So i want to open myself the same way here on MERB. Obviously some questions will be off limit (Merb rules, obvious privacy etc) but ill try my best to answer all questions from the most candids to the most technical.
Okay HM, since you have been around as long as I have and has read his fair share of reviews, who may understand why this is wrong, my question is: What do you think about members showing little to no respect for SPs privacy when it comes to writing a review and including personal information without their consent?
My take on this is, you can open up a whole load of trouble for an SP by sharing this information with everyone. If a client becomes infatuated and starts to stalk the girl, we have just fed him information to help him in his quest by letting him know where she is from, where she goes to school and other items that could be hurtful.
Also, another scenario, by including certain information, friends, boyfriends and family members can piece things together and figure out who and where she may work. You share where a girl goes to school, where she's from, describe a certain tattoo on a specific place on her body or hidden scars that are known to these people, this is a problem.
Many of these girls may be stars to some of us, but they are not movie stars or rock stars and not need to be in the public eye in this manner. Nor should they ever be ashamed of their profession, but in reality, they do want to keep their private life away from this life and we should respect this.
Some members may understand what I am talking about, because they may of known girls in these scenarios and like I mentioned, some words written can be more hurtful then physical abuse.
This my opinion, take as you may, I am not a white knight, I just like to think outside the box sometimes and to put myself in someone else's shoes for just a minute or two, how will my review effect this individual and does everyone really need to know this information, or am I just adding it to make myself look good in peoples eyes who are in reality, total strangers to me.
So I ask again HM, what is your opinion?
