Showers, who are these guys ruining it for everyone.

[T'storm]

I do agree to the shower before the session...that is automatic with me.
I have seen many different style of shower offered...one that still upsets me was the lady said she took a shower just before I arrived. I appreciated that..I told her that I wanted to shower before starting...I enter the bathroom...start the taps to get the desired temperature of water, undress and wait for water to warm up....4-5 minutes goes by...still cold. Okay! taps are reversed...turn the other tap on only wait 4-5 minutes still cold water..WTF? I still took a cold shower despite being frozen...I hope she is warm enough to keep me from shivering like a motor running on a few cylinders instead of all of them. At this point I wonder if she did take a cold shower before me and maybe she used all the hot water and left me with nothing but cold water?
On another date she didn't force me to shower before because she asked if I showered before leaving home...Yes I did! After getting really intimate she wanted to please me with licking my anus(is this still called DATO on a man?), so she used a baby wipe on my back door and she was surprised how clean I was. No shit Sherlock(pun intended) I have a bidet at home that I love using before any special event...she says that many guys still have residue from wiping. Just saying...

 

[Shantie_mtl]

When do you think is the best timing to take the shower.. at the arrival of after a chat ?

 

[steed]

When do you think is the best timing to take the shower.. at the arrival of after a chat ?

After the chat , mutual drying off on the way to the bedroom

 

[Seven007]

After the chat , mutual drying off on the way to the bedroom

There’s no mutual drying off because the girls apparently “shower” and do their makeup and hair before we get there.

 

[Halloween Mike]

When do you think is the best timing to take the shower.. at the arrival of after a chat ?

In my case its right as i arrive after the "hello, im HM, nice to meet you". The reason is im not comfortable starting right away as i get out of the shower. Its weird, i feel "wet" despite drying off and its just not a good feeling. So using the 10-12m of chit chat for that part make it 2 birds 1 stone. If i talked 10 min, showered, then waited another 10 min it would make it almost 30 mins before anything start, wich is too long.

 

[David Sel et Poivre]

When do you think is the best timing to take the shower.. at the arrival of after a chat ?

Upon arrival, then chat, then

 

[hob12]

I usually take it pretty fast after a few salutations. I'd rather have a chat after so we can transition to the "main event" without being interrupted.

 

[Shantie_mtl]

There’s no mutual drying off because the girls apparently “shower” and do their makeup and hair before we get there.

Why apperently ? I always refresh few min before the person is coming why I ask exact time

 

[Fradi]

A little after arriving after a bit of a chat and a glass of wine.

 

[Jordangoat23]

When do you think is the best timing to take the shower.. at the arrival of after a chat ?

Right after paying

 

[Shantie_mtl]

I do like .. get pay.. shower and after chill ... but I know some girls prefer char and after go in the shower.. but I find it's interrompt the session

 

[Shantie_mtl]

Would you like to be kiss at front of the door or later ... ?

 

[Leto41]

Would you like to be kiss at front of the door or later ... ?

Tout est dans le premier regard. You know if you kiss now or later and thi s

Would you like to be kiss at front of the door or later ... ?

…this is a matter of vibe when you look at her and she looks at you

 

[Shantie_mtl]

Tout est dans le premier regard. You know if you kiss now or later and thi s

…this is a matter of vibe when you look at her and she looks at you

Yes .. but if I give space to the person when she come .. or I look at her really close it's to way to open the door

 

[Julia Sky]

Would you like to be kiss at front of the door or later ... ?

This is such a good question because I enjoy kissing and often do it very early on. So many of the clients who see me love this. BUT one time I kissed a client when he arrived and 2mins later he left because I wasn't his type, I spent the rest of the week feeling like I had sexually assaulted him. Wouldn't have kissed him had I known I wasn't his type. I still feel bad about it tbh.

 

[Hemme]

This is such a good question because I enjoy kissing and often do it very early on. So many of the clients who see me love this. BUT one time I kissed a client when he arrived and 2mins later he left because I wasn't his type, I spent the rest of the week feeling like I had sexually assaulted him. Wouldn't have kissed him had I known I wasn't his type. I still feel bad about it ..tbh.

Please assault me as much as you wish. I ll tell you right at bat i m not into balls busting.Not all men are into kissing; Both take a chance at first meeting

 

[Jordangoat23]

I do like .. get pay.. shower and after chill ... but I know some girls prefer char and after go in the shower.. but I find it's interrompt the session

Agreed I don’t like to chat right out of the gate, there’s plenty of time for that after the first shower & the SOG.

 

[Fradi]

This is such a good question because I enjoy kissing and often do it very early on. So many of the clients who see me love this. BUT one time I kissed a client when he arrived and 2mins later he left because I wasn't his type, I spent the rest of the week feeling like I had sexually assaulted him. Wouldn't have kissed him had I known I wasn't his type. I still feel bad about it tbh.

You can assault me any time lol

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

I also take a shower at home just before arriving to my incall or outcall AND still freshen up at arrival to be 100% sure I dont smell. I think its just normal

 

[Lunaseraphim]

This is such a good question because I enjoy kissing and often do it very early on. So many of the clients who see me love this. BUT one time I kissed a client when he arrived and 2mins later he left because I wasn't his type, I spent the rest of the week feeling like I had sexually assaulted him. Wouldn't have kissed him had I known I wasn't his type. I still feel bad about it tbh.

I relate to this. Some clients complain that I'm shy, but I actually don't want to do anything non consensual. It's not even just about being someone's type. You never know what happened to somebody before. I'm sorry this guy left tho, it's really shitty.