Rimming

[naughtylady]

Salmacis>> yes I know most guys are, but when it comes (or is that cums?) to rimming I get a little fussy,(paranoid?) though I will admit that on occasion I did not insist on the shower first...

Actually in general I like to start with a shower. I find it to be a great way to start the intimacy, get to feel out eachothers boundaries, and well to be blunt I find it very erotic!

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

 

[John Legend]

Eating ass is for ****

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[the Lurker]

Eating ass is for fags.

Ha. Is that another "Oh, I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body?" joke...

This hobby isn't exactly high on some real men's list either ya know.

Takes all kinds in this world. It really does, even yours.

 

[Juliana]

Good sexual stimulation is for everyone !

Dear Smack Appeal vous avez posez une tres bonne question !

I think the joys of ass eating/licking/kissing/sucking is not just for gay people unless god is gay and is trying to keep some gourme food just for the very few. I think the pleasures of anal stimulation is for anyone who gets satisfaction in giving pleasure down there by either receiving and giving such a luxury. Please follow the NaughtLady suggestions in this thread and shave your pubic hair ( in the back and in the front ) in case you have a loving partner who goes that far with you. Or if you gonne have the luxury of sharing your body with anyone !
This is not to be confused with your face hair.

I hope the mod is not gonne punish me for participating in this discussion with the argument of self promotion !

*** Participating in a discussion, without promoting oneself, has never been forbidden. M2 ***

 

[Salmacis]

Eating ass is for fags.

So Rocco Siffredi is a fag? Come on JL, grow up. It is not for everyone, that's for sure - but why should you have to be a fag to enjoy it?

 

[Juliana]

Dear Salmacis!

Thank God I have to grow up it shall be good to me. You are absolutely right it is not for everyone.

 

[HonestAbe]

Logic please?

Eating ass is for fags.

So you think if a man eats a womans ass he is gay? Or are you assuming that people who participate in this particular activity are disguising homosexual desires? While anything is possible on a case by case basis thats still a mighty big assumption if you are making a general statement about everyone who engages heterosexually in this specific sexual act. Would you say the same thing for men who like to perform anal intercourse on a woman? IMHO the only sexual act that makes a man gay is a sexual act performed on a man. I just don't see the logic in your statement making any sense. There sure would be a lot of gay men posting on MERB if this were true as is evidenced in this thread. I respectfully disagree.

 

[Joe.t]

I agree, homophobic statements should not be tolerated on this board.

 

[Juliana]

Ass and Vagina Licking leading Infection action ! Please Dont Do It !

Dear Tender35
It is cool to read that you love to please that is a quality to be celebrated in itself.
When i read your delight on "I love to mix and match going from pussy to ass" It occured to me,

that unfortunatelly this action can cause any women to acquire vaginal infections. Unfotunately the bacteria of the Ass and the Vagina should not BE MIX, or your female partner is going to get a vaginal infection. Her pussy is gonne smell awfull as a result.

I know it sucks but if you decide to do that, go for the pussy first but once you are doing ass licking dont go back to licking the vagina unless you want to give her an infection.
And you are right this activity belong in the intimacy relationship level, not for everyone.

I am very happy to see you and Joe.T, stand up against homophobia on https://merb.cc, let`s show the world that Montreal is an educated cosmopolitan queer positive city.

 

[Best Lover]

Juliana,

Very good and important post.

Yes, do not mix and keep things separate. It's ok to go from vagina to anal but never the other way.

Fingers in vagina then anal ok but don't go back. Penis in vagina then anal ok but don't go back unless you put on a new condom. And don't forget the extra lube when going greek.


P.S. I am surprised by all the "homo-phobia". Just be safe and clean and enjoy the human body as it truly is a "great work of art".

