Rimming

[Emily]

To me bisexuality has to do with being able to have a relationship with, and being attracted to, someone of either sex.

Just because a guy admits to enjoying being rimmed by another man does not make him bisexual.



I totally agree with you, Naughty Lady.

There is really nothing wrong to have pleasure from a man if you are a man and vice versa. That doesn't make you gay or bisexual. Even if there is nothing wrong it it.

=)

Emily Red

 

[HonestAbe]

No disrespect but...

Just because a guy admits to enjoying being rimmed by another man does not make him bisexual.

to have pleasure from a man if you are a man and vice versa. That doesn't make you gay or bisexual.

=)

Emily Red

While I agree that if you were unaware that a member of the same sex performed a sexual act on you that it does not make you gay I must totally disagree with the rest of the notion quoted above. By definition if you KNOWINGLY participate and enjoy sexual acts with members of the same sex you are most definitely gay or bisexual.

AND NOW THE ALL IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER, THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING GAY! Whatever floats your boat is fine with me!

 

[naughtylady]

By definition if you KNOWINGLY participate and enjoy sexual acts with members of the same sex you are most definitely gay or bisexual.

Even if you are not particularly attracted to people of your own gender and cannot imagine having a relationship with someone of the same sex?

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

 

[HonestAbe]

Ronnie and W-stiff

Never really thought about it too much. I'm not particularly attracted to men, I just like the sex. I've only ever had meaningful relationships with women and couldn't imaging myself, for example, living as a couple with a man. For me, sex is just sex with a man, but it can be a lot more than sex with a woman. I guess that makes me not bisexual.

There is also the practical side to all of this. In Montreal, it's just a lot easier to get quick, free, anonymous sex from men than it is from women. No dinner, no movies, no phone calls, just one or two beers. And nothing to deal with afterwards. It's Kleenex, you shoot your wad and throw it out.

Seriously, no offense intended here. All I am saying is that if you read the definition of Homosexuality and Lesbianism it is very clear that it involves engaging in sexual acts with a person of the same sex. I don't think love has anything to do with whatever sexual preference you may have, but that is another discussion altogether. Hope you keep on enjoying whatever feels good to you.

 

[Rascal]

...which brings us back to the tyopic at hand!

which is all about rimming and enjoying being rimmed by a SP (or your wife or girlfriend or partner...whether you are straight or gay!

Keep it up!

 

[Regular Guy]

nerve endings

Relatively new here but thought I'd put my two cents in. Biologically speaking I am surprised that no one has mentioned that the anus has an overabundance of nerve endings with the potential to experience intense pleasure from the application of a soft silky tongue. It is just one more way to intensify pleasure, just one more tool in the arsenal (no pun intended). I was first introduced to it by my last GF. She did it more for my pleasure than for hers though I know she enjoyed the concept. I have to admit I had mixed feelings as a guy's position can be somewhat undignified depending how you want to allow access. I have also done it for her. She loves it. I enjoyed pleasing her more than being stimulated that way myself. But then she also enjoys Greek.

Carla, I have also noticed that taste and scent may vary from partner to partner though not so much here. But don't forget that we also respond to the pheromones others give off. Maybe that is what is happening here.

No question at all that it's important to play safe here. It's everybody's responsibility to see that SPs are protected not just theirs and that is just common sense. Everyone is part of the process.

In any event I love the intimacy of it. Now if I can just find a different girl who might like to try it...................................

 

[Rascal]

Nerve endings

Thanks for your post, Regular guy...in one of my earlier posts I offered my feeling about nerve endings around the anus...

"But when its given and offered, purely to tantalize, tease, arouse and enflame one's erotic response I think it helps round out the entire act. Its obvious there are millions of sensitive nerve endings around the anus...the gentle action of a tongue on my anus drives me wild...so it must have an erotic function"

So its obvious you and I both appreciate the richness of nerve endings to allow sthe ensations down there to be transmitted and enjoyed! You were fortunate to have a girlfriend who enjoyed it as well...true sharing!

