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I’ve always wondered. Tend to dress well, in general, but particularly when visiting an SP as I believe in the importance of first impressions.
Ladies, do you notice and, if so, what do you notice and how does that potentially impact a session?
 
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I am always a bit disappointed when someone is wearing sweatpants. Luckily, it doesn't happen often and mostly they're younger guys whom I don't see frequently.
Why are you disappointed? I'm just curious, since presumably in an incall the object is not to go out and be seen in public, and the clothes are meant to come off in short order. I have to admit that I'm curious about this, and struggle to see why it's relevant, but my point of view may be different. As long as the client is clean, and in clean clothes, behaves well and is polite, what possible difference does it make? I'm not trying to downplay anyone's personal preferences here, and everyone is entitled to theirs, I just don't understand it. If they are only clothed when they walk in the door and then when they walk out the door an hour later is it important? I do understand that it's important to a bunch of the ladies, but I don't understand why. Is it indicative of something? Do better dressed people tip better? Act better? Better in bed? More likely to be interesting? What's the appeal? Can someone explain it to me?

Now, if the idea is to do a social date I completely understand why the preference would be for the gentleman to be well dressed and appropriately dressed for the occasion. That's not just common sense, it's good manners and is respectful of your companion.
 

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I guess I consider seeing an SP a date like any other with a young lady ( except here you don’t need to worry about getting lucky).
I will dress according to the occasion. Smart casual if we are staying indoors or going to a regular restaurant, hockey game etc… . If it is to Gibbys or somewhere more formal a suit and tie.
I don’t think it matters too much for them, it is more of what I am used to doing and how I feel comfortable.
 

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Because to me sweatpants are pyjamas just as leggings are gymwear.
Is that for when you're going out, or staying in, or both? As a matter of curiousity do you dress casual/pretty or going out/pretty for your dates, and do you prefer that the gentleman match your level of dress or is it simply that he should not be excessively casual?
 

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I do notice because I'm interested in fashion generally, but I won't treat a client differently because he's wearing a bad outfit. I'm more concerned with his personality and his hygiene. Obviously if a client is well dressed and smells good, it could have a positive impact on our experience but more often than not the clothes get taken off pretty fast lol
 

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Is that for when you're going out, or staying in, or both? As a matter of curiousity do you dress casual/pretty or going out/pretty for your dates, and do you prefer that the gentleman match your level of dress or is it simply that he should not be excessively casual?
Come to think of it, if I'm going to be out with a client, I appreciate if he's well dressed, depending on the occasion. I like clients to tell me their expectations when it comes to fashion choices.. Sometimes clients want us to be casual, I always have a hard time believing it and my version of casual will be a little bit fancy lol I would never be rude to a client because I don't like his outfit or because he's dressed casually tho..
 

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Because to me sweatpants are pyjamas just as leggings are gymwear.
The most important gentleman’s attire is underneath . It should emphasize good hygiene and cleanliness. Something like dark boxers in combination with a white or light colored t-shirt. Preferably all new or just fresh from the laundry. The modest amount of a not cheap soft cologne is the must.
 
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The most important gentleman’s attire is underneath . It should emphasize good hygiene and cleanliness. Something like dark boxers in combination with a white or light colored t-shirt. Preferably all new or just fresh from the laundry. The modest amount of a not cheap soft cologne is the must.
I love when a client has a nice smelling, light cologne. :) It's so sexy to me when a man feels good. I also agree with wearing clean and nice underwear, not that we get to see them for long. Ultimately when a client is coming to see me at my incall or I'm meeting him at a hotel, I want him to feel comfortable. However for an outing I think it's nice to make a bit of an effort.
 
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I am always a bit disappointed when someone is wearing sweatpants. Luckily, it doesn't happen often and mostly they're younger guys whom I don't see frequently.
Thats what we call "des joggings" in Quebec slang right? Honestly, even me ... i would feel weird going to an incall with that. It happened a few times i had a few pairs of pants ready to be washed and needed to go to the convenient store nearby to grab a monster or a few beers and i put these on cause ...whatever, im just there to grab something fast. But i wouldn't "go out" properly with these.

That said, i wear cargo pants. Not sure what is the "fashion police" (saying it playfully) verdict on those, but ever since i started wearing this as a teenager i just never stopped. Its what im comfy in. I love having multiple pockets, i love the "baggy" style. I don't think i could wear jeans anymore nowadays (unless they come with someone who have "good jeans" if you know what i mean lol). That said i have the excuses of being a bigger guy so its harder for me to find good pants that fit well. My weight has varried a lot in the latest years between 205 and 290 so i always go for larger (and wear a belt) that way i don't end up with pants i can't wear anymore.
 

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I love when a client has a nice smelling, light cologne. :) It's so sexy to me when a man feels good. I also agree with wearing clean and nice underwear, not that we get to see them for long. Ultimately when a client is coming to see me at my incall or I'm meeting him at a hotel, I want him to feel comfortable. However for an outing I think it's nice to make a bit of an effort.
I'm taking down notes ;);)
 
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Thats what we call "des joggings" in Quebec slang right? Honestly, even me ... i would feel weird going to an incall with that. It happened a few times i had a few pairs of pants ready to be washed and needed to go to the convenient store nearby to grab a monster or a few beers and i put these on cause ...whatever, im just there to grab something fast. But i wouldn't "go out" properly with these.

That said, i wear cargo pants. Not sure what is the "fashion police" (saying it playfully) verdict on those, but ever since i started wearing this as a teenager i just never stopped. Its what im comfy in. I love having multiple pockets, i love the "baggy" style. I don't think i could wear jeans anymore nowadays (unless they come with someone who have "good jeans" if you know what i mean lol). That said i have the excuses of being a bigger guy so its harder for me to find good pants that fit well. My weight has varried a lot in the latest years between 205 and 290 so i always go for larger (and wear a belt) that way i don't end up with pants i can't wear anymore.
In my personal life I wear a lot of baggy clothes so I get it entirely lol I like being cozy
 

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Thats what we call "des joggings" in Quebec slang right? Honestly, even me ... i would feel weird going to an incall with that. It happened a few times i had a few pairs of pants ready to be washed and needed to go to the convenient store nearby to grab a monster or a few beers and i put these on cause ...whatever, im just there to grab something fast. But i wouldn't "go out" properly with these.
Oui, des joggings! I hesitated to say "it's something you wear to go to the convenience store and nowhere else". Teens are wearing joggings all day long, that's what's trendy. I understand how comfortable they are, but I wouldn't go out in those.
 
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