Should we send flowers to our favorite sp/mp or stripper on Valentine day

[marc7]

I remember sending a nice bouquet of flowers to Misha for Valentine Day! ... She was working a Candy's on Sainte cath and Saint mathieu around 2002/2004. I was very found of her ! She was barmaid stripper shooter girl , everything to make your night go wild and it did ! Don't remember why I couldn't bring myself these flowers to her, was lonely at that time but surely some family function. It was a big bouquet of roses that i gave to a taxi driver nearby with a tip of 20$ and the address of the strip club and my cell number if anything ! The funny thing was to receive a call from a very religious Haitian taxi driver , i dint tell him it was a strip club .He was asking me why the Jesusl i was sending him down the stairs to hell to sinful place that he was a man of god.... But she still received the flowers ! After when a saw her , she told me that she was very pleased to receive those flowers but she had a boyfriend in prison ! Saw her a lots of time after that but it never went further, another deadend ...

Women do love to receive flowers even if they say they don't ! And what a best time than Valentine day to send some flowers to our regular ( more than 2/3 times and not having an OCD over her) to hour favorite stripper sp/mp with a simple word that we appreciate they work on us when we have our heart broken, lost some part of hour head , shoes filled of snow walking around or all or quirks of hobbyist !
It's a nice gesture hoping that the next rendez-vous will be even more pleasant!

For independant sp it will be more dificult but for the others just call or check when their working call the agency or parlor and send it to the front desk! Dont do it anynomous , put your name and a few nice word !
It should not be creepy if you do it with no other intention and nothing more than to give a warm smile on your fav Gfe masseuse or stripper and it feels great to be nice to someone .

 

[TheDon]

Stocking out a working girl to give her flowers is creepy!!!

If you want to give a girl flowers give it to her in person.

 

[marc7]

There's a big gap between stoking and being nice to someone . Maturity and confidence that you want only to be nice and nothing more ! You don't want to be a predator . And it's nice to give a flower to women , see her smile but you have to sure about your emotion about what you feel ! I'm a lost romantic and I assume it!

 

[sampson]

Don't forget when you are giving then flowers and/ or chocolates to include a big thick envelope of money, this is what they find really touching. It brings tears to there eyes every time. Pass the sugar

 

[marc7]

Don't forget when you are giving then flowers and/ or chocolates to include a big thick envelope of money, this is what they find really touching. It brings tears to there eyes every time. Pass the sugar

Great answer ! I wonder if you dream of electric sheap ! ( blade runner )
The thickness of the envelope can never baffle the sound of the hart of a courtinsane/stripper. Those who put their hart give us the best service , the best chemistry!

 

[Lily from Montreal]

As long as you make sure there is no significant other of course it is nice to receive flowers and chocolate, when there is it can makes for a bit of creative explanations...still worth it..and disregard samson advice...too cynical , I love Valentine day...don't rain on my parade!

 

[SylvainP]

S'il y a un lien spécial avec elle, et comme le dit Liliy, tout est clair entre vous deux, pourquoi pas? Il y a une masseuse que je voie souvent et, lors de notre rencontre anniversaire, je lui amène des fleurs et du chocolat.

 

[Doc Holliday]

The answer to the question is a definite NO.

Ninety percent of the time, these encounters are nothing more than a business transaction & even though you both might get along great, for the ladies in question it's still work, which in fact it is.

Most of them prefer keeping business & their personal lives separate. You may be the nicest guy & they may have the greatest time with you, but in the end, you're basically just a john & a means for them to make revenue & pay the bills.

However, i have no problem with giving an sp a gift or token of appreciation when you see her. So if you happen to see a favorite sp on St-Valentine's Day and you feel like giving her a St-Valentine's gift, then go ahead and do it. However, there always is the possibility that an sp might take this the wrong way and start thinking you're somewhat obsessed with her & seeing her for the wrong reasons.

p.s. I have given gifts in the past to favorite sps as a token of appreciation. For example, i have either given them Godiva chocholate or a gift certificate from La Senza. One time i gave an sp a copy of a Sarah McLaughlan CD that i had bought. She appeared legitimately happy to receive the gift since SM was one of her favorite artists. Today i realize that i was a cheap fuck by giving her just a copy instead of the original CD itself. Sure, they often say it's the thought that counts, but there are times that it's better not to give anything than appearing like a cheap fuck. One other sp told me that once, a client in Boston gave her a $10 tip. She told me that he might as well should have kept the $10 since to her it made him look fucking cheap. As she told me "$10!!!! What the hell am i gonna do with $10???" She told me she smiled and pretended to be very happy at his small (very small!!) token of appreciation. WHAT A CHEAP FUCK!

 

[Doc Holliday]

Don't forget when you are giving then flowers and/ or chocolates to include a big thick envelope of money, this is what they find really touching. It brings tears to there eyes every time. Pass the sugar

I agree. The most important 'gift' is that thick envelope full of $20 bills. They also love $50 & $100 bills. Heck, i do also!

 

[Siocnarf]

Just be yourself. If you want to distribute flowers do it. Either she will like it or throw them away, but it's not like you have to worry about making just the exact right decision as if it was your wife or girlfriend. That's what is great about escort, so long as you are respectful it's easier to just be yourself. Worst that can happen is that you will make the florist happy. Why do they put Valentine's day in winter? I think it's because people won't be able to pick their own flowers and they will be able to sell more.