Relatively new here but thought I'd put my two cents in. Biologically speaking I am surprised that no one has mentioned that the anus has an overabundance of nerve endings with the potential to experience intense pleasure from the application of a soft silky tongue. It is just one more way to intensify pleasure, just one more tool in the arsenal (no pun intended). I was first introduced to it by my last GF. She did it more for my pleasure than for hers though I know she enjoyed the concept. I have to admit I had mixed feelings as a guy's position can be somewhat undignified depending how you want to allow access. I have also done it for her. She loves it. I enjoyed pleasing her more than being stimulated that way myself. But then she also enjoys Greek.

Carla, I have also noticed that taste and scent may vary from partner to partner though not so much here. But don't forget that we also respond to the pheromones others give off. Maybe that is what is happening here.

No question at all that it's important to play safe here. It's everybody's responsibility to see that SPs are protected not just theirs and that is just common sense. Everyone is part of the process.

In any event I love the intimacy of it. Now if I can just find a different girl who might like to try it...................................

 

[naughtylady]

All I am saying is that if you read the definition of Homosexuality and Lesbianism it is very clear that it involves engaging in sexual acts with a person of the same sex. I

Depends where you are looking up your definition. In the Canadian Oxford dictionary, the first definition is about attraction. The second is about sexual acts. At the academic level, in the most recent sexuality classes I took, (one in the depart ment of applied human sciences, and one in the sociology department) it is about attraction. The difference in the definitions in the Oxford dictionary is actual definition and common definition.

The bottom line is, when it comes to sex, if it feels good, is safe, sane and consensual, who cares what sex you are getting it from?

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

 

[613ottawaguy]

Any new or current sp that provide this service? Along with greek?

 

[Leovinci]

I don't care to have it done to me, but I love rimming a woman. Few things get me as hard as that, pure bliss

 

[613ottawaguy]

Any sp in Montreal good at this?

 

[BMW]

An SP rimmed me without me asking or her telling me she was going to do that. I screamed like I got stabbed.

 

[MrProfiteroles]

I don't care to have it done to me, but I love rimming a woman. Few things get me as hard as that, pure bliss

We call this DATO!

 

[MrProfiteroles]

Any sp in Montreal good at this?

Don't you know it's highly YMMV service and NO SP would like to see her name listed here?

 

[Vera.Reis]

Don't you know it's highly YMMV service and NO SP would like to see her name listed here?

For me, i don't mind people knowing I offer it, I list it on my ad. But you better wash properly, because you pay for it in advance and when I double check with a wet wipe, and it doesn't come out clean, you'll learn that even what you paid for is ymmv if you are disrespectful enough to not clean properly before hand. Though this has only happened once in the probably couple dozen times I've been asked to do it, so, most men are doing a good job. But given the amount of times I've had shit stains on my sheets, I'm absolutely not going to do it in the heat of the moment even though I enjoy it.

 

[montreal_guy00]

For me, i don't mind people knowing I offer it, I list it on my ad. But you better wash properly, because you pay for it in advance and when I double check with a wet wipe, and it doesn't come out clean, you'll learn that even what you paid for is ymmv if you are disrespectful enough to not clean properly before hand. Though this has only happened once in the probably couple dozen times I've been asked to do it, so, most men are doing a good job. But given the amount of times I've had shit stains on my sheets, I'm absolutely not going to do it in the heat of the moment even though I enjoy it.

Shit stains! Really???

 

[Vera.Reis]

Shit stains! Really???

Multiple providers have said this on this site before, don't know why yall are always surprised

 

[DouMan]

Gives a whole new outlook to ...

"my client xyz, huh, a real asshole"

 

[Skym]

I love girls that rim me. Lol

 

[cloudsurf]

I love being rimmed when the girl does it out of her own volition and gets really turned on in the process. I never ask for it although I`ve been asked if I wanted it.