Sex with condom, no skin contact

[aveline]

Hi guys,

Most of you will probably think i just got paranoid but still))
I have decided for myself that the only way to avoid any STDs is to avoid a skin contact as well. (HPV and HSV are primary reasons)

So, my question is: is it weird to ask an SP to be still (immovable) so that I could control movements and make sure i don't touch her by areas other than condom surface?

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

AKA Sheldon Cooper.

 

[EagerBeaver]

I agree...you reach a point with the paranoia where you just need to stop and bag sex and stick to jerking off. Using nitrile gloves to jerk yourself off into the toilet and then a quick flush is the approach I advocate, and once the toilet is flushed apply Lysol toilet bowl cleaner.

If I were an SP I would be highly offended by your proposal and would walk out, and come back later and leave rubber gloves under your door. Dipped in formaldehyde.

 

[rumpleforeskiin]

Using nitrile gloves to jerk yourself off into the toilet.

Powdered or unpowdered?

 

[aveline]

If I were an SP I would be highly offended by your proposal

oh really? and wouldn't you be highly offended by treating recurring condylomas?
maybe you should back off your stereotypes a bit.

 

[Jay8964]

Maybe you should consider a different hobby ?

 

[EagerBeaver]

oh really? and wouldn't you be highly offended by treating recurring condylomas?
maybe you should back off your stereotypes a bit.

If you have genital warts you should be using nitrile gloves to whack off or you will spread them on your own cock. Genital warts are highly contagious on skin to skin contact.

I stand by my prior statement 100%. All you are going to do is offend people. Unfortunately for you, warts or condylomas are your problem, and not that of your prospective partner. I would suggest to you if the issues are not all capable of being covered by a condom that you practice abstinence and use nitrile gloves on your masturbatory efforts.

The real issue is whether you are going to have a good experience with SPs with this approach. Based on the response of Alyssa which I think is a likely typical reaction, I would say most SPs will react the same way to you. They are not dummies and will know something is wrong. Unless you are completely honest with them, in which case I doubt there will be much enthusiasm by the SP.

 

[aveline]

If you have genital warts you should be using nitrile gloves to whack off or you will spread them on your own cock. Genital warts are highly contagious on skin to skin contact.

Yah, very funny.
I’m married and it’s my wife who is under the risk eventually. I just can’t let it happen.

 

[curious2012]

Nowadays most women have had multiple partners. I personally have been with quite a few (mostly non-sp's) and have used the same procedure (most of the time) for all, condom for intercourse only. And most of the time, if left to the girl's initiative (non-sp's), I could have gone without it. So since it's the sp's livelihood at stake, even if there's quantity involved, they may actually pose less of a risk than a one night stand or a gf that has been sexually active.

Oh and btw, the only std I ever had came from an ex gf 20 years ago. And she had only been with four guys in her life!

Like EB said, abstinence (or death) :lol: is the only way to be 100% safe.

 

[EagerBeaver]

In my mind SPs are safer because many very sexually active women are going to bars, getting drunk, and as a result are sloppy in what they are doing, and they are also having unprotected intercourse. SPs are not having unprotected intercourse in most cases. Unprotected intercourse is where genital warts usually is transmitted - skin to skin contact. So to conclude that SPs are riskier than the average sexually active woman you meet at a bar is foolish and not particularly analytical. SPs are likely safer.

 

[curious2012]

So to conclude that SPs are riskier than the average sexually active woman you meet at a bar is foolish and not particularly analytical. SPs are likely safer.

EB
Not sure if that was in response to my post, but in any case that's what I was saying too.

"So since it's the sp's livelihood at stake, even if there's quantity involved, they may actually pose less of a risk than a one night stand or a gf that has been sexually active."

 

[EagerBeaver]

EB Not sure if that was in response to my post, but in any case that's what I was saying too.

I was trying to corroborate your conclusion with specific reasons (intoxication, unprotected intercourse etc.).

 

[aveline]

thank you guys for answers.
probably i should really realize this fact.

 

[THEHITMAN]

If you have a wife its probably best trying a different hobby if you want to protect her?

 

[aveline]

well, being with the only woman for about 10 years is quite tough.
it's a difficult question.

 

[curious2012]

It's like anything else in life....you have to be ready to deal with the consequences of your actions. Unlike income tax :lol: ...there's just no getting around it!

 

[EagerBeaver]

well, stick with MP then if you are that worried about your wife's health...

Alyssa, genital warts are easily passed by skin to skin contact and if he goes to an MP she will get wart virus on her hands unless she uses nitrile gloves at his behest. Same thing with masturbation, warts can be spread along one's own cock and testicles if gloves are not used. The other thing is if the MP strokes him off and she merely washes with soap, that will not kill wart virus. The next client is then in jeopardy of having the virus passed onto his penis. So some of the MP clients on this board are not going to be very happy with or appreciative of your post.

This is all info discussed in numerous prior threads on this board and also generally available on the Internet.

 

[wasisname]

Oh and btw, the only std I ever had came from an ex gf 20 years ago. And she had only been with four guys in her life!

So you have been tested for everything. HPV HSV? Most people who have them will never know.

SPs are not having unprotected intercourse in most cases. Unprotected intercourse is where genital warts usually is transmitted - skin to skin contact. So to conclude that SPs are riskier than the average sexually active woman you meet at a bar is foolish and not particularly analytical. SPs are likely safer.

With the stuff that condoms are protective against, sure. However if you use the condom the STD status of the female in question is much less important.

However skin to skin contacts like HPV and HSV can be transmitted in areas around the genitals not covered by the condom. IIRC it condoms are only about 50% protective give or take. A gal seeing enough guys a day every day, it is only a matter of time before she gets it condom or not. However you may be lucky and never get a wart or a sore, but you can still pass it on. From what I've read if a female has a boyfriend a year in university odds are she will pick up one of the genitally based HPV [Oddly of the 130 types of HPV many prefer different parts of the body.]

If you really wanted to be safe, for example if you had a wife and didn't want to bring home a gift, avoiding base to base contact would be ideal.

As for the glove advice. Of the many things I've read on the subject, that is the first I've seen it come up. Unless you are being very ahem, handy with multiple people I guess.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

I once had a potential friend, also on the paranoid side ,asking me to " garantee" hobbying was safe, I told him the only safe way was to continue not having sex with his wife...living has risks, you just have to find your threshold.
finally after 2 months (I know I am very patient loll) of questions and answer, he booked me, guess what? The morning of the meeting he emailed me " his conscience didn't allow him to meet..." (!?)...Guys nobody is forcing you to meet ,and no he was not a pretty young thing with angst but a grown man who should know himself better... I said fine good luck...And since that he keeps writing back that this time , he will make it to the motel...huuu...no? I am nice but not stupid...One thing I have no patience is playing games...
I always say, in life if you are going to do something and regret it or feel guilty about it, don't do it...if you do...enjoy...

 

[Aryaan]

get a inflatable doll