 

[EagerBeaver]

I don't believe any gift is appropriate for Valentine's Day. Valentine's Day is a holiday to celebrate girlfriends, wives, boyfriends and husbands. It is not to celebrate people we do business with. Did you buy gifts for your business clients? Gifts to an SP may be appropriate on other occasions and for other reasons, but on Valentine's Day, a gift stamps "stalker" right across your forehead, just like Brad Pitt carved the swastika on Chris Walsz's forehead at the end of the movie Inglorious Basterds.

Totally inappropriate.

 

[Siocnarf]

She told me that he might as well should have kept the $10 since to her it made him look fucking cheap.

A 10$ tip is nothing to get euphoric about, but the fact that she would whine about it to other clients, what does that make her? She can just give it to the Unicef if she has no need for it. The first escort I was with, I was totally clueless at the time and I tried to tip her 60$ (I didn't want to appear cheap, you see). She refused to take that much and told me it was way too high.

About gifts or flowers, I think it would be more the fact of getting them delivered that could seem too much. If you happen to see her around Valentine's or Christmas or Robomadan, you can bring her a little gift, but a delivery out of the blue would seem like trying too hard. Plus it might come at an inconvenient time and she might be embarrassed.

 

[CWipes]

If anyone wants to get me a envelope of 50's I'd appreciate it. I can also accept transfers via PayPal but I don't like their transaction fees. I also accept gold in bar form...

Doesn't have to be for Valentine's day either, any day of the week will be fine...

 

[_PHANTOM_]

No....thats my answer

 

[Halloween Mike]

One other sp told me that once, a client in Boston gave her a $10 tip. She told me that he might as well should have kept the $10 since to her it made him look fucking cheap. As she told me "$10!!!! What the hell am i gonna do with $10???" She told me she smiled and pretended to be very happy at his small (very small!!) token of appreciation. WHAT A CHEAP FUCK![/I]

Well i guess that is a 800$/H SP or something... I see nothing wrong in giving a SP that you see at 190$ a 10$ tip and make it 200. If she is 180, then 20$ tip to make it 200... As a matter of fact most members here expressed the most they will go is 200 or 220 at best in rare case of an SP that they really want to see. For having been , yet shortly, on the other side of the track i can say that its not rare clients don't tip, and in some case its the regulars that see lots of girls that don't tip... They think "hey i call often, so im a good client" ... no need to tip, even tough they paid 170$/h.... I guess i should put a "the views expressed in this comment belong to the author and do not reflect the compagny view" lol . But personally i see this as being very cheap ass. If you got the money to call once or twice a week... dude cmon add a little 10 or 20$ tip...

Me personally... under 200 i will always tip, unless service was crap or circonstance happened that i end up shortended(replacement for exemple of the SP i was supose to view at a certain price). Over 200... depends, but i may go to 220 to give a tip if service was really nice. Over 220 i usually won't tip unless i pay an extra, in that case the extra is the tip to me...

As for gifts, i don't think a gift has to be super expensive... I know for a fact some clients gives HUGE gifts sometimes, wich is awesome, but if your a good dude, you have not that much money and yet you tip and gives a small gift as in "i tough about you" then why not? I wouldn't even think of giving a gift to an SP i see for the first time or i don't know much ... But once you develop a chemistry, and you have a feeling the person apreciate you even tough yes your still a client, then a small token may mean something. Or maybe not... but in any case, if she dislike the gift and trash it, at least you didn't waste lots of money...

As for the title of the thread itself... well i feel if you see your favorite around valentine's day, then sure why not bring her a couple roses... its cute, its nice, why not... does not have to be on the same exact valentine day, can be anywhere in febuary. I feel most girls would think nice of it, but will not take your for a stalker or anything... lol.

 

[marc7]

I'm not going to send flowers to my doctor , dentist or mechanic even if their are super nice ! My hairdresser could be ! She's super nice and she will have a good laugh about it, it's been lots of year I go see her ! I think we are more faithful to our hairdresser than any one else! I'm not seeing any provider lately but next one I will bring flowers and see her smile ! She's not going to pay the rent with it and I don't think hydro accepts box of chocolate as payment ! We do pay for service but nothing stop us to be pleasant and they always give us a something more ! No one is special until we make them special .

 

[Lily from Montreal]

CWipes...you would have to deliver something to deserve thoses 5o's...are you up to the task? It is not as easy money as some of you thinks...

But as for the answer to the thread HM comments covered it all...

I want to qualify what I wrote beforehand...I think it is a nice touch if you see her but delivering flowers should be reserved to real life relation...

 

[sampson]

No one is special until we make them special .

If you want to make the escort that you are paying for sex feel really special not only is it important to give them flowers and chocolates when you see them but it is just as important to have the right music on to set the mood. Here is what i have on when they enter the room, it puts a smile on their face every time and they indeed feel very special

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dw7rzpvDvS0

 

[shebah]

"Should we send flowers to our favorite sp/mp or stripper on Valentine day."

I would not send flowers because Valentine's day is supposed to be about the person you love.

 

[anon_vlad]

There is no such thing as a common sex worker profile. Their motives for being in the business, ages, demeanors, attitudes towards clients, personal living arrangements and lives vary widely.

Some will be enchanted to receive any gift and some even will be shocked at any act of kindness. Others will toss your flowers in the garbage either because they can't take them home or they would have preferred cash and consider that you wasted their tip money.

Therefore, in my opinion, there is no answer fitting all SPs for the question of this thread.