 

[Chuckles]

Hmmm... I've only been rimmed once, about 4 or 5 years ago. My ex- had just given me a (naked!) massage, and as I was getting up my back felt a bit stiff. I arched my back like a cat to try to stretch out the muscles and she apparently thought that I was sticking out my butt for some kinky loving. The next thing I knew, she was licking around my anus and occasionally flicking her tongue inside. We never did that again (because I didn't ask about it, I'm sure), but I did like the sensation. My main trouble is that I tend to take whatever is offered during sex, and I don't often ask for things 'cause I'm usually liking what is going on already.

Repeat? Mmmmaybe... depends on the lady!

 

[Techie]

Last month while with an SP, she went from giving me a BJ to sticking her tongue as far up my ass as she possibly could. Wow, I almost hit the ceiling! But you know what...it felt great! I never would have thought about it or asked for it so I guess I have to say don't knock it 'til you try it.

 

[Rascal]

Thanks Techie

Thanks Techie...good response...that's how I felt my first time, what a surprise, and what a thrill. Being open minded can let you discover and experience completely unexpected treats.

 

[HonestAbe]

Heres the real poop on the subject.

What is known about this activity is that getting fecal matter in your mouth can cause a large variety of serious ailments.... It was a large list in the article I read, I will see if I can find it and post it for you.

Hope no one has a problem with this thread being ressurected. I found that list and wanted to share it with you all.

"Risks include Viral Hepatitis and parasitic intestinal infections such as Giardiasis(symptoms include nausea, sulfurous belches, diarrhea, and weight loss)
Amebiasis(bloody colitis in extreme cases)
Cryptosporidiosis(nausea, vomiting, low fever, cramps, diarrhea)
Shigellosis(nausea, diarrhea, fever)
Campylobacter Enteritis(severe diarrhea with BLOOD AND PUS)
Strongyloidiasis(or infection with roundworms which in sufficient numbers can cause intestinal blockage, Belly full of worms=YUCK)"

 

[FunLuver]

What about rimming and the risk of transmission of Hepatitis C ?

 

[HonestAbe]

Not sure

Viral Hepatitis is the first malady mentioned on the list. Is it A, B, or C? No idea here, anyone of them would suck though.

Personally I wondered why E-coli wasn't mentioned in the article, isn't that spread through fecal matter as well?

Any MDs' in the house?

 

[FunLuver]

This is a very informative web site for the non-MD merbites

www.webmd.com

Hepatitis

http://my.webmd.com/medical_information/condition_centers/hepatitis/default.htm

"Guide to Sexual Health"

http://my.webmd.com/content/article/45/2953_483.htm?z=2953_00000_6501_rl_05#6

 

[naughtylady]

There are 2 forms of hepatitis. Hepatitis that you can catch by contamination, which is called viral; and hepatitis caused from too much alcool (this form is not contagious).

Hep A:
is caught through excrements, objects in contact with the anus

Hep B:
is caught through blood, sperm, vaginal fluids, and pre-cum.

Hep C:
is caught by blood to blood contact.

There is a vaccine available for Hep A & B. None for Hep C.

Hepatitus out in open air has a life span of up to 72 hours.

Hope this helps.

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

 

[HonestAbe]

Preference?

A rimjob well-performed is one of life's great pleasures. I generally don't ask or receive rimjobs from SPs because I find very few women do it well. Most seem reluctant to give a man's shitter a really good licking. However, (gay) men don't seem to hesitate at all, they just dive in and toss my salad.

So you are bisexual? Nothing wrong with that, just trying to figure out if that was a joke, LOL! Do you prefer your salad tossed with Syrup or Jelly?

 

[naughtylady]

To me bisexuality has to do with being able to have a relationship with, and being attracted to, someone of either sex.

Just because a guy admits to enjoying being rimmed by another man does not make him bisexual.

Imagine this senario: You are at an orgy. While some woman is sitting on your face your are getting the best BJ of your life, complete with ball sucking and rimming. Only after do you realise it was a guy going down on you. Does this mean you are bi? I mean it was the best BJ you ever got! Of Course not! It is not like you are now suddenly attracted to men! It only means that now you are open to the idea that another man can give you physical pleasure.

Ronnie,
Naughtylady