Hungry101, I believed that was the case. We also have a private forum. The fact that the OP has exact quotes from the SP only forum means either he somewhat gained access to it or a girl shared the info with him. Which makes me really sad.
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2fast2slow, fair enough. However SWers get killed all around the world, all the time. Predators know we can't exactly report them to the authorities which puts us in a dangerous position. Let's not kid ourselves here.
Yes, but it doesn't have to be girls. It can be agency owners which can be both sexes and anyone with the right privileges that would allow them access to that section of MERB could have given him that information.
That's true. But I think that just means from now on we know where NOT to post. Although that is not fail proof, but still.
I tried to read as much on the post as i could but it is indeed a long post, i scimmed over some parts but one thing that come out of it is this...
So basically you are requesting "very unusual" services from providers you never met before, correct? My advice would be to not go that route. I know some clients get away with it. I heard stories either directly from said clients or by providers that some clients do rougher sessions and/or bondage/fetishes on first meeting. I think its something you should build some chemistry/trust with the provider first unless said providers is very into these things and said it publicaly/advertised it many times. It does concern me a bit reading that the blacklist thing happened by former unicorns? Cause unless they changed there services since (possible its the case) cathering to special type of services was basically their speciality. It means what you did/tried to do was very pushy or unusual even for them. I read esoteric sessions? Whats that? Some kind of dark ritual roleplay?
Honestly man i don't think there is any harm in asking for PSE services like greek/cim/cof or such. Its usually a clear yes or no. You know what to expect. And i doubt you could be blacklisted for asking about that... But when you go into "unsure" territory either on very rough or very demanding sessions, then it may indeed scare the provider for a first time. Read the reviews, know a bit what the provider you seeing is into, then maybe ask clearly what you want. But saying "whats your limit" always have a "scary connotation", as it sound like you want to go on the fence of said limits even if you don't intend to push them.
There is a few providers i seen wich i got a little more "rougher" or in one case did a roleplay with. But i had either saw them before, or talked to them in parties or social media and be certain its something they would be down for. I usually ask at the end how it was on there "scale" and usually i get answers like 2/10 or such... My "rougher" side is surely nowhere near as some clients lol.
Whats important is always making sure the person you with feel at ease.
As for the recent murders part i think he may just have mixed Montreal and Quebec City, but in any case no matter the city its indeed a scary thing and i understand providers being more nervous. Its not like Quebec City is very far...
So basically you are requesting "very unusual" services from providers you never met before, correct? My advice would be to not go that route. I know some clients get away with it. I heard stories either directly from said clients or by providers that some clients do rougher sessions and/or bondage/fetishes on first meeting. I think its something you should build some chemistry/trust with the provider first unless said providers is very into these things and said it publicaly/advertised it many times. It does concern me a bit reading that the blacklist thing happened by former unicorns? Cause unless they changed there services since (possible its the case) cathering to special type of services was basically their speciality. It means what you did/tried to do was very pushy or unusual even for them. I read esoteric sessions? Whats that? Some kind of dark ritual roleplay?
Honestly man i don't think there is any harm in asking for PSE services like greek/cim/cof or such. Its usually a clear yes or no. You know what to expect. And i doubt you could be blacklisted for asking about that... But when you go into "unsure" territory either on very rough or very demanding sessions, then it may indeed scare the provider for a first time. Read the reviews, know a bit what the provider you seeing is into, then maybe ask clearly what you want. But saying "whats your limit" always have a "scary connotation", as it sound like you want to go on the fence of said limits even if you don't intend to push them.
There is a few providers i seen wich i got a little more "rougher" or in one case did a roleplay with. But i had either saw them before, or talked to them in parties or social media and be certain its something they would be down for. I usually ask at the end how it was on there "scale" and usually i get answers like 2/10 or such... My "rougher" side is surely nowhere near as some clients lol.
Whats important is always making sure the person you with feel at ease.
As for the recent murders part i think he may just have mixed Montreal and Quebec City, but in any case no matter the city its indeed a scary thing and i understand providers being more nervous. Its not like Quebec City is very far...
He booked some GFE providers and then proceeded to be really rough. I just read their whole review threads and no reviews mention the services he then imposed in the session. He did see some ex-unicorns who were perhaps more upfront regarding their services as that is how they used to proceed. GFE doesn't include COF, Deepthroat, etc, and YET....
HM, you are spot on. It's not that hard to figure out when a provider is uncomfortable, in pain or tired.
HM, you are spot on. It's not that hard to figure out when a provider is uncomfortable, in pain or tired.
