sex

 

[Kasey Jones]

It's rare I have anything negative to say about the sp's I've met. Like Panthere said, respect is the most important thing...

This actually got me to thinking about some of the pm's I've received after posting positive reviews... some of you guys are into some really weird sh!t and I feel sorry for the sp's who have to put up with you for even an hour, no matter how much you are paying them... Cleveland Steamer??? Really???? damn....

 

[hungry101]

It's rare I have anything negative to say about the sp's I've met.

Cleveland Steamer??? Really???? damn....

There are a few trolls that are not who they appear to be that will ask questions by PM like this. Be careful. I really believe that only a rogue Merbite would be into something like this.

 

[lgna69xxx]

He was banned for running down Fred, the Mods and some Merb Members, there was a thread started about him 6 weeks or so ago, but back to the thread subject, I totally agree with the guy who started it and believe there are nice ways to point out anything negative within a date and ways that cross the lines. I can't begin to imagine some of the weirdo's and animals our Ladies of Montreal have to meet.

I really believe that only a rogue Merbite would be into something like this.

 

[hungry101]

He was banned for running down Fred, the Mods and some Merb Members, there was a thread started about him 6 weeks or so ago, but back to the thread subject, I totally agree with the guy who started it and believe there are nice ways to point out anything negative within a date and ways that cross the lines. I can't begin to imagine some of the weirdo's and animals our Ladies of Montreal have to meet.

I wasn't necessarily referring to anyone in particular. I get the occasional PM from a supposed Merbite that hasn't posted since 2007. I ignore them or them and sometimes I turn them in. What sick fuck is into a Stanley Steamer? Probably a hoax who was trying to start shit by sending a PM to Kasey.

I do support the spirit of original poster. However, I will say this, this is not an entitlement program. This is not the Big Brothers program. I am here to have a good time with the ladies and the money flows in one direction: From me to the SPs. Having said this, I have really only had one agency girl to complain about. Also, I have met some nice girls that were average looking (relatively speaking) but managed to have some great times. Of course, I read reviews and i talk to others I book through the best agencies. And yes, I strive to plan my sessions so that when I open the door my jaw hits the floor. It doesn't happen every time. Also, when that girl crosses the threshold to my room I hope that we can have a good time together, shares some wine a few laughs and some great sex. This is what I hope for.

 

[lgna69xxx]

Pun intended? I had to look up the meaning and are you kidding me? ppl are into this? See what I mean about "animals"

What sick fuck is into a Stanley Steamer? Probably a haox who was trying to start shit by sending a PM to Kasey.

 

[BookerL]

the worst mindset

Hello all

When I first started booking pre internet no pics obviously no text ,just conversation on the phone ,guys where very precise in the type of girls they wanted ,not only she needed to be gorgeous ,but have a specific weight ,hair colour,breast size ,like we where manufacturing the ladies off a assembly line with ordered options!:lol:

So I started asking the type of girl he was looking before describing the ones I had to see which one would match the most his personal taste ,often even if I had the describe the girl of is dream ,he told me ,I will call you later ,You have a real 18 years blond bombshell ,he wants to call later ,why is he calling now ?
I guess some guys have a lots of time to loose ?
Feedbacks ,hair to long to short ,not the right color of nail polish and on ,it was a never ending story .
SP's are not fabricated they are human beings hobbyist should realize this in their comments ,which at a certain point affects the moral of the ladies ,the numbers are sometimes very bothering to some .



Cheers



Booker

 

[johnybird]

not only she needed to be gorgeous ,but have a specific weight ,hair colour,breast size ,like we where manufacturing the ladies off a assembly line with ordered options!:

Every hobbyist is in it for their own reason, some just want to fulfill a fantasy and want that ultimate woman they think they can never get. There's nothing wrong with that but for men asking for specifics down to the nail polish will always find something to be disappointed with, because nobody is perfect (I know that's a cliche saying but it's true).

SP's reading negative reviews out there about their appearance should take it with a grain of salt and not pay much attention to it, I know it's harder then it sounds sometimes, but for that one person that's complaining about that pimple on your behind there are 10 more that could care less.