Requesting outfits, etiquettes

[sphunter]

always ask in advance, notify again as a reminder.
before doing so, you repeating clients have more chances.

i know the perfect client is the client who brings the outfit themselves.

 

[Fradi]

The request wasn’t outrageous but some people don’t like being asked. She has said it was a turn off for her to be asked so what you requested doesn’t seem to be the problem here.

You can try starting with “do you accept outfit requests?” and then proceed with your request.


I enjoy outfit requests but only when it’s something simple like can you wear a dress. If it’s “can you wear a tight short red dress” it’s not as fun because I don’t own that specific colour, style or maybe it’s in the laundry. It will also lowkey make me feel like if I don’t show up with the exact dress the person won’t have as much fun.

She is not a nun that you have to tip toe around a simple request like lingerie and high heels is quite normal and not out of the ordinary.
She can simply answer that she is uncomfortable in it or it hurts her feet whatever.
If she gets her nose out of joint for a simple request like that you are much better off not seeing someone with a Princess attitude like that.
If she can’t handle something as simple as that without being rude and insulting then she should be in a different line of work.
Respect and being polite works both ways and seeing a rude entitled SP is not in your best interest.
There are much better ones out there.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

The guy came on here saying he only requested heels and lingerie, but the message she received might have looked like this:

I would like you to wear the black outfit in the 4th pic on your website but the outfit on your 10th pic would be great too
I really love a garter belt so please don't forget it
and it's best if you put your garter belt over your panties because I love to slowly undress while you keep your outfit on
I prefer beige hosiery as well so no black tights, I love the contrast with the black lingerie
Please wear Louboutin, they are so glamourous and I want you to keep them in bed and I want your legs to look like a billion-dollar
no open toe heels please, they are ugly with tights on
I can't wait for our 1 h meeting on Sunday at 10 am at Chablis thank you

I don't say it was what the member above said but know that we receive that kind of "only heels and lingerie" request often.

 

[Jazzman1218]

I used to really enjoy outfit requests until people started asking for things I didn't have. I can accommodate certain requests personally, like if someone wants me to wear a certain color or a specific type of lingerie. I've even had someone ask me to welcome him naked in sneakers before, which isn't something I can do anymore lol but I still did it. Sometimes people request for me to be dressed in just jeans a t-shirt. But remember SP's don't necessarily have a wardrobe full of costumes and different types of outfits. I gave away a lot of my costume-y lingerie because it wasn't popular with most of my clients, and I don't own any costumes that are commonly requested, so I would appreciate if the person actually brings the outfit himself. Which is what 2 clients have done before, and it was really fun.

Jeans and a t-shirt (no bra) is always the perfect attire for me. However, as long as you have a smile on your face, you can wear whatever you'd like.

 

[Rebaynia]

I think it also depends what kind of visit you are asking for. If it a visit planned well in advance for a significant amount of time, it is better recieved than someone asking for a ASAP appointment without any planning time, asking for detailed clothing items. In that case my answer is I am already dressed for the day, and am not taking requests at that point, while a date being planned out in advance can suggest something they have seen me wear in a recent Pic, or similar. But I have different styles I wear different days, depending on my mood that day.
And not everyone has a selection of lingerie, or heels.
LoL then again I can be my own character. Don't really aim to dress up like someone else. And I haven't worn jeans and a t-shirt for many years now. That's 1 request I wouldn't be able to accomodate.

 

[T'storm]

On a side note even if you buy an outfit for that special lady that you want to see her in it, it's not as easy as it sounds like. First of all do you know her measurements? If I'm not mistaken undergarments can't be returned once they are out of the store or purchased online (unless the package as never been opened). Second, she will not wear it before even washing it to protect herself. Third what if she does not like what you got her? Will she want to wear it just to please you?
That's why I take my favourite girl on a shopping spree twice a year. I spend around $300-$400 each times and that way I'm sure it will fit her and that she will like it as well.
The only deal that I have is that I'm the first one to see it on her for the first 2 times that she wears it, after that any other lucky guy can get to see her in it. The other deal is I only get her what we both like and not what she wants. Example is she likes to wear leopard print undies or clothing and I can't stand it myself, so I don't get that.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

On a side note even if you buy an outfit for that special lady that you want to see her in it, it's not as easy as it sounds like. First of all do you know her measurements? If I'm not mistaken undergarments can't be returned once they are out of the store or purchased online (unless the package as never been opened). Second, she will not wear it before even washing it to protect herself. Third what if she does not like what you got her? Will she want to wear it just to please you?
That's why I take my favourite girl on a shopping spree twice a year. I spend around $300-$400 each times and that way I'm sure it will fit her and that she will like it as well.
The only deal that I have is that I'm the first one to see it on her for the first 2 times that she wears it, after that any other lucky guy can get to see her in it. The other deal is I only get her what we both like and not what she wants. Example is she likes to wear leopard print undies or clothing and I can't stand it myself, so I don't get that.

The dream!

 

[tifoso2002]

The guy came on here saying he only requested heels and lingerie, but the message she received might have looked like this:

I would like you to wear the black outfit in the 4th pic on your website but the outfit on your 10th pic would be great too
I really love a garter belt so please don't forget it
and it's best if you put your garter belt over your panties because I love to slowly undress while you keep your outfit on
I prefer beige hosiery as well so no black tights, I love the contrast with the black lingerie
Please wear Louboutin, they are so glamourous and I want you to keep them in bed and I want your legs to look like a billion-dollar
no open toe heels please, they are ugly with tights on
I can't wait for our 1 h meeting on Sunday at 10 am at Chablis thank you

I don't say it was what the member above said but know that we receive that kind of "only heels and lingerie" request often.

Please dont assume there was none of that ... all I asked was if she had lingerie and heels is all

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Please dont assume there was none of that ... all I asked was if she had lingerie and heels is all

"I don't say it was what the member above said [...]"

 

[LC18]

On a side note even if you buy an outfit for that special lady that you want to see her in it, it's not as easy as it sounds like. First of all do you know her measurements? If I'm not mistaken undergarments can't be returned once they are out of the store or purchased online (unless the package as never been opened). Second, she will not wear it before even washing it to protect herself. Third what if she does not like what you got her? Will she want to wear it just to please you?
That's why I take my favourite girl on a shopping spree twice a year. I spend around $300-$400 each times and that way I'm sure it will fit her and that she will like it as well.
The only deal that I have is that I'm the first one to see it on her for the first 2 times that she wears it, after that any other lucky guy can get to see her in it. The other deal is I only get her what we both like and not what she wants. Example is she likes to wear leopard print undies or clothing and I can't stand it myself, so I don't get that.

That’s why I put my mensurations on my website but even then as you mentioned. You need to wash undies before wearing them :/