I see. Yeah those are more on the PSE side. COF is something i really like but ill always ask first. I would not expect it from providers listed as "GFE" only. Sometimes you can have a nice surprise tough so cost nothing to ask, but if its no then its no. Personally i always tell the providers i am with that if something bother them to just let me know, ill stop and adjust. Can be something totally "innocent" on paper like for instance a provider may hate having her hairs grabbed (not pull or anything, but just grabbed while BJs or in missionary) , stuff you can't really know and just seem to go natural for you. But if its the case and they tell me, ill be carefull not to do it.
Other things as you say you can see visually by yourself.
Other things as you say you can see visually by yourself.
Hi April! Is this your way of suggesting that I was violent? Or that I took the condom off? Because as you know, no one even accuses me of doing either of those things, right? So you're bringing them up because....
I hate to pick on anyone, but HM brings up a very good point. Former Unicorns are known for pushing boundaries. So if something occurred that's too "extreme" for even their limits, you really gotta wonder.
And btw, it wasn't that hard to find the tweet in question on Twitter. I'm not sure if this is from the SP's correspondence that had to cancel, the substitute, or someone else just relaying the message that she overheard. But the SP represented by the tweeter is considered one of the best SPs of Montreal and has a solid reputation in terms of niceness, generosity, pretty open limits, etc. So this also casts even more doubt about the OP of this thread.
It wasn't smart of the OP to post a sarcastic reply to the tweet about the "APB" either. You had a chance to explain yourself nicely,and you blew it.
Anyways live and learn. By that token, there are always two sides to every story.
My name is not April and no my answer was to Hungry's question, not because that's what you did. Those were reasons for one to be blacklisted, but they are not an exhaustive list of all that can get you blacklisted.
April, come off it. I spent an overnight with Judy Fox. She is no "ex-unicorn" and she has nothing bad to say. Neither does Kendall or Priscilla at XO, or Daryn at Vogue. You're just making stuff up at this point. I Ddn't impose any services on anyone..
Yeah, asking "what's your limit?" Is kind of a cop out. It seems like an excuse to then say, "well, you didn't say this wasn't okay."
Again, this does not mean you didn't act badly with other providers. Both the providers in question are currently on vacation, which means they can't offer their side of things. You also wrote reviews of some girls who did say that they enjoyed their time with you, but to watch out. So really the fact that you think it went well doesn't mean it was the case for both parties.
Really? Sounds like Rose is one of the few providers that's willing to still keep an open mind, imho.
Rose, There is no way for me to prove anything about what happened in these encounters, and it was not my intention to do so with the post. My intention was to explain my experience. I have no idea when anyone goes on vacation, your suggestion that I timed my post because I know SWs' vacation schedules is ridiculous. I understand you want to defend the blacklisting as justified, but making stuff up is not the way to do it. If you will read what I wrote, I am essentially saying I understand why it happened, just that it was unnecessarily harsh. You are not really responding to what I said, you are just attacking me. Is that productive?
Right, there is no way for me to prove I didn't act badly with some providers. I can't prove the negative.
Does that justify you accusing me of doing things that no provider who has been with me claims I did? On the grounds that I can't disprove it?
It really does sound like OP did something he shouldn’t have. Got caught with his hand in a cookie jar. And is now crying about it
Fact is. Maybe your behaviour with the sp you name was not the same as the ones you did not.
Not hard to guess what kind of things you are looking for if you tried booking ex muh girls like Melodie (who is on vacation).
Suck it up as a lesson learnt. You won’t win this one. Move on
Fact is. Maybe your behaviour with the sp you name was not the same as the ones you did not.
Not hard to guess what kind of things you are looking for if you tried booking ex muh girls like Melodie (who is on vacation).
Suck it up as a lesson learnt. You won’t win this one. Move on
Stephen, attacking and insulting Rose who just pointed out some facts is totally uncalled for. Here are a couple of other facts. Your indiscretion in a review resulted in an agency escort being fired.
The most incriminating evidence against you is that of all people to start a blacklist motion against you on twitter, were ex Unicorn women....some of whom are among the most popular on Merb.
The most incriminating evidence against you is that of all people to start a blacklist motion against you on twitter, were ex Unicorn women....some of whom are among the most popular on Merb.
This is not a court of law. The girl do not have to prove anything. They just give feedback to their colleagues. We should not try to look for justice when the only thing the girl are trying to do is stay safe...
cheers,
ps I wonder what’s written under my handle in their database... probably something like...:
Il se pense hotshot... Bof... c’est un gentil moron. Parfait client.
cheers,
ps I wonder what’s written under my handle in their database... probably something like...:
Il se pense hotshot... Bof... c’est un gentil moron. Parfait client